(Original post by überambitious_ox)
It may well be the case of the girls expecting the male to make the first move - YOU!
I wouldn't start to think that your colleagues are lying to you, if it appears that they are genuinely surprised! It probably means that they mean it!
Do you think you are good looking, honestly?
To be honest though I don't see why I should have to make the first move. As i said i would rate my looks as just average.
When can you expect yours?