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    (Original post by chocolatesauce)
    Not really, if you've made your feelings clear and they still go then they're not the one for you
    Well I suppose... The last time that happened she actually said I was TOO nice...
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    (Original post by Ryan-Slade)
    Just wondering What's wrong with a sensitive guy ?
    I just can't handle sensitive people in general. I'm not a very emotional person or very into talking about my feelings so a sensitive person will just piss me off
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    (Original post by thechemistress)
    It was all going so well until I read 'sensitive'. No, just no.
    I fully understand. Its really if im in a bad mood / tired. I don't like it in girls either.
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    (Original post by thechemistress)
    I just can't handle sensitive people in general. I'm not a very emotional person or very into talking about my feelings so a sensitive person will just piss me off
    Ahh fair enough
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    (Original post by Ryan-Slade)
    Well I suppose... The last time that happened she actually said I was TOO nice...
    She probably though you were too nice to be true or something although I'm sure you were only being yourself
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    (Original post by chocolatesauce)
    She probably though you were too nice to be true or something although I'm sure you were only being yourself
    Someone else told me that, but seriously what the hell, surely "too nice to be true" is a good thing?
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    (Original post by Ryan-Slade)
    Someone else told me that, but seriously what the hell, surely "too nice to be true" is a good thing?
    Not neccesarily, it could just mean she thinks you're two faced or have different personalities.
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    Similar sense of humour
    Doesn't take life too seriously
    Out if the ordinary appearance - perfect is boring

    My standards aren't too high really
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    (Original post by chocolatesauce)
    Not neccesarily, it could just mean she thinks you're two faced or have different personalities.
    Hmmm maybe, She also said I was too nice to other people, That's just the guy I am, I help people out, It's what I do. She used to get fed up if I agreed to help someone out with something... think she might have been a tad of an attention seeker.
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    (Original post by Ndella)
    Similar sense of humour
    Doesn't take life too seriously
    Out if the ordinary appearance - perfect is boring

    My standards aren't too high really
    Totally agree! Perfect is boring, Like I said, I look for people that AREN'T perfect Dunno why, You could put a perfect 10 and 6 next to eachother and I'd take the 6
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    (Original post by Ryan-Slade)
    Hmmm maybe, She also said I was too nice to other people, That's just the guy I am, I help people out, It's what I do. She used to get fed up if I agreed to help someone out with something... think she might have been a tad of an attention seeker.
    Yeah or she got jealous, there's nothing wrong with helping people out, keep doing what you're doing but don't let people use you
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    (Original post by chocolatesauce)
    Yeah or she got jealous, there's nothing wrong with helping people out, keep doing what you're doing but don't let people use you
    I will do thanks Wasn't even as if I neglected her or anything, If we had plans I'd say no or arrange for a time we weren't doing anything. Even if she wasn't around she'd get the ump.
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    (Original post by Ryan-Slade)
    I will do thanks Wasn't even as if I neglected her or anything, If we had plans I'd say no or arrange for a time we weren't doing anything. Even if she wasn't around she'd get the ump.
    Hmm it sounds like she felt as if she wasn't getting enough attention from you. I could be wrong...
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    (Original post by thetrickyfox)
    + Slightly mentally unbalanced. This sounds really odd but I have never more people I was attracted to than in my group therapy sessions. I guess crazy attracts crazy. Mentally unbalanced people are often more in touch with their emotions and better communicators, strangely. So to be more general, most people will go for people with personalities similar to their own. Try going after people who you actually have similarities with. Also people like people who are interesting. I hate to tell you no one wants to hear about you spending the day curtain shopping when they first meet you.
    That isn't as odd as you may think tbh. Part of the attraction I had to one of my ex's was her uniqueness because of her craziness, so I kind of get what you mean.
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    (Original post by chocolatesauce)
    Hmm it sounds like she felt as if she wasn't getting enough attention from you. I could be wrong...
    Ahh well
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    (Original post by WelshBluebird)
    That isn't as odd as you may think tbh. Part of the attraction I had to one of my ex's was her uniqueness because of her craziness, so I kind of get what you mean.
    Totally agree, Its quirks and uniquness that makes a personality differnet from everyone elses
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    (Original post by Ryan-Slade)
    Ahh really? I do make an effort, I practically live by a pair of Jeans/Chinos and a casual shirt or tight fitting tee, Always well shaven ( Mostly because it grows in patchy and looks crap)
    I could lie and say I make an effort. Just jeans and baggy T-shirts or shorts is all I really wear. I can't wear anything fitted or tight without reconsidering my life! Maybe a hoody too. I'm a hairy guy so I used to shave every day until about 3 and a half weeks ago when I realised that this is probably the last time I could get away without shaving a rocking a beard! Haha

    -Leo
 
 
 
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