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    Anal or narh?
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    (Original post by SloaneRanger)
    Whats this weekend lottery numbers? Also do you think that you have been going for "boys" not men, that could be the issue of not finding a decent guy?
    The guys I date are about my age. Boys and men are something I use interchangeably.

    And it's 9,9,9,9,9


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    (Original post by TommehBoi)
    Anal or narh?
    Don't know what narh is so I'm going to say anal.


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    (Original post by JulietheCat)
    The guys I date are about my age. Boys and men are something I use interchangeably.

    And it's 9,9,9,9,9


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    Thats where you could be going wrong, you can't get a boy to do a mans job :cool:. Find someone that can challenge you, then you will never be bored.
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    (Original post by JulietheCat)
    In that case, no. I'm proud to have dated a ton of amazing people
    Proud? I see a high turnover as beneficial in some respects (broader experience, more lessons to be learnt, including about oneself and what a 'good match' might be), and hence pleasing,* but do not see only ever typically managing short lived relations as a source of pride, personally :beard:
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    Proud? I see a high turnover as beneficial in some respects (broader experience, more lessons to be learnt, including about oneself and what a 'good match' might be), and hence pleasing,* but do not see only ever typically managing short lived relations as a source of pride, personally :beard:
    Well, the "student experience" is hyped up to have tons of wild sex several times a week. Even I didn't have that exactly.

    The thing is, I don't get attached to most other people who I dated. Just had fun and went on my merry way. :hoppy:
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    (Original post by JulietheCat)
    Well, the "student experience" is hyped up to have tons of wild sex several times a week. Even I didn't have that exactly
    Sure, when it comes to young lads, but attitudes towards young 'ladies' behaving like that differ/vary, you will find

    The thing is, I don't get attached to most other people who I dated. Just had fun and went on my merry way. :hoppy:
    Fair play, but again, this is a gendered trait (male). Not saying that's fair, or the way things should be, but that remains the dominant social norm
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    Sure, when it comes to young lads, but attitudes towards young 'ladies' behaving like that differ/vary, you will find

    Fair play, but again, this is a gendered trait (male). Not saying that's fair, or the way things should be, but that remains the dominant social norm
    So, wait, girls who have many partners are regarded as sluts while guys who have many partners are regarded as cool? Yet, bisexuality goes the other way round. :lolwut:

    I've stopped caring what society thinks a long time ago. Especially when it dictates that men should wear long boardies down to the ankles on the beach and women should ideally wear a bikini. Right.
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    (Original post by JulietheCat)
    So, wait, girls who have many partners are regarded as sluts while guys who have many partners are regarded as cool?
    Correct

    Yet, bisexuality goes the other way round. :lolwut:
    Correct. Men typically see girl on girl action as tantamount to 'playing'

    I've stopped caring what society thinks a long time ago
    That's fine, but you were talking in terms of social norms

    Especially when it dictates that men should wear long boardies down to the ankles on the beach and women should ideally wear a bikini. Right
    I know what you mean eh. Saw an article t'other day on how men are stripping down for the beach and there's now a nascent trend of the 1950s swimwear styles among wenches, mind
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    Correct

    Correct. Men typically see girl on girl action as tantamount to 'playing'

    That's fine, but you were talking in terms of social norms

    I know what you mean eh. Saw an article t'other day on how men are stripping down for the beach and there's now a nascent trend of the 1950s swimwear styles among wenches, mind
    Yep, society views are definitely weird to me. Their views on bisexuality and amount of sexual partners are contradictory in a way.

    And I noticed in the pool that more men are wearing jammers/speedos and more women are wearing legsuits and even wetsuits. But that's from my experience.
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    (Original post by JulietheCat)
    Yep, society views are definitely weird to me. Their views on bisexuality and amount of sexual partners are contradictory in a way
    Not when you consider that most males conceive of girl on girl action as 'just playing'

    I noticed in the pool that more men are wearing jammers/speedos and more women are wearing legsuits and even wetsuits
    Interesting. Was there any difference in BMI among these groups? :holmes: (perhaps the women are more body conscious eh - but this changes when it comes to e.g. nightlife) :beard:
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    Not when you consider that most males conceive of girl on girl action as 'just playing'

    Interesting. Was there any difference in BMI among these groups? :holmes: (perhaps the women are more body conscious eh - but this changes when it comes to e.g. nightlife) :beard:
    Well, what would society think of a guy who is bisexual and had lots of partners of both genders? Would he be icky or kinda in the middle?

    No, the men were pretty slim and the girls were slim too. There's the occasional guy who wears boardies to swim lessons (why, just why?!) and occasional girl who wears a beach one piece or bikini (why, just why?!) to swim lessons. But more recently, legsuits seem to be becoming the norm compared to one pieces.
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    (Original post by JulietheCat)
    Well, what would society think of a guy who is bisexual and had lots of partners of both genders? Would he be icky or kinda in the middle?
    I cannot comment too specifically/pointedly without potentially causing upset/offense I'm afraid, but generally society thinks of (attractive) girl on girl as hot compared to other propositions
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    (Original post by JulietheCat)
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    Have you ever participated in a orgy?
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    (Original post by jay2013)
    Have you ever participated in a orgy?
    Well...I had threesomes but no more than that.
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    (Original post by JulietheCat)
    Well...I had threesomes but no more than that.
    Threesomes? Is that all? Pfft, I'm giving you a 3rd place trophy for that >>> :king3:
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    (Original post by JulietheCat)
    Well...I had threesomes but no more than that.
    Oh I wanted to ask something else but I had forgotten what I wanted to ask. Now I've just remembered!

    Have you ever been DPed?
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    (Original post by jay2013)
    Oh I wanted to ask something else but I had forgotten what I wanted to ask. Now I've just remembered!

    Have you ever been DPed?
    Subbed for answer.

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    (Original post by jay2013)
    Oh I wanted to ask something else but I had forgotten what I wanted to ask. Now I've just remembered!

    Have you ever been DPed?
    I had to look that up but no. I was only ever with two other women at the same time, not two guys :no:


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