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    (Original post by donutaud15)
    Was I insane to marry 1. At 19 and 2. After a year of dating?

    Been told over and over again I'm insane.

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    Yeah you crazy

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    (Original post by Pussy Galore)
    ok



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    Yeah you crazy

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    Neither of you are OP

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    (Original post by Dodgy Git)
    So, any more feed back?
    hmmm not at the moment
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    (Original post by donutaud15)
    Neither of you are OP

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    someone is on the ball !

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    (Original post by CasualSoul)
    hmmm not at the moment

    it's just if she is reaching out I'd like to make a move ... but I'd like some different views on it !
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    (Original post by Dodgy Git)
    - She wasn't a personal friend ... I barely knew her, and to be honest didn't want to know her since she has the knack of sleeping around

    - Yeah ... I was thinking exactly the same : I wasn't good friends with her, she was more of an annoying acquaintance. I deleted her along with all my ex's friends a week after the break up, and my ex blocked me about 4-6 months into the break up (both on Facebook and *****er)

    Now, what should I do?
    was she a close friend to your ex? If so then it really seems as if they your ex was trying to contact you through here. If not she might have had other things in mind given her habit of sleeping around but I don't think this is the case.

    Sometimes it's jsut best to cut contact tbh as you don't need that constant reminder of the person. I know you said that you still have feelings for your ex (I think you said that if I remember correctly) but then again I think you need to remember that she was your ex for a reason and the fact that you two are no longer together is not necessarily a bad thing as now you have the opportunity to to to find someone who is more suitable
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    (Original post by Dodgy Git)
    it's just if she is reaching out I'd like to make a move ... but I'd like some different views on it !
    awww wI thought u were someone elsee haa no I was answeing your post actually!

    omg is she trying to get you back? I thought she was the one who ended it though
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    (Original post by donutaud15)
    Was I insane to marry 1. At 19 and 2. After a year of dating?

    Been told over and over again I'm insane.

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    1st question: I know people have told you you were insane but forget them for a moment. Do you regret it/ wish you had waited longer?
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    (Original post by CasualSoul)
    was she a close friend to your ex? If so then it really seems as if they your ex was trying to contact you through here. If not she might have had other things in mind given her habit of sleeping around but I don't think this is the case.

    Sometimes it's jsut best to cut contact tbh as you don't need that constant reminder of the person. I know you said that you still have feelings for your ex (I think you said that if I remember correctly) but then again I think you need to remember that she was your ex for a reason and the fact that you two are no longer together is not necessarily a bad thing as now you have the opportunity to to to find someone who is more suitable

    Yeah I know I could find someone else, but we were together for a mere month ... who says things couldn't have changed over the space of 10 months - hell I'm sure they have!

    I had a small thought that her friend might be trying to get with me, but like you I doubt it

    It seems more likely that my ex is contacting me though her friend - but for what reason, that I don't know.

    I wasn't friends with her friend ... I didn't want to be any way, she's a bit of a slut.
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    (Original post by CasualSoul)
    awww wI thought u were someone elsee haa no I was answeing your post actually!

    omg is she trying to get you back? I thought she was the one who ended it though

    Do you think she is? I'm hoping it's the case .. so then I can pop up and see her and have a long talk.
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    (Original post by Dodgy Git)
    Yeah I know I could find someone else, but we were together for a mere month ... who says things couldn't have changed over the space of 10 months - hell I'm sure they have!

    I had a small thought that her friend might be trying to get with me, but like you I doubt it

    It seems more likely that my ex is contacting me though her friend - but for what reason, that I don't know.

    I wasn't friends with her friend ... I didn't want to be any way, she's a bit of a slut.
    wait so hold on, because you were only together for a month if you had the opportunity would you get back with her. Are you still in contact/ do you know if she's seeing anyone. Sorry I was getting confused a little
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    (Original post by Dodgy Git)
    Do you think she is? I'm hoping it's the case .. so then I can pop up and see her and have a long talk.
    hmm you said she broke up with you 10 months ago. how recently did the friend add you. It's possible there could still be feelings there but then again she might have moved on. Before meeting up with her this is the main thing to try and figure out.
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    (Original post by CasualSoul)
    wait so hold on, because you were only together for a month if you had the opportunity would you get back with her. Are you still in contact/ do you know if she's seeing anyone. Sorry I was getting confused a little
    No worries lol, happens to even the brightest

    No, she blocked me on Facebook 4 to 6 months in ... this is what's doing my head in, and the fact that her friends all hated my guts.

    I've got a hint she isn't seeing anyone .. I saw a picture of her yesterday in my newsfeed with a couple people I knew from Uni, and there's no guy there ... She takes a lot of pictures I've noticed. My friends from up there, who lived in her dorm all told me she's single.
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    What should I eat for breakfast oh love guru?
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    (Original post by CasualSoul)
    1st question: I know people have told you you were insane but forget them for a moment. Do you regret it/ wish you had waited longer?
    Not at all.

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    (Original post by Mystery Me)
    Damn, girl. I was just joking XD You took it to a whole new level.
    Someone called for a foxy zebra?
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    (Original post by UnknownRoyalist)
    Wise words needs updating. Will you do it? Lol'd.
    Lmao you're actually hilarious :rofl:


    omg yes I'll certainly do it
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    (Original post by kingzebra)
    Someone called for a foxy zebra?
    lmao

    this is becoming utterly hilarious :rofl:
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    (Original post by donutaud15)
    Not at all.

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    Then no your not insane. People will say "omg you were so young" or "you should have totally waited". You're clearly happy and have no regrets so no I wouldn't say you were insane. You followed your heart, followed that impulse and did what you thought was right . I'd say you were brave rather than insane to be honest. In that situation I know I would have definitely listened to those around me saying "this can't be right" or "yes they are right I am far too young" rather than just going for what felt right so no to answer your question I don't think your insane..quite admirable in fact
 
 
 
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