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    I only decide to not message back if I have slept with one of her friends. It's good in that case to leave bridges burnt to avoid the person finding out. If you have moved away to university then maybe he is involved with one of your old friends from back home or someone you know and doesn't want to reestablish contact for that reason.
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    OP, time heals everything. It may take a month, 3 months, maybe even 6 months..but eventually you will get over him and you'll look back on the time you spent together as a fond but distant memory. All the pain that you feel now will dissipate, and you'll be so much happier.
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    Move on. Don't become a stalker.
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    (Original post by cathyi)
    Never say never. I have had exes contact me years after the break up, looking to "hook up" again. It felt great telling them it was too late as I had since UPGRADED.

    Forwards ever, backwards never.................
    I remember years ago, a friend telling me that his first girlfriend (who he was with some 14 years previously) had got in contact with him. He told her he was happily married and they have a child together. She hasn't spoken to him since.
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    (Original post by Hachik0)
    Is this meant to be a joke. All it takes is a couples of seconds to reply back to a message. I don't buy the argument that someone can be so busy that they can't spare a couple of seconds.
    I always try my best to reply back, but sometimes I'm so busy with work that I forget by the time I get home and only remember a week or so later when I scroll through my texts. Obvs I apologise and if it's really urgent then I'm always available on my mobile.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    He usually replies instantly. I feel like such an idiot
    Sorry, hope it all goes well <3
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    What happens if you wished so much to get in contact but you never did because it's been so long and then out of the blew you get a message from your ex? Although from the way it was written it sounds more like his friend on his fb than himself
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    From someone who's been here and been hurt doing something similar. Granted he replied but it turned sour, unbeknown to me why and they blocked me. I have to accept now that they might of already move on. I realise now that what I might of had to say may not of been as important to them as it was to you if you were the dumped rather than the dumper.

    Be warned that if what you're message has nothing new to say then I'd say try to move on, because you're only gonna hurt yourself more in the long run waiting for a reply but if you need to talk over something with him or want to have a chat to get closure, I don't see the harm.

    But be mindful & open of what he might be feeling about you messaging after all this time and that he might of moved on already so talking with you might bring it all back up for him and scare him away.

    That said think how they might be feeling reaching with you messaging and for him he might not know what to do. If it was a bad break up it might be a protective mechanism for him.

    I understand that if you have unfinished business and have the need to talk but they might not want to and you have to let them come or go if they want after your no longer in contact after all this time. Or you'll push them away for good!

    Good luck and I hope that you get closure one way or another.

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    (Original post by cathyi)
    BullViagra wonderfully demonstrates what I stated earlier, that when a man sees that a girl is desperate for him, he treats her like S**t immediately after.

    This is why I asked and am begging you not to send a second message if the first one remains unanswered!
    what do you want me to answer?
 
 
 
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