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    (Original post by Sapient)
    As far as I am aware a relationship between a 21 year old and a 15 year old is legal. However, if it becomes sexual, then it may be illegal depending where you live.

    Also, why don't you just find a girl in the UK? You do realize that the moment somebody shows interest in her in real life, she'll ditch you quicker than you can begin to cry. And probably the same goes for you, as if you're going to turn down a girl in real life for a girl(?) you'll likely never meet from another country.

    I suspect that one, or both of you has something about them that makes it very difficult to get a partner IRL.
    We're not doing anything sexual. It would most likely mess up our minds.
    I don't think that will happen, we don't really talk to other people at all. We both have autism which could be a factor.
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    (Original post by MylittlePlusle)
    We're not doing anything sexual. It would most likely mess up our minds.
    I don't think that will happen, we don't really talk to other people at all. We both have autism which could be a factor.
    i don't see why the other posters are being mean to you. it's great that you have found someone to share your life with. good luck.

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    (Original post by MylittlePlusle)
    We're not doing anything sexual. It would most likely mess up our minds.
    I don't think that will happen, we don't really talk to other people at all. We both have autism which could be a factor.
    That's probably the reason then, but I do find it hard to believe that you've got nothing sexual on your mind.... Being 21 that would be highly abnormal.

    Still, you should not shun your social life for a virtual relationship, as I can almost guarantee this online relationship will not be viable long term.
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    (Original post by Sapient)
    As far as I am aware a relationship between a 21 year old and a 15 year old is legal. However, if it becomes sexual, then it may be illegal depending where you live.
    Nope. Its called grooming and is very much illegal.

    OP, I would call it quits, if this isn't a troll. Its just not worth it, trust me.
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    (Original post by the bear)
    i don't see why the other posters are being mean to you. it's great that you have found someone to share your life with. good luck.

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    Thank you. Our age gap shouldn't mean our love is wrong or stigmated. We have pretty much have everything in common, even our special autism interest is the same! (Medical biology) I didn't think I would find someone like her, I always though I would be alone forever, but she's changed my life in many ways, I have a lot happier than I use to be and I've made her life better too.
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    (Original post by Sapient)
    That's probably the reason then, but I do find it hard to believe that you've got nothing sexual on your mind.... Being 21 that would be highly abnormal.

    Still, you should not shun your social life for a virtual relationship, as I can almost guarantee this online relationship will not be viable long term.
    I don't think of real people sexually... I don't shun my social life, I do go out with my family. It's a risk I am willing to take.
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    (Original post by MylittlePlusle)
    Yes, i asked her to be my partner with my voice over skype so it's official. (Asking over text doesn't count to me) She's 15 and I am 21. Nope, I talk to her on skype almost everyday.
    Well that is just creepy.



    Why would a 21 year old man in the UK be interested in dating a 15 year old girl who he can't even meet?

    Although maybe the latter is a good thing...
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    (Original post by PsychadelicScarf)
    Nope. Its called grooming and is very much illegal.

    OP, I would call it quits, if this isn't a troll. Its just not worth it, trust me.
    Grooming means someone pretending to be nice to someone to have sex with them. That's very wrong.
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    (Original post by redferry)
    Well that is just creepy.



    Why would a 21 year old man in the UK be interested in dating a 15 year old girl who he can't even meet?

    Although maybe the latter is a good thing...
    I don't see how it's creepy. Love is love. She makes me happy, she makes me feel loved and we have a lot in common. She's pretty much everything I want in a partner.
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    Autist goes to dating site and then autist does AMA?... I don't buy it.
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    (Original post by viriol)
    Autist goes to dating site and then autist does AMA?... I don't buy it.
    I don't use dating sites anymore... The females on there are rude.
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    (Original post by MylittlePlusle)
    I don't see how it's creepy. Love is love. She makes me happy, she makes me feel loved and we have a lot in common. She's pretty much everything I want in a partner.
    Because it's called grooming?

    And because she is a child?

    The age gap would be equivalent to me dating my younger brother, and he is older than her but clearly still a kid.
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    #PeerPressure :lol:
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    (Original post by redferry)
    Because it's called grooming?

    And because she is a child?

    The age gap would be equivalent to me dating my younger brother, and he is older than her but clearly still a kid.
    Um, I'm not grooming her... We're in a serious relationship. If you wanted to date someone like that you can.
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    (Original post by MylittlePlusle)
    We're not doing anything sexual. It would most likely mess up our minds.
    I don't think that will happen, we don't really talk to other people at all. We both have autism which could be a factor.
    Austism usually is a contributing factor. People with it tend to relate well with others that also have it..

    Personal experience
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    M8 u r layin thru ur teeth I cn tel tht meles awey
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    (Original post by LostGear)
    M8 u r layin thru ur teeth I cn tel tht meles awey
    where r you from? :P
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    9.9999? She bullying you bro? Was this a dare :curious:
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    (Original post by Binary Freak)
    Austism usually is a contributing factor. People with it tend to relate well with others that also have it..

    Personal experience
    I understand, our autism is probably what has caused her to have such a close bond/connection.
 
 
 
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