Guys: Honestly, what do you think about overweight girls in general? Watch
For a man to look good it takes years of hard work in the gym/exercising and managing a strict diet
For a woman to look good she just doesn't have to eat like a hippo
Yet women complain about how hard it is and demand that men find them attractive at all sizes, from anorexic to landwhale
In short, yes I find overweight girls attractive because I'm not that bothered by how someone looks. It does seem a little unfair though when no one will touch a fat guy with a pole but we have all these movements demanding that we accept obese women as sexy
Okay so I'm 18, overweight and never had what I'd call a proper relationship.
I've been told by many people that I am attractive, and that other girls are jealous of my assets (boobs, bum, curves - all a side effect of being overweight in my opinion haha )
Whenever I go out, I always get guys coming up to me and asking for my thinner friends names, although whenever I do pull and stuff it's always really thin, attractive (in my opinion) guys? It honestly confuses the **** out of me though for some reason but I'm sure it's the drink talking because if they saw me sober guaranteed half of them wouldn't come near me because of the 'stigma' of me being fat/chubby/overweight.
I've honestly struggled with my weight and appearance for years and years, honestly for as long as I can remember, and it gets me down a lot thinking about whether or not people would treat me differently if I was thin.
Before anyone says anything, I am trying to lose weight and have been for a while.
But anyway guys (and girls) what do you think to generally attractive but overweight people and how would you react to advances from them? What would your preferred size be? If you're overweight, how do you feel about yourself and how others perceive you?
Odds are if you're a women with no significant relationship to date then yes weight is likely to be the issue - a below head shot body pic could help determine here for sure. Anyway, can't be emphasized enough that you are making the dating game real difficult on yourself by being obese if that is the case - many men will not regard you as dateable or even view you as someone whose out to date, friendship probably won't be a problem with men but many just won't view you as a possibility if you suggested a date they would probably knock you back as if a man was asking for a date with a hetrosexual guy - harsh I know but its how that person feels. So best way is to lose weight.