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    (Original post by superduper9)
    Fair enough. I've just never been the kind of person to take sex as a casual thing. Prefer it in an exclusive relationship. That's just my personal view. But like I said, I have no problems with people that do take it a lot more casually.
    I think it's just differing opinions - I personally see sex as just sex, very casually. So does my boyfriend. So to us, we really don't care about the number of partners, or if we come across an ex partner who they slept with when we're out together. I've only slept with him, but it honestly does not bother me when I see a girl he's slept with
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    My preference would be 3, but my fiancé is between 7-8.
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    (Original post by Tyrion_Lannister)
    Girl, 20.

    10. Don't care about the number of partners and I don't really like vanilla sex
    wow

    much liberal

    such open minded
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    "All this considering they are STI/STD free, and they will be loyal to you once you enter the relationship"

    The fact that they are loyal is all that matters to me to be honest.

    For the sake of the question though.... swinging, gangbang, hardcore sex etc. does not appeal to me so preferably 6/7 or below.

    That being said, this wouldn't be an issue for me because I wouldn't ask them how many sexual partners they've had. Everyone has a past and I try not to judge.

    Male, 22.
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    (Original post by Tyrion_Lannister)
    it honestly does not bother me when I see a girl he's slept with
    it must do abit/?
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    Female, 29, 10
    I'd judge a partner on their present behaviour/character because people are dynamic and always changing. I know that myself. I was swinging from the chandliers around 18-21, but these days I regard myself as pretty boring, conventional and even conservative in bed. I have the experience of a 10, but I really have absolutely zero interest in being that kinky and libidinous nowadays. If you think that you're going to be the same person as you are now in 10 years, you'll be in for a rude shock. Don't put it past other people to change either, whether they're conservative or not!

    I really couldnt give a ****.
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    I feel this grading system is a bit flawed really. I've had sex twice and according to this scale I'm a 6 and to answer the question I don't care how many they've slept with as long as you're faithful to me
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    Male, 20. Im down with number 10, them freaky ones are always the best.
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    8, actual pornstar goes a bit far...
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    (Original post by heirloom)
    I feel this grading system is a bit flawed really. I've had sex twice and according to this scale I'm a 6 and to answer the question I don't care how many they've slept with as long as you're faithful to me
    How dare you insult the scale!
    lol, jk. Yeah, it's not perfect but it's the best I could come up with.
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    (Original post by MattyR2895)
    How dare you insult the scale!
    lol, jk. Yeah, it's not perfect but it's the best I could come up with.
    Haha.
    I think that its best not to ask your partner how many they've slept with because its before they were with you
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    (Original post by hello101010)
    wow

    much liberal

    such open minded
    :lol:

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    it must do abit/?
    No. Not at all. Some of them I'm even friends with
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    As long as they are "clean" and no longer a porn star I'd consider them. It would have to be a really special guy though
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    (Original post by Tyrion_Lannister)
    I think it's just differing opinions - I personally see sex as just sex, very casually. So does my boyfriend. So to us, we really don't care about the number of partners, or if we come across an ex partner who they slept with when we're out together. I've only slept with him, but it honestly does not bother me when I see a girl he's slept with
    Yeah you're very right - we have quite different mindsets. Your way probably removes the jealousy and any comparisons with previous partners - so I can see advantages to that.
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    (Original post by Joshale)
    20 ONS is a lot
    It depends.

    Plus this is an odd scale. One threesome with strangers and you're an 8, for example.

    I dunno, eat one lousy foot and they call you a cannibal...
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    (Original post by heirloom)
    I think that its best not to ask your partner how many they've slept with because its before they were with you
    A good rule of thumb is not to ask questions when you wouldn't like the answers.
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    (Original post by LightBlueSoldier)
    Is the age of consent now 16 months instead of 16 years?


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    She said engaged with a one year old, not engaged to a one year old. Nice try though.


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    8. Probably 9, if they were no longer working as a pornstar.

    I'm male, 18.
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    7 but i wont be commited at all, and never take it serious.

    slutty people are usual fun to hang out and mess around with
 
 
 
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