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    (Original post by Dream Weaver)
    just keep doing what you are doing, it is no ones business but yours.
    I can't help but agree with this comment. But at the same time I don't feel that you should lower yourself for money. You'll end up with low self esteem and a bad view of men (probably). What's stopping you from getting a..different job which doesn't involve you effectively selling yourself (just out of interest, I promise I'm not judging). If you had a job at a pub say, yeah it'd be less money but you'd meet people and remain faithful to your boyfriend.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    After a few months at university I thought I'd take the plunge so to speak and start escorting. I'm not a sex addict or anything, or impovrished. i guess i just felt that I wanted to try something new and it could end up being one of those I regret not having done that. men pay £150 an hour to sleep with me.
    i have a boyfriend who partially knows.
    I have moral twangs. But the extra money is really useful. And i spend it all on my friends parents and boyfriend, nothing stupid on me, just treating my friends to drinks here and there and stuff.
    What shall I do? I have only told my best friend at uni, and I'm strating to become more secretive and i'm having to lie to people. It's pretty stupid.
    Any ideas?
    Thank you.
    If you are going to degrade yourself (in other people's opinions - not mine; I would happily rail minging girls for good money just I have standards andobviously can't get it up for them) like that at LEAST keep the money for yourself.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    After a few months at university I thought I'd take the plunge so to speak and start escorting. .. i have a boyfriend who partially knows. .. But the extra money is really useful. And i spend it all on my friends parents and boyfriend, nothing stupid on me, just treating my friends to drinks here and there and stuff.
    If you haven't already seen it, have a look at Saafe.info - it's an excellent site for escorts, complete with a message board.

    I can understand the secrecy bit. Without reading the other comments, I am certain that they include a pile of hostile ones, and who needs that? It does mean getting some support from somewhere is important - what does 'partially knows' mean?

    At the moment, you say you are spending all the money on other people. On one level, that's fine, but on another, it's you doing the work. How much of it could you save?
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    (Original post by Riderz)
    Its illegal to advertise sex
    No, it's not.
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    i thaught escort was without the boning? like you go for meals with them to keep them company and the boning was an additional. why do you not just do the dating escort part, which is still good money. Then you should be able to tell your bf aswell.
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    Men are paying to use your body
    Please strongly consider a proper job - no amount of money is worth a lack of self respect and you're worth a lot more than this
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    I think you should blog about your experiences and then make them into a TV show.

    oh wait...
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    I hope your boyfriend murders you
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I think people are making too big a deal of me having sex to buy alcohol for my friends. I ont think thats quite what I said. My POINT was that I'm not trying to get money to be materialistic and buy make up and nights out and stuff. i'm also using it to pay back my student loan, so please dont judge me in that way.
    And no, I dont 'love my boyfirned'. i've only been going out with him for three weeks, but yes, i am human but I was doing this job before i started going out with him, hence why I started a thread, hence why I am looking for advice.
    And i dont think i will regret it to be honest.
    Also, i do have dignity and am very careful in what I do with a man and sex is often not on the cards. So for those of you who are just shouting abuse at me, rather than help and advice, please don't assume you know about my line of work.
    For those of you who are actually giving me sound advice, thanks for not being judgemental and actually thinking it may not be the end of the world doing something a bit unusual... xx
    It seems the only 'advice' you want is someone agreeing with you being a prostitute and cheating on your boyfriend (how long you've been going out with him is irrelevant). What advice to you actually want?
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    (Original post by Delta Usafa)
    Making men happy??

    Sorry... but the only people who actually pay for prostitutes are lonely men on dry streaks or perves, and it doesn't make them happy. It gives them a night of fun thanks to the whore's faked moans and orgasms, and then they go back to their pathetic lonely lives. Chances are, they then look back on the experience and it reminds them of how pathetic they are, driving them to become even more depressed, and then going out for more prostitutes, and the cycle continues.

    That's not making men happy.


    Sounds like a great career choice. I'd love to have a profession that could potentially ruin my entire life if one person found out!

    I personally am amused knowing that her boyfriend is eventually going to find out, dump her, and then tell all his mates about her.


    It's wrong because in most cases it involves the abuse of women, and in all cases it objectifies them to mere objects.
    :ditto completely agree. Thouse who believe that prostitutes are the ones in power are deluded. Prostitution is simply a form of chauvinism.
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    You have to let your boyfriend know fully, and maybe a few more friends so you don't have to lie so much. What's the point spending money on these people if they would treat you badly upon finding out how you're getting your money?

    Stay safe in the meantime. :yy:
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    You don't have a boyfriend if you sell your body on the cheap.

    I hope you one day realise what big a mistake your making and that you regret it deeply in years to come.

    I think I feel sorry for you.
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    (Original post by Delta Usafa)
    You sure?
    :eek: £1500 overnight!
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    (Original post by Reems)
    It's illegal to advertise escorts.
    Google will correct you.
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    woah, if I was your bf I would go straight to an STI clinic.

    Also you are a jerk, for letting you bf "partially" know (I am guessin you are not telling him the sex details)
    Have you got no morals? if you really want to keep this "job" then that you break up with you bf - stop bein so damn selfish, imagine if your were in bf position!

    Btw mate the definition of an escort is "a person who accompanies another person of the opposite sex to a social event." and a prostitute is "a person, usually a woman, who has sex with men in exchange for money" therefore you are not an escort you are a bloody prostitute!

    I totally look down upon you!
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    (Original post by Winnieee)
    Don't listen to them , if you're being safe and everything then it's a perfectly legitimate way to earn money.
    Don't let your morals get in the way , you're doing something that makes men happy and you're getting paid.
    And I don't think it's cheating , because there's nothing emotional involved and your boyfriend, however 'partially', knows.
    Power to you x

    lol are you serious?!

    The guys 'girlfriend' is getting pounded by men every other day, for money. This is a prostitute.

    She's a whore, and thats the truth. She has no reason to do it, she's not poor or anything. It's an insult to the poor sod. He doesn't know I'm sure, else he would've slapped that ho by now.
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    I don't know why everyone's pounding on about "dignity" when the truth is, it's no less dignified than 90% of the one night stands that don't involve money being paid.

    I also love how the bf "partially" knows, though :p:
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    I did it last year.. it is one of those things I have really good and really bad memories of. I met men who loved me and met me twice in one day, went to nice hotels to meet rich men who had come up from London. But I also met people who 'just didn't like me', people who essentially raped me, asked me to do really nasty things (lick closer to the ******* please) and a big fat weirdo who I fainted in front of. Agencies make you pay for men you turn down, so in that sense you could be a toilet for anybody - trust me when I say doing this job you will get the men who need to pay for sex. Charging £150, I got men who were very poor and had saved, people on disability benefits. So it's not classy. And you certainly don't feel classy, you feel rough and alienated at the end of the day.

    It sounds more like you volunteered if you don't need the money. But please don't feel like you have to do it 'while you have your nubility'.. don't let society's idea of an exciting life get you into trouble.

    If you're volunteering, go independent and choose your clients and charge a little more (£200+). That way it's not really prostitution. Just a tip: there are ways of leading exciting extravagent lifestyles without becoming a toilet seat for men. Date rich men or see rich clients for money who are at least agreeable, ie. being independent. A standard £150 agency job is not a life I would reccomend.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    After a few months at university I thought I'd take the plunge so to speak and start escorting. I'm not a sex addict or anything, or impovrished. i guess i just felt that I wanted to try something new and it could end up being one of those I regret not having done that. men pay £150 an hour to sleep with me.
    i have a boyfriend who partially knows.
    I have moral twangs. But the extra money is really useful. And i spend it all on my friends parents and boyfriend, nothing stupid on me, just treating my friends to drinks here and there and stuff.
    What shall I do? I have only told my best friend at uni, and I'm strating to become more secretive and i'm having to lie to people. It's pretty stupid.
    Any ideas?
    Thank you.
    Incredibly unattractive. If you were my girlfriend, I would leave you straight away. Consider also, you’re encouraging an industry in which thousands of women are tortured an enslaved each year.
 
 
 
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