If your partner had a weird fetish, would you indulge it? Watch

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I think I'd be up for most things tbh. At least just to try lol. Maybe not cutting / anything that would cause injury mind you (and I doubt I would be up for watersports or scat).
I think I managed to scare one of my friends by mentioning something about having sex with a girl while she's on her period isn't out of bounds lol.
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(Original post by RightSaidJames)
One question I was once asked was "if someone asked you to cut them [not seriously or dangerously] while in bed, would you do it?" Me and the girl who asked the question were the only people in the group to say yes.
I say 'yes' as well.
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(Original post by RightSaidJames)
One question I was once asked was "if someone asked you to cut them [not seriously or dangerously] while in bed, would you do it?" Me and the girl who asked the question were the only people in the group to say yes.
I wouldn't - I think that could open a scary door.

To the original question - so long as I wasn't disgusted or would be hurt in any way by the idea sure. :p:
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If my girlfriend had a fetish, I hope she would tell me of course. Whether we acted on the fetish would depend on the balance of how strongly she felt it vs. my revulsion, if any. I think I could do pretty much anything if she felt it was important to her, but I would not want to regularly be humiliated as a matter of habit. Also, knowing that a particular fetish turned her on would be a turn on for me, a kind of fetish-by-proxy.

I think discussing a fetish or fantasy is best done during foreplay and sex, and actually starting to act something out almost has to be. It needs to feel a little spontaneous not clinically planned and timetabled. It needs a spirit of fun. It is playing after all.
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(Original post by nuodai)
Depends. Generally I'd go for it, unless it sounded particularly dangerous, very painful or just plain disgusting (vomit, fæces, urine, other various bodily fluids...) or humiliating.
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***?
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(Original post by Profesh)
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***?
"Various other" doesn't mean "all other"

So *** is fine.
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(Original post by Erradhadh)
I say 'yes' as well.
In theory, I don't see why I wouldn't; in practice, however, I can imagine that the cognitive-dissonance of my drawing blood in a calculated, methodical fashion from someone whose life and well-being are likely of paramount emotional importance to me is something that I would find, psychologically, altogether untenable. I could never intentionally scar or otherwise irrevocably disfigure my partner, however slightly.
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Yeah, I'm pretty open minded.
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Their are some weird fetishes Like extremly wierd,

If it was like foot fetish or Something alongthem lines then yes, But ones like licking someones behind no thank you
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Certainly nothing involving a 3rd/4th/5th etc person - then you're getting into really dangerous territory. Nothing that would endanger anyone eg. asphyxiation, infections from poo. Nothing that's going to ruin my sheets without some financial renumeration!! Otherwise, if it was really going to make him happy, I'd probably at least entertain the idea.
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(Original post by michaela_banana)
Certainly nothing involving a 3rd/4th/5th etc person - then you're getting into really dangerous territory. Nothing that would endanger anyone eg. asphyxiation, infections from poo. Nothing that's going to ruin my sheets without some financial renumeration!! Otherwise, if it was really going to make him happy, I'd probably at least entertain the idea.
I just got a mental image of someone saying to their boyfriend 'you want to pee on me? Well, alright, if you must. But you owe me ten quid for the sheets. In advance, thank you very much'.:p:
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Originally Posted by Phantom Phoenix
I just got a mental image of someone saying to their boyfriend 'you want to pee on me? Well, alright, if you must. But you owe me ten quid for the sheets. In advance, thank you very much'.
Of course! And he'd have to provide some sort of mattress protection! I was thinking about something I saw on sexcetera once (should I admit to that??) about people who get a kick out of being covered in paint. Like, emulsion paint. I would need some security that my new carpets would be replaced!!
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(Original post by michaela_banana)
Of course! And he'd have to provide some sort of mattress protection! I was thinking about something I saw on sexcetera once (should I admit to that??) about people who get a kick out of being covered in paint. Like, emulsion paint. I would need some security that my new carpets would be replaced!!
Now that's a new one on me You're right, protecting the carpets would definitely be in order!
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id let them go on with it even if it didnt do it for me cuz its not only me i care about, its them too.. rite?? however, there is definately a line, id tell them politely to **** off if it was something like bondage with pain, or like scat, or even beastiality.. now thts just wierd!!
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(Original post by michaela_banana)
Of course! And he'd have to provide some sort of mattress protection! I was thinking about something I saw on sexcetera once (should I admit to that??) about people who get a kick out of being covered in paint. Like, emulsion paint. I would need some security that my new carpets would be replaced!!
a brilliant program. did you see the one with the guys who watch computer animated porn? if my boyf was into that i think i would probably leave him...
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(Original post by lazza)
a brilliant program. did you see the one with the guys who watch computer animated porn? if my boyf was into that i think i would probably leave him...
It's weird but at least it's quite tame. Bit harsh to dump someone because of that.
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It depends really. If it was something like, I don't know... having sex in a wetsuit then I guess I'd go along with it sometimes to make them happy. On the other hand, if it was something that I found repulsive or caused a bunch of pain, I'd probably say no.
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I'm a trysexual. If there's a serious chance of injury/disease then I might draw the line, and obviously anything illegal is out because I am a good boy. Otherwise, not much harm in trying it once.
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How the hell can anyone be turned on by poo? I didn't even realise that was a fetish.
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