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Should I start going for Prostitutes instead of hoping for a quickie watch

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    (Original post by pocahontas lol)
    And if I were a woman I'd be called all types of harlots and crazy if I said this about me wanting men.

    As for the rest of your OP. I'd suggest Jesus.
    didn't you claim to be a girl in another thread
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    (Original post by white boy)
    didn't you claim to be a girl in another thread
    If I were a woman saying that, I'd be called a harlot. How does that suggest I am not a woman? Do people really pretend to be different sexes these days where you have to question it?



    What kind of website is this?
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    (Original post by pocahontas lol)
    If I were a woman saying that, I'd be called a harlot. How does that suggest I am not a woman? Do people really pretend to be different sexes these days where you have to question it?



    What kind of website is this?
    pretty much. it reads as if you're male.
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    (Original post by white boy)
    pretty much. it reads as if you're male.
    Would you like to hear my voice? Hold on...
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    (Original post by pocahontas lol)
    Would you like to hear my voice? Hold on...
    i'll take your word for it
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    (Original post by Butterfly92xo)
    You will regret it for the rest of your life if you choose to do a dirty thing like that! Also, don't forget they harbour diseases and worse of all, HIV. Do not put your life at risk - why not try dating websites?
    So do [some of] those in the clubs :P
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    (Original post by white boy)
    i'll take your word for it
    No. You started this war. I made one just now but it sounds staticy and gives my voice alien feedback. I'll PM it to you.

    **done it. Anywho.
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    (Original post by pocahontas lol)
    And if I were a woman I'd be called all types of harlots and crazy if I said this about me wanting men.

    As for the rest of your OP. I'd suggest Jesus.
    I don't care how many men a woman sleeps with as long as she's clean i.e STD free, same goes for the name calling.

    What's Jesus going to do?, turn me into an Asexual? turn me into another "Anti-Sex" Pedophile priest?, anyway I'm an atheist so that last sentence means nothing to me.
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    (Original post by kenni12)
    Have you tried them, because from what I've heard most of the girls are fake and just there to get desperate guys paying for more stuff on them
    I'm 16 years old and not desperate for a shag, I don't really have any need to try them.

    If you're gonna end up paying for stuff for them it's probably about the same cost as a good prostitute...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You're so desperate... It's pretty pathetic.
    Whereas you went annoymous to say that. Which isn't pathetic at all...
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    (Original post by kenni12)
    If she doesn't want to do it, then she might as well not want the money. Also, I'll prefer doing it at the Netherlands, since it's legal and regulated and less likely coerced.
    Prostitution has never been illegal in the UK.

    Northern Ireland is trying to criminalise clients, but that will have the same effect of ending prostitution there as criminalising recreational drugs has had in ending the sale of drugs...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Having done it, I can say that it's not that you don't really want to have sex with them, it's that you don't want to do it for free. Why should you, when they are offering money?

    Escorts are really unlikely to have been trafficked. There was a big operation by the police, Pentameter 2, a couple of years ago. "The end result was that, after raiding 822 brothels, flats and massage parlours all over the UK, Pentameter finally convicted of trafficking a grand total of only 15 men and women."

    Have a watch of http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/programme...ht/8318629.stm
    Besides the fact that Pentameter was...six years ago, and was unlikely to have visited every single sex worker in the UK (i.e. there's still a risk of having sex with someone who's been trafficked):

    - IIRC quite a few were arrested for stuff like illegal immigration and drug use. It's no coincidence that drug use and prostitution often go hand in hand - it's a very seedy world to get involved with.
    - The lady in the video herself said most prostitutes were mothers trying to support their families during the recession...it hardly seems like they took up the work for the fun of it. How would you like it if someone you were close with (e.g. close female friend, sister, maybe even mother) had no alternative but to turn themselves into lovable pieces of meat for dozens, maybe hundreds of awful men?


    (Original post by kenni12)
    If she doesn't want to do it, then she might as well not want the money. Also, I'll prefer doing it at the Netherlands, since it's legal and regulated and less likely coerced.
    Other reasons for not going down the prostitution route: Risk of STDs, most (non-prostitute) women are never going to give you the time of day once they find out (although if you're seriously considering it you probably have no respect for women anyway - so there's that), and you're just setting yourselves up for an unhappy time with someone who really does not want to be having sex with you. How hard is that to understand?
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    (Original post by SayItAintSoJoe)
    Besides the fact that Pentameter was...six years ago, and was unlikely to have visited every single sex worker in the UK (i.e. there's still a risk of having sex with someone who's been trafficked):
    800+ brothels (the other words are just synonyms) is a very large chunk of the ones that exist. This was "an intelligence-led" operation, using the best possible knowledge of the local scene by every force. There was no need to visit every single sex worker. Many are working independently, not in brothels or "for" someone.

    The reason there hasn't been a Pentameter 3 was that this one was such an expensive flop.

    How would you like it if someone you were close with (e.g. close female friend, sister, maybe even mother) had no alternative but to turn themselves into lovable pieces of meat for dozens, maybe hundreds of awful men?
    How did you miss the opening words of my reply? I have had sex with people for money.

    I had choices, I chose that. The hourly rate easily beats working in McDonalds. That would be exploitation!

    I didn't see anyone who showed any sign of being disrespectful of me or my choice. I would do it again.

    The first problem with your question isn't the choice to do sex work, it's the "no alternative" bit. That's a society issue, a benefits issue, not a sex work one.

    The second problem is that you're not listening to someone who's done sex work because they don't fit your prejudices.
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    Yeah. That way you won't be disappointed. You know exactly what you're getting, you don't have to guess or wonder or fantasise. Just do it.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    800+ brothels (the other words are just synonyms) is a very large chunk of the ones that exist. This was "an intelligence-led" operation, using the best possible knowledge of the local scene by every force. There was no need to visit every single sex worker. Many are working independently, not in brothels or "for" someone.

    The reason there hasn't been a Pentameter 3 was that this one was such an expensive flop.
    A flop for any number of reasons - look at how sophisticated child smuggling rings are getting. It's not a ridiculous leap of faith to assume Pentameter 2 lacked the resources necessary for an operation of its scale.

    How did you miss the opening words of my reply? I have had sex with people for money.

    I had choices, I chose that. The hourly rate easily beats working in McDonalds. That would be exploitation!

    I didn't see anyone who showed any sign of being disrespectful of me or my choice. I would do it again.

    The first problem with your question isn't the choice to do sex work, it's the "no alternative" bit. That's a society issue, a benefits issue, not a sex work one.

    The second problem is that you're not listening to someone who's done sex work because they don't fit your prejudices.
    Yeah, I'll agree it's mainly a society issue - but that doesn't change the fact that prostitution is not exactly a winning profession by any means. Something's gotta give way to survive in this world, I know, and it's really unfortunate that a means of satisfying power-hungry men has to be one of the more lucrative means of doing so.

    By the way, I'm aware that you've had sex with people for money, but that doesn't change my post at all. FWIW, you yourself used the past tense - why aren't you currently having sex for money?

    (None of this changes the fact that prostitution is essentially roulette regarding sex trafficked women, by the way. If you have the option to NOT aid sex trafficking, why not do that instead??)
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    (Original post by SayItAintSoJoe)
    If you have the option to NOT aid sex trafficking, why not do that instead??)
    If you have the option of NOT aiding child labour explotation, wouldn't you do that?

    Don't wear clothes or use electronic goods...
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    (Original post by Quady)
    If you have the option of NOT aiding child labour explotation, wouldn't you do that?

    Don't wear clothes or use electronic goods...
    Two wrongs don't make a right, and there's a difference between essential societal needs and "my penis hasn't been inside anyone yet boohoo oh I know I'll go stick it inside a woman trying to feed her kids"

    Here's a pretty decent article on why prostitution is awful.
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    (Original post by SayItAintSoJoe)
    Two wrongs don't make a right, and there's a difference between essential societal needs and "my penis hasn't been inside anyone yet boohoo oh I know I'll go stick it inside a woman trying to feed her kids"

    Here's a pretty decent article on why prostitution is awful.
    So you'd rather she couldn't feed her kids?
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    (Original post by kenni12)
    I'm a 24 yo male 2nd yr Undergrad, a lot of people tell me that I'm handsome and I'm a good guy and all, few have ask me whether I have a girlfriend(my dad asks me that question a lot,lol), sadly that's far from the truth, now I think about it, it makes me question my attractiveness or my first impressions?.
    In fact, I won't say that a relationship is all I want for my life in terms of sex, I'd prefer sleeping with as many girls as I possibly can before settling down, but despite being in uni for 4yrs and being more social and joining more social groups, there was no sign of progress.
    I think was close in the club 4 times with girls that spent so much time kissing me on the dance-floor, but it never went further than that, because after sometime, while I was think about how or whether to get them from the dance floor to the bedroom, their attention diverted to something else.
    Although I'm bisexual, and I find getting into online encounters with men easier, I still feel that it would be better if I did it more with women.
    Now, I'm so sexually frustrated, that I'm starting to wonder if I'd have better results with a prostitute, I think if I start doing that, I'd be more confident in the sense that I wouldn't care about whether the next girl I meet would want me to sleep with her or not and if she obviously does, it would be a bonus.
    What's your suggestion?, it would be helpful if anyone that has ever used a prostitute can give me one.
    Some other repliers have probably said this, but why don't you use tinder? Be upfront about what you want and I bet you'll be successful
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    (Original post by Quady)
    So you'd rather she couldn't feed her kids?
    Pretty sure you're just trolling at this point but I'll humour you anyway: No, but society needs to wake up and realise that there's a massive problem with wealth distribution if it means women have to resort to prostitution simply to make ends meet.

    EDIT: Oh, and if anyone were that interested in helping prostitutes feed their kids: He could simply pay her whatever fee she charged and then leave. Or wait around, just in case there's a pimp or something checking if anything's suspicious going on.
 
 
 
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