Why do guys always think they're so great in bed, even when they're not? Watch

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(Original post by Xhotas)
Why do girls think their amazing in bed and only males can be ****?

I've had some absolutely terrible girls in bed. That's why I don't do one night stands anymore, their **** because women rarely make the effort unless their in a relationship, they just expect the man to. And I'm not going to lie, when I want a quickie I'm not going to bother pulling out all the stops just for some **** tbh.

That's in my experience anyway.
Absolutely. I tried to explain this to some of my female friends and they were having none of it.
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Girls need to stop faking it! I can't believe some complain about men's performance, then fake it. You are angry with him, and you think the solution is to feed his ego?
That being said, a lot of guys don't care about whether a woman has a good time or not. And yes, some are so hopeless, you really can't do anything to make it right. Yes it takes two to tango, but if a guy blows his load after 30 sec, is being too rough, have no talent or interest in nibbling and kissing, there really isn't too much to do about it other than sit him down and talk about it, but a) many men are not open for feedback ("constructive criticism" ) in bed and b) I believe genuine passion and genuine interest in sex is something people have naturally. If he doesn't enjoy foreplay, oral, touching/kissing/biting and all that extra stuff that makes it fun, he simply doesn't.

I think you simply have to be more careful about picking them. You can tell a lot about how passionate a guy is when being with him, kissing him etc. You get better at choosing them when you have been dating for a while, and it helps for a guy to have matured a little bit. In the meantime, stop lying to them by faking it. I have never faked it, never will, do not see the point in it.

Edit: And regarding women's performance in bed, I cannot speak for others, as I only know how I am. So I hear a lot of girls just lie there, that's a pity, and something you need to work on/discuss with them/make them feel comfortable with you. But this thread was regarding men's sexual performance, and criticizing girl's performances is really a silly response, it doesn't respond to what the OP brought up.
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(Original post by hockeyjoe)
If i ever sleep with you in the future OP your getting inseminated like a biatch and im deffo not leaving my number
Trust me, you won't be!
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(Original post by Kaitlyn89)
In all honesty, I would tell a guy if he was "great" in bed, but I haven't experienced a guy who is that great. So I keep my mouth shut and don't say a word, I'm not massaging anyone's ego with lies and BS!
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On another note: (not to you Kaitlyn)
Women can be **** in bed as well, but women are WAAAAAYYYYY more arrogant about it than men, if sex is **** they always blame men no matter what they cannot even fathom that they are **** even if they are dead logs. To some women simply having a hole is the be all and end all.
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If women went around telling every guy exactly they how felt honestly, men would be different.
Nope because if you do, they tink you are an unthankful ***** that just tries to be mean
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(Original post by Kaitlyn89)
And, why do they think that watching porn makes them some kind of god in the bedroom? Do guys just watch porn and then imitate what they see?
The thing that annoys me, is that so many guys brag about being so great in bed, but in reality, they aren't all that great. They sleep with a few drunk women, then think they know how to handle a female lol. What is wrong with guys these days? Why brag all the time? Why not walk the walk, instead of talking the talk.
Why do fat ugly girls keep their legs closed when they sit. Wish someone would look?
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(Original post by Kaitlyn89)
And, why do they think that watching porn makes them some kind of god in the bedroom? Do guys just watch porn and then imitate what they see?
The thing that annoys me, is that so many guys brag about being so great in bed, but in reality, they aren't all that great. They sleep with a few drunk women, then think they know how to handle a female lol. What is wrong with guys these days? Why brag all the time? Why not walk the walk, instead of talking the talk.
Why do you, as it would appear, keep being gulled by their empty boasts and sleep with them?
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(Original post by Baled)
This. It's funny how women have the freaking audacity to complain about men being "bad" in bed, when most women let guys do all the work in bed. It must be so easy to be a woman. You can be completely lazy and still blame the guy if the sex is bad :top:

Being "good" in bed is EXTREMELY EASY for women. Blowjobs are probably the easiest thing to do, and how hard is it to spread your legs and rotate your hips every now and then?

It's much more difficult for men. They have to stay hard and keep shagging for ages, choose the positions, make her *** several times, and lick pussy which is not exactly easy if you compare it to giving blowjobs.

And like you said: many women can't even open their god damn mouth to tell a guy what they like and what they want in bed.
Christ on a Bike, will you give it a rest. You've been banned twice (if not more). You're insecure. We get it.

(Original post by Cabled)
If the sex is bad or if something goes wrong, it's always the man's fault, according to women.
If she can't feel him that much, it's because his **** isn't big enough. If she can't get wet, it's his fault. If the women can't ***, it's his fault too. And so on, and so on.

Good sex is the man's responsibility. It's him and his **** that are getting judged. How big is it? How long can he last? How many position does he know?
What exactly do women do? Spread their legs, and rotate their hips once in a while? Give a blowjob (which is probably the easiest thing in the world to do)? It's VERY EASY for a woman to be "good" in bed..

Ewver wondered why there is such a big difference between a good male lover and a bad one? And hardly any difference between women in bed?
Most men will say that there is hardly any difference among women when it comes to performance. But most women probably won't admit this, because then men might start putting pressure on them to perform.

How often have you heard a guy criticize a woman's performance in bed? And how often have you heard the opposite?
Who would you believe if a guy and a woman both said that the other person was crap in bed?
Your points are valid in some cases, but they don't apply to EVERY woman. The OP is an idiot, as are you. If you can't communicate with your partner about what you like in bed, the sex is going to be crap.
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Why do girls fake orgasms instead of letting him know he didn't pleasure you fully, then act suprised when he thinks you liked it and keeps doing it the same way???

Or if he's arrogant goig around telling everyone about it.
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Apparently arrogance is an attractive trait in men.
Apparently being *****y is an attractive train in women.
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i have sex with my cat it never complains everyone have sex with your cat
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i have sex with my cat it never complains everyone have sex with your cat
How furry is its pussy?
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i'm so good in bed because i'm sooo legend-wait for it... and I hope you're not lactose intolerant because the second half of that word is dairy!
Yess up high!! Had to sign in just so I could show you my appreciation of your awesomeness :awesome:
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Oh boo hoo, grab me the violin! We carry a baby around for 9 months with ongoing agony, you try that? You men soon disappear when you hear there's a baby involved though, don't you? It's easy enough to impregnate a girl, but not so easy to pay up child support or raise the child eh? So I think it equals itself out in terms of a guy doing his bit in the bedroom, don't you think?
Typical...always pulling out the pregnancy card :rolleyes:
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Why do girls make such sweeping generalisations.

I didn't think this was the case.
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(Original post by Kaitlyn89)
I'm not massaging anyone's ego
In all honesty, I really don't think that's what most guys want to have massaged.
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Oh boo hoo, grab me the violin! We carry a baby around for 9 months with ongoing agony, you try that? You men soon disappear when you hear there's a baby involved though, don't you? It's easy enough to impregnate a girl, but not so easy to pay up child support or raise the child eh? So I think it equals itself out in terms of a guy doing his bit in the bedroom, don't you think?
Or you could wear a condom, you know. Or you could get pregnant and moan about it as if you were raped.
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Christ on a Bike, will you give it a rest. You've been banned twice (if not more). You're insecure. We get it.



Your points are valid in some cases, but they don't apply to EVERY woman. The OP is an idiot, as are you. If you can't communicate with your partner about what you like in bed, the sex is going to be crap.
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Did you realise that Baled and Cabled are the same person?

Its sad, isn't it... :rolleyes:
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