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    Minimum 35 Ways to Respect your Parents

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    May Allah give us sense of ability to follow these guidelines. Ameen.

    1. Put away your phone in their presence.

    2. Pay attention to what they are saying.

    3. Accept their opinions.

    4. Engage in their conversations.

    5. Look at them with respect.

    6. Always praise them.

    7. Share good news with them.

    8. Avoid sharing bad news with them.

    9. Speak well of their friends and loved ones to them.

    10. Keep in remembrance the good things they did.

    11. If they repeat a story, listen like it's the first time they tell it.

    12. Don't bring up painful memories from the past.

    13. Avoid side conversations in their presence

    14. Sit respectfully around them.

    15. Don't belittle/criticize their opinions and thoughts.

    16. Avoid cutting them off when they speak.

    17. Respect their age.

    18. Avoid hitting/disciplining their grandchildren around them.

    19. Accept their advice and direction.

    20. Give them the power of leadership when they are present.

    21. Avoid raising your voice at them.

    22. Avoid walking in front or ahead of them.

    23. Avoid eating before them.

    24. Avoid glaring at them.

    25. Fill them with ur appreciation even when they don't think they deserve it.

    26. Avoid putting your feet up in front of them or sitting with your back to them.

    27. Don't speak ill of them to the point where others speak ill of them too.

    28. Keep them in your prayers always possible.

    29. Avoid seeming bored or tired of them in their presence.

    30. Avoid laughing at their faults/mistakes.

    31. Do a task before they ask you to.

    32. Continuously visit them.

    33. Choose your words carefully when speaking with them.

    34. Call them by names they like.

    35. Make them your priority above anything.
    Parents are treasure on this land and sooner than you think, that treasure will be buried. Appreciate your parents while you still can.

    Today lets make lots of Dua's for our beloved parents, alive or deceased.

    Ya Allah remove the burdens of our beloved parents

    Ya Allah remove their burdens due to debt

    Ya Allah remove their pain

    Ya Allah give shifa for the diseases they're suffering from

    Ya Allah never make them dependent on anyone besides YOU until their last breath

    We should respect and honour our parents

    Never hurt them, part of the reason of all the troubles they're undergoing is due to us

    Their debts are due to fulfilling our needs

    Their poor health is due to their efforts in giving us the best

    Their every breath is a sacrifice made for their children

    Ya Allah bless our parents with Happiness

    Make a promise that you will do at least one thing today which will make your parents happy




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    some of these just depend on your relationship and their personality right? coz not all would apply to my parents. Like is this someones advice?
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    (Original post by HAnwar)
    Minimum 35 Ways to Respect your Parents

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    May Allah give us sense of ability to follow these guidelines. Ameen.

    1. Put away your phone in their presence.

    2. Pay attention to what they are saying.

    3. Accept their opinions.

    4. Engage in their conversations.

    5. Look at them with respect.

    6. Always praise them.

    7. Share good news with them.

    8. Avoid sharing bad news with them.

    9. Speak well of their friends and loved ones to them.

    10. Keep in remembrance the good things they did.

    11. If they repeat a story, listen like it's the first time they tell it.

    12. Don't bring up painful memories from the past.

    13. Avoid side conversations in their presence

    14. Sit respectfully around them.

    15. Don't belittle/criticize their opinions and thoughts.

    16. Avoid cutting them off when they speak.

    17. Respect their age.

    18. Avoid hitting/disciplining their grandchildren around them.

    19. Accept their advice and direction.

    20. Give them the power of leadership when they are present.

    21. Avoid raising your voice at them.

    22. Avoid walking in front or ahead of them.

    23. Avoid eating before them.

    24. Avoid glaring at them.

    25. Fill them with ur appreciation even when they don't think they deserve it.

    26. Avoid putting your feet up in front of them or sitting with your back to them.

    27. Don't speak ill of them to the point where others speak ill of them too.

    28. Keep them in your prayers always possible.

    29. Avoid seeming bored or tired of them in their presence.

    30. Avoid laughing at their faults/mistakes.

    31. Do a task before they ask you to.

    32. Continuously visit them.

    33. Choose your words carefully when speaking with them.

    34. Call them by names they like.

    35. Make them your priority above anything.
    Parents are treasure on this land and sooner than you think, that treasure will be buried. Appreciate your parents while you still can.

    Today lets make lots of Dua's for our beloved parents, alive or deceased.

    Ya Allah remove the burdens of our beloved parents

    Ya Allah remove their burdens due to debt

    Ya Allah remove their pain

    Ya Allah give shifa for the diseases they're suffering from

    Ya Allah never make them dependent on anyone besides YOU until their last breath

    We should respect and honour our parents

    Never hurt them, part of the reason of all the troubles they're undergoing is due to us

    Their debts are due to fulfilling our needs

    Their poor health is due to their efforts in giving us the best

    Their every breath is a sacrifice made for their children

    Ya Allah bless our parents with Happiness

    Make a promise that you will do at least one thing today which will make your parents happy


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    Great reminder! Many of our peers today forget about our parents. May Allah guide them
    This also touched me -
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Li7vpzLA9uw
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    (Original post by TheProphetsPath)
    some of these just depend on your relationship and their personality right? coz not all would apply to my parents. Like is this someones advice?
    Not really. It's just general good stuff.

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    Walaykum aslaaam.
    Alhamdulillah been well. What about yours?
    I might start writing up my lab report. And eat.



    SubhanAllah. Their situation is so worse compared to how we are living. We should be grateful no matter what problems we are facing.

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    I wish it were me instead to put an end to my own miserable existance.
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    (Original post by ak143244)
    Great reminder! Many of our peers today forget about our parents. May Allah guide them
    This also touched me -
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Li7vpzLA9uw
    Ameen.
    Yeah I've seen that, it's so sad.

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    Ameen.
    Yeah I've seen that, it's so sad.

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    Hmm. Soo touching alhamdullilah.
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    I wish it were me instead to put an end to my own miserable existance.
    whats up?
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    Not really. It's just general good stuff.

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    o rite
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    I wish it were me instead to put an end to my own miserable existance.
    SubhanAllah. Don't say that. You can't possibly understand what she is going through. Be aware of the fact that you are blessed, you have family, we thank Allah for all we have. All the worries will be removed if you stop thinking negatively and put trust in Him.

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    I wish it were me instead to put an end to my own miserable existance.
    Don't ever think like that!

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    Don't ever think like that!

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    I can't help it.
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    Is that your twitter?
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    loool using isoc for self promo :rofl:
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    Anyone miss h333 or IdeasForLife ?
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    (Original post by ak143244)
    Anyone miss h333 or IdeasForLife ?
    h333 did a quiz question go answer and maybe she'll come back
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    h333 did a quiz question go answer and maybe she'll come back
    Oh okay cool. Didn't realise :/
    May Allah bless her
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    Salam alaikum.
    Have an exam tomorrow, keep me in your duas please. BarakAllahu feekum.

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    Salam alaikum.
    Have an exam tomorrow, keep me in your duas please. BarakAllahu feekum.

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    wa'alaykum assalam
    okay np
 
 
 
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