Losing your virginity, is it really that painfull Watch
I'm pretty sure this wouldn't work. Breaking the hymen would prevent the bleeding but I don't think it's the breaking of it that causes the most pain. It's just stretching the vagina when it isn't used to it.
And in answer to the anon I think you could probably break it with your fingers but if you use tampons I think it's broken anyways (?)
i used tampons (like, super tampons) for years, and my hymen was DEFINITELY intact
As long as you truly desire him and he is considerate it should only hurt a bit for a few moments.
I'm not discouraging you, OP- far from it! I'm just saying that even if it DOES hurt-and it may well not hurt at all, or just a slight bit- don't panic or get too wound up, because it WILL all fall into place soon!
(no, really! technically it's quite possible).
I had sex for the first time 2 days ago, and I cried afterwards
I also had to get my boyfriend to stop- it was just too painful
I don't mean to put anyone off but... OUCH!
The best advice anyone can give you is relax, a lot of foreplay, communication with your bf and lube if you need it.
bit scared now
Just wait till childbirth ..
Im 19, and a virgin but planning on sleeping with my boyfriend and feel ready, but the doesnt stop me from being nervous of it hurting - im not good with pain. My question is though, is it only painfull when it first goes it then it feels ok, or does it just hurt the whole way through your first time?