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    (Original post by PandaWho)
    I dont want people to leave but the wsy things ware being said was making feel cery **** and nog in a good place. Thats why i said stuf


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    As far as I can see you've got a right to say when you're getting upset, but not at the expense of other members' emotions. I get that you're not feeling good right now and I'm sorry to hear that, but I really do think you're out of line here. :sadnod:
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    (Original post by nohomo)
    I agree about academics

    Still on the course technically but haven't attended in two weeks and don't feel good about it.

    I'm just hanging onto life in the hope it will get better.
    Could you talk to someone in the disability department of your university or your tutor about missing time and needing to catch up? That is if you want to stay at uni. If you plan to drop out is there anything you can do to fill the time? Sitting around doing nothing might make you feel worse.

    I get where you're coming from (sorry I had to edit out your spoiler) with your last sentence. It can get better but the only way it will is if you stick around to find out. Therapy can be useful, have you tried it already or got it lined up or anything? Likewise medication can make a huge difference too - I (sorry to use myself as an example again) took so many antipsychotics but I think I have the right combination now - the voices have pretty much left me alone and I'm actually applying for jobs and playing on a sports team, my life is pretty sweet, something I'd never have thought possible just 2 years ago. It can take a while and can be hard work but it can get better. :console:
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    I don't think discussing who's out of line and who should have done what is going to help anyone here :nah:
    We're all here for each other, and we all need to stick together and try to help everyone else as much as we can :yes:
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    Hugs to everyone on here tonight! Virgin cut our internet off, at first I was fuming, it was the last thing I needed when I was already down. It has though served as a distraction from other crappyness and I've been able to burn some excess energy off walking back to uni to get to the library.
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    I apologise wholeheartedly if I hurt anyone's feelings by my posts and I will be much more responsible in the future.

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    Im sorry too! I dont mean to hurt anyone! next time you feel like im going ott- as i have a tendency to do so just say Cupcakes, be quiet!

    Much love! :hugs:
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    not doing too good right now.
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    (Original post by Gingerbread101)
    I don't think discussing who's out of line and who should have done what is going to help anyone here :nah:
    We're all here for each other, and we all need to stick together and try to help everyone else as much as we can
    :yes:
    Totally agree with the bolded bit.

    I just also think that this society relies on mutual respect, and if that's broken then it simply won't function.
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    (Original post by guitaristemily)
    not doing too good right now.
    :hugs: Anything in particular bothering you?
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    (Original post by superwolf)
    Totally agree with the bolded bit.

    I just also think that this society relies on mutual respect, and if that's broken then it simply won't function.
    Everyone has apologised I think, and now we've all hugged and made up we can move on rather than upsetting each other :yes:
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    (Original post by guitaristemily)
    not doing too good right now.
    Anything we can do to help? :hugs:
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    (Original post by superwolf)
    :hugs: Anything in particular bothering you?
    (Original post by Gingerbread101)
    Anything we can do to help? :hugs:
    im just so stressed right now, andschool is not helping with that at all.
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    (Original post by superwolf)
    :hugs: I don't see that you've done anything wrong, and I'm sure Poncho would hate for you to leave (Poncho this would be your cue to say as much ).
    My intentions were good, I like saying nice things but now I can't be myself any more. There's no reason for me to stay if I can't be myself and I don't want to tread on peoples toes, so I'm done.
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    (Original post by guitaristemily)
    im just so stressed right now, andschool is not helping with that at all.
    I know the feeling :hugs: is it the workload?
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    (Original post by IDukem)
    My intentions were good, I like saying nice things but now I can't be myself any more. There's no reason for me to stay if I can't be myself and I don't want to tread on peoples toes, so I'm done.
    I don't think it was you that upset him, it was more my convo with cupcakes. We have the tendency to go too far sometimes and so fair enough. We have both been going through some tough times and we finally were happy today so we just went through with it, but i can understand that it went too far.

    It wasn't you, no need to leave. :hugs:
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    (Original post by Gingerbread101)
    I know the feeling :hugs: is it the workload?
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    (Original post by IDukem)
    My intentions were good, I like saying nice things but now I can't be myself any more. There's no reason for me to stay if I can't be myself and I don't want to tread on peoples toes, so I'm done.
    I don't think you did anything wrong, people shouldn't have a go at other people for little things like that.
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    (Original post by Gingerbread101)
    Everyone has apologised I think, and now we've all hugged and made up we can move on rather than upsetting each other :yes:
    Ok, I hate to be the one stirring things up but... I prefer things out in the open as I genuinely think it helps longer-term and no, not everyone has apologised. :no:

    Poncho I think you're way better than this one outburst, and I'd love you to prove me right and apologise for what you've said. I doubt you meant to, but you've upset people unnecessarily, and I think that IDukem especially could do with an apology - you're all lovely people and there's really no need for this kind of argument between friends. :grouphugs:


    (Original post by guitaristemily)
    im just so stressed right now, andschool is not helping with that at all.
    :hugs: Do they know everything that's up, or would it help to have a word with someone?

    (Original post by IDukem)
    My intentions were good, I like saying nice things but now I can't be myself any more. There's no reason for me to stay if I can't be myself and I don't want to tread on peoples toes, so I'm done.
    :hugs: I really don't get why this became a problem, but I think you're awesome (and let's take it for granted that we're all equally awesome ) and that you should stay.
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    yep
    Have you got a lot in particular to do tonight or just in general?
 
 
 
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