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    (Original post by yabbayabba)
    Thank you very much it's not fun at the moment, I'm not sure what I can do about it besides continue to make small talk with people I come across.

    How are you at the moment? I hope things are looking up. Sorry if you've said, i'm on my phone so looking back through the thread takes longer

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    Just keep reaching out to people. I appreciate that is hard and not always comfortable but I'd say it's important to let someone - even if it's just us! - know how you are doing.

    I'm not too bad thanks. Very sleepy though so about to head to bed I hope you sleep OK!
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    Makes sense. I feel better robbing from a big chain though im not robbing cos im exempt but still feel the same :yep:

    Not really. Trying to distract from badness


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    It makes no difference to the pharmacy whether you pay or not- I've got a prepayment card thing now anyway so I just show then that and they give it me, not that they'd particularly care anyway I don't think

    :hugs: Curl up and make the most of nice new bed? :console:


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    (Original post by The_Lonely_Goatherd)
    I used to feel exactly the same way as you but even I found someone who loved me back! I do believe there is someone out there for everyone. Plus I'm sure you're nowhere near as ugly, big or uninteresting as you feel :hugs:
    Well I'm happy for you .

    But noone loves me. My grandmother didn't want me. She's always told me that she was very annoyed to adopt me as she had to give up things.
    My sister only expresses her "love" when she needs something. And she's a pathological lier. The rest of my family are at best indifferent towards me.

    I just feel rather lonely. Usually, I'm indifferent to the world and the only emotion I feel is anxiety. But whenever I fall in love with somebody, the emotional part of me becomes active. And now that that's ended, the part of me that feels is feeling all that loneliness etc that I'd safely buried away.

    At least I'll be numb to the pain in the morning :/.
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    Well I'm happy for you .

    But noone loves me. My grandmother didn't want me. She's always told me that she was very annoyed to adopt me as she had to give up things.
    My sister only expresses her "love" when she needs something. And she's a pathological lier. The rest of my family are at best indifferent towards me.

    I just feel rather lonely. Usually, I'm indifferent to the world and the only emotion I feel is anxiety. But whenever I fall in love with somebody, the emotional part of me becomes active. And now that that's ended, the part of me that feels is feeling all that loneliness etc that I'd safely buried away.

    At least I'll be numb to the pain in the morning :/.
    Oh hun. So you fell for someone but it didn't work out? That hurts a lot. That's exactly what happened to me :sadnod: But just knowing that someone could love me even for a little while gives me hope for the future

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    Seeking referral to Early Intervention Team for some symptoms and diagnosis for either OCD and/or ASD tomorrow, any tips?
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    is it bad that i dont want to attend school tomorrow?
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    (Original post by The_Lonely_Goatherd)
    Oh hun. So you fell for someone but it didn't work out? That hurts a lot. That's exactly what happened to me :sadnod: But just knowing that someone could love me even for a little while gives me hope for the future

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    Yes. But it's not just it not working out. It's the other issues it raises. Noone loving me, being too unattractive to the same sex, feeling lonely, being undesirable, having no personal interests and related things.

    Also, hopefully I'll get a reply soon. If only I could force people to comply with my wishes -_-.
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    is it bad that i dont want to attend school tomorrow?
    Nope. I hated most of college.
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    (Original post by keromedic)
    Nope. I hated most of college.
    you see but im in year 11, and i have to attend becuase of gcses are a thing
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    (Original post by The_Lonely_Goatherd)
    ...
    Well my mind is really annoying. I'm fine now. I want to feel bad but listening to sad music has drained every bit of self pity I had left.
    Short of doing something I'd regret, I've got no choice but to move forward.

    But now I can't think about anything else -_-. Well I can but the person is on my mind a lot.
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    Seeking referral to Early Intervention Team for some symptoms and diagnosis for either OCD and/or ASD tomorrow, any tips?
    Do you mean you're asking your GP for a referral? I'm not 100% sure if EITs/EISs cover ASD but it's worth finding out. Just bullet point a list of your symptoms and things that you have noticed/that have made you unhappy over the past month or so and hand it over to your GP :yes:

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    is it bad that i dont want to attend school tomorrow?
    Not at all :hugs:

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    Yes. But it's not just it not working out. It's the other issues it raises. Noone loving me, being too unattractive to the same sex, feeling lonely, being undesirable, having no personal interests and related things.
    :jumphug: These things have an awful way of tapping into stuff we don't really wanna thing about :sadnod: Which I had a solution for that :console:
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    (Original post by The_Lonely_Goatherd)
    :jumphug: These things have an awful way of tapping into stuff we don't really wanna thing about :sadnod: Which I had a solution for that :console:
    Well thanks for the hugs . :hugs:

    I need some closure, I think. I still intend to speak to this person platonically. I'm still getting to know them so perhaps I can discuss my feelings when we finally meet. It's been fb/phone purely. (And yes, I realise I sound crazy for falling for someone over the internet)
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    Not at all :hugs:

    have to go in though becuase of gcses and stuff.

    i need to sleep but i cant becuase im having a bad night with my head right now. dont know if ill sleep.
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    (Original post by The_Lonely_Goatherd)
    Do you mean you're asking your GP for a referral? I'm not 100% sure if EITs/EISs cover ASD but it's worth finding out. Just bullet point a list of your symptoms and things that you have noticed/that have made you unhappy over the past month or so and hand it over to your GP :yes:



    Not at all :hugs:



    :jumphug: These things have an awful way of tapping into stuff we don't really wanna thing about :sadnod: Which I had a solution for that :console:
    No I don't now either. I'm hoping for referrals to both separately. It's difficult to tell whether I have ASD because it might be a personality change as result of the way my mind is working…but then I think I have thought like this for a long time?

    EIT is more to do with the paranoia which in some cases has seemed a bit like psychosis, but idk. Could be OCD or again just anxiety.
    Thank you :hug:
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    (Original post by keromedic)
    Well thanks for the hugs . :hugs:

    I need some closure, I think. I still intend to speak to this person platonically. I'm still getting to know them so perhaps I can discuss my feelings when we finally meet. It's been fb/phone purely. (And yes, I realise I sound crazy for falling for someone over the internet)
    Not at all crazy. I'm in no position to judge you on that :nah:

    :hugs:

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    have to go in though becuase of gcses and stuff.

    i need to sleep but i cant becuase im having a bad night with my head right now. dont know if ill sleep.
    I hope you have sweet dreams and get some sleep - fingers crossed for you

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    No I don't now either. I'm hoping for referrals to both separately. It's difficult to tell whether I have ASD because it might be a personality change as result of the way my mind is working…but then I think I have thought like this for a long time?

    EIT is more to do with the paranoia which in some cases has seemed a bit like psychosis, but idk. Could be OCD or again just anxiety.
    Thank you :hug:
    Good luck with it all Riku :hugs:
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    It makes no difference to the pharmacy whether you pay or not- I've got a prepayment card thing now anyway so I just show then that and they give it me, not that they'd particularly care anyway I don't think

    :hugs: Curl up and make the most of nice new bed? :console:


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    But i feel better getting freebies from a company :yep:

    I am but it doesnt seem to be helping and finished my distracting sewing now :cry2:


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    Right peeps, I must love you and leave you to go to bed. Good night all and hope you all have sweet dreams
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    (Original post by The_Lonely_Goatherd)
    I hope you have sweet dreams and get some sleep - fingers crossed for you

    to be honset, im so glad i cant be seen right now becuase im a mess right now.
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    Out of nowhere ended up with a really funny tummy


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    (Original post by The_Lonely_Goatherd)
    Just keep reaching out to people. I appreciate that is hard and not always comfortable but I'd say it's important to let someone - even if it's just us! - know how you are doing.

    I'm not too bad thanks. Very sleepy though so about to head to bed I hope you sleep OK!
    Good advice, even if reaching out to people doesn't always work out, it's best to keep trying. Sleep well thanks for being so welcoming, it's kind
 
 
 
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