Why is finding a classy boy so hard?! Watch

Phillipsherman
Badges: 13
Rep:
?
#61
Report 8 years ago
#61
(Original post by MagicNMedicine)
Not this again

Imagine if Bonnie Tyler had been a TSR member, what would her song have been like?

"Where have all the nice guys gone and where are all the ****?
"Where's the soft computer geek who hides from all the lads?
"Isn't there a needy boy who dresses like a weed?
"Late at night I toss and turn, and dream of what I need

"I need a NICE GUY
"I'm holding out for a nice guy till the end of the night
"He's gotta be soft and he's got to be camp and he's gotta be boring as s---te"
****, dont post that on TSR - sell that for sure
0
reply
ilickbatteries
Badges: 14
Rep:
?
#62
Report 8 years ago
#62
(Original post by bingobongo)
Seriously, I just want someone who will treat me right and make me laugh. Not tell me about the fit girl they screwed over the summer, ignore me when they're with 'the lads' and think getting with every girl at university is an achievement.

It really frustrates me because I think a lot of these guys are nice underneath but they put on a cocky/arrogant show. When are they going to grow up?

Where have all the nice guys gone?
Most girls don't want nice guys, IMO.
0
reply
Camlon
Badges: 0
Rep:
?
#63
Report 8 years ago
#63
Fact is, girls aren't attracted to "nice" guys. The reason people use the arrogant/funny approach is because it attracts girls. Beeing overly nice to girls won't attract girls because it gives out the wibe that the guy is a loser, can't get a girl and will give it away to anyone who show interest in them. Girls like a challange and also want a guy that is on the same social status as them.

If TS want to start dating nice guys, then she has to start showing interest to guys that are nice. Those guys are not found in bars, not on the football team either. Try a little geeky clubs (don't need to be a computer club) or a church group, music groups, etc. You would definitly find someone who is a nice guy, but I'm afraid that you will keep on dating the jocks, because they are around you, and that's the ones who are making you attracted.
0
reply
Philbert
Badges: 15
Rep:
?
#64
Report 8 years ago
#64
(Original post by LimeTree.)
I don't mean to bragg, but I am drinking tea and eating Cathedral City Cheese as we converse ;P


This is not strictly true... but i do love cathedral cheese haha
Tea and Cathedral City = best combo ever. Truly the definition of classy.
1
reply
Anonymous #3
#65
Report 8 years ago
#65
(Original post by bingobongo)
Seriously, I just want someone who will treat me right and make me laugh. Not tell me about the fit girl they screwed over the summer, ignore me when they're with 'the lads' and think getting with every girl at university is an achievement.

It really frustrates me because I think a lot of these guys are nice underneath but they put on a cocky/arrogant show. When are they going to grow up?

Where have all the nice guys gone?
try your friend-zone?
reply
jb9191
Badges: 0
Rep:
?
#66
Report 8 years ago
#66
Because these attitudes work better

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ttxCSkGB0vw
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHn4BaDv_mQ

than these attitudes

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LjhCEhWiKXk
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o4bi8N8cPUI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Auz-rtBWO8k

Apparently, being a knob to a girl and having a huge ego makes you attractive. This then leads to many men conforming to these methods to try and impress women, who are already insanely hard to please.
1
reply
Luceria
Badges: 10
Rep:
?
#67
Report 8 years ago
#67
I love classy.
0
reply
eve_bg
Badges: 0
Rep:
?
#68
Report 8 years ago
#68
Why does this thread have SO much negative rep ?? These are my thoughts exactly!
But yes, the truth is that we usually don't notice these guys.
0
reply
LimeTree.
Badges: 2
Rep:
?
#69
Report 8 years ago
#69
(Original post by Philbert)
Tea and Cathedral City = best combo ever. Truly the definition of classy.
+ rep my friend.
0
reply
zacker008
Badges: 0
Rep:
?
#70
Report 8 years ago
#70
cos u aint no classy girl, pick ur ****s better and stop complaining
0
reply
~*DarkAngel*~
Badges: 0
Rep:
?
#71
Report 8 years ago
#71
(Original post by ArcadiaHouse)
Oh my God, I know exactly what you mean, I have a male friend just like this ... :daydreaming:

... He's gay.

Ahh.... well, the gay part sucks :/ I guess... But I can assure you I am NOT gay.... despite how often I get called it :P only by female flat mates, but meh, I let them get away with it.... cos I let them get away with anything >.<

TOO NICE!! >.<

ohh well :/
~Dark~
0
reply
M1F2R3
Badges: 14
Rep:
?
#72
Report 8 years ago
#72
(Original post by I am soapy)
I hear New Jersey have some classy guys.
Yeah, some hero called Paul D.
0
reply
floskii
Badges: 0
Rep:
?
#73
Report 8 years ago
#73
All these nice guys you speak of are sitting at home playing WoW and jacking off furiously to anime because they're too socially awkward to get out of the house and meet people.
Honestly, it's possible to be a nice person without being a boring, awkward, nerdy sack of ****. Maybe if you got to know all these guys you meet instead of instantly writing them off as being unworthy just because they like to have fun and actually have social lives, and don't treat you like something you're not, maybe they'd turn out to be awesome people?
4
reply
MancBoy
Badges: 12
Rep:
?
#74
Report 8 years ago
#74
Because girls go for the bad boys/rich boys/high status boys and all the nice or 'classy' boys try and be like them.
0
reply
WelshBluebird
Badges: 14
Rep:
?
#75
Report 8 years ago
#75
(Original post by Pedrobear)
ever considered that the whole time you've been meeting these 'lads' you've been ignoring the 'nice boys'?

perish the thought

not like you'll ever change, standard girl whining about something they secretly love

real talk
This.
0
reply
twohanprincess
Badges: 0
Rep:
?
#76
Report 8 years ago
#76
You're being way too harsh on men here. This generalisation is really not fair.

It seems like you have a very low idea of what most guys are actually like. I'm sorry for whatever may have caused this, but open your eyes and admit that not everyone is like this. I could easily say most girls go out and get notches in their bedposts etc, but the fact is not everyone is like this.
0
reply
Dude Where's My Username
Badges: 15
Rep:
?
#77
Report 8 years ago
#77
Why do you have two accounts Shinytoy??????
0
reply
ArcadiaHouse
Badges: 15
#78
Report 8 years ago
#78
(Original post by ~*DarkAngel*~)
Ahh.... well, the gay part sucks :/ I guess... But I can assure you I am NOT gay.... despite how often I get called it :P only by female flat mates, but meh, I let them get away with it.... cos I let them get away with anything >.<

TOO NICE!! >.<

ohh well :/
~Dark~
That's nice. :love: As long as nice, straight guys are out there as well as the lovely gay ones.
reply
Anonymous #4
#79
Report 8 years ago
#79
(Original post by bingobongo)
Seriously, I just want someone who will treat me right and make me laugh. Not tell me about the fit girl they screwed over the summer, ignore me when they're with 'the lads' and think getting with every girl at university is an achievement.

It really frustrates me because I think a lot of these guys are nice underneath but they put on a cocky/arrogant show. When are they going to grow up?

Where have all the nice guys gone?
not being a **** =/= classy. Anyway I'm sure if there were some nice guys you would reject them anyway if they were ugly no matter their personality.
reply
RoshniDiya
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#80
Report 8 years ago
#80
The thought that girls don't like or notice nice guys REALLY doesn't apply to all girls. Just saying.
0
reply
X

Quick Reply

Attached files
Write a reply...
Reply
new posts
Latest
My Feed

See more of what you like on
The Student Room

You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

Personalise

Have you registered to vote?

Yes! (278)
38.03%
No - but I will (53)
7.25%
No - I don't want to (53)
7.25%
No - I can't vote (<18, not in UK, etc) (347)
47.47%

Watched Threads

View All