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    (Original post by jstylesxx)
    Girls rarely approach guys - we wait for you to approach us!!
    Can i approach you?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I go out all the time and I'm quite an attractive male. Girls just don't seem to notice me or take any interest in me sexually.

    Pic or i call bs
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    (Original post by Cherry82)
    I'm quite confused, wait why should this be a motive or a goal? Maybe I'm just different from others but I wouldn't care once I'm at uni and it's not because of my gender.
    Why should good company and sex be a priority? You must be a lonely person not to appreciate the merit of such things.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I go out all the time and I'm quite an attractive male. Girls just don't seem to notice me or take any interest in me sexually.

    Allow them, you can have me
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    (Original post by DrSocSciences)
    Parties that involved swapping clothes were what worked at my first uni: at some point, everyone is pretty much naked, but just not all at the same time. If that fails, it ain't ever going to happen.
    Did people organize that party or did it just develop?
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    (Original post by endgametheory)
    Here's some food for thought, maybe they're too busy in trying to complete their degree?
    I like you. So much sense- I can't seem to understand why not getting laid in university should be a problem. This education isn't free, I'd rather focus on succeeding as there's more important things to worry about.
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    (Original post by RomanKing)
    Shots fired. Legend. You're right doe. Pure bants
    Rahh, I went from 2 gems to 4 just from that comment. Madting
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    (Original post by endgametheory)
    Rahh, I went from 2 gems to 4 just from that comment. Madting
    Rahh my yute. it's because that was a firing shot. Keep firing shots like that. Tell these people wagwan and the obvious.

    I said something similar to someones post yesterday. They asked, how to pull girls at the club. I commented something like go to the library and pull the girl studying. etc
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    (Original post by Zenarthra)
    Tbh, i just think OP is too picky.
    Anyone attractive can bang an ugly chick.
    What's the point in that? If you don't find someone attractive why would you want to bang them?
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    (Original post by Cherry82)
    I like you. So much sense- I can't seem to understand why not getting laid in university should be a problem. This education isn't free, I'd rather focus on succeeding as there's more important things to worry about.
    Absolutely. I couldn't agree more. But everyone has their way of life I suppose.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    Why should good company and sex be a priority? You must be a lonely person not to appreciate the merit of such things.
    But you can have good company without having sex. Are you telling me all good company involves sexual relations? Of course not.
    I'm also not about that life where I could have casual sex or where I could just go out to look for a sexual partner. That's not me at all. I'm someone who sees sex as very personal, intimate, something I would want to do with the one person I am deeply in love with which is why I am waiting.
    Apart from this, I'm more interested in building strong relationships i.e friendships with people and socialising then mainly focusing on finding myself career wise. Analysing things sex isn't everything, well at least not for me and it seems a bit overrated especially in uni/college. I know I could survive in uni without having any sex. I think it doesn't equal total happiness and fulfilment, even when it does it's temporary.
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    And guys a quick question, the ladies you'd like to 'bang'/ end up 'banging' do you consider their personalities or are you only interested in having sex with them and moving on? Say if these girls want more afterwards, catching feelings for you what do you say? If you only want sex do you tell them this before having sex with them?
    I'm not trying to shame any one on here, especially when it's consensual sex but I'm curious because these are real people at the end of the day who can catch feelings.
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    (Original post by bassbabe)
    So you went to uni to bang girls rather than get a degree. Smh
    So one must be single for 4 years just because they're chasing a degree ? God. That's like you have to focus on your books for 4 years. I would go crazy

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    Someone's been watching too much American pie.
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    (Original post by Cherry82)
    But you can have good company without having sex. Are you telling me all good company involves sexual relations? Of course not.
    I'm also not about that life where I could have casual sex or where I could just go out to look for a sexual partner. That's not me at all. I'm someone who sees sex as very personal, intimate, something I would want to do with the one person I am deeply in love with which is why I am waiting.
    Apart from this, I'm more interested in building strong relationships i.e friendships with people and socialising then mainly focusing on finding myself career wise. Analysing things sex isn't everything, well at least not for me and it seems a bit overrated especially in uni/college. I know I could survive in uni without having any sex. I think it doesn't equal total happiness and fulfilment, even when it does it's temporary.
    I see it as an additional friendship, a very close and physical one, the laughter, smiling and pleasure, how could no one want this? I am not a one night stand sort of guy either.

    I can't stand the hypermasculine idiots who do nothing but talk about sex, one compliment I usually get is that I almost never talk about it, even flirting is not done like that for me.

    I believe if you are waiting to be in love before you do anything physical you are looking at it the wrong way, that sort of bond is often built through physical intimacy, that's why it's not a friendship, if you want a friendship with a girl get married.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm guessing that was in the days before camera/smart phones, lol.
    Yup, every party had a renaissance artist with easel and canvas.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    I see it as an additional friendship, a very close and physical one, the laughter, smiling and pleasure, how could no one want this? I am not a one night stand sort of guy either.

    I can't stand the hypermasculine idiots who do nothing but talk about sex, one compliment I usually get is that I almost never talk about it, even flirting is not done like that for me.

    I believe if you are waiting to be in love before you do anything physical you are looking at it the wrong way, that sort of bond is often built through physical intimacy, that's why it's not a friendship, if you want a friendship with a girl get married.
    Well, that's your own opinion
    I don't see it as an additional friendship at all because people's feelings normally do get involved. If you're being intimate with someone, you have similar interests and get on one of you most likely may end up having feelings for the other person. Unless you both do, this is where it becomes problematic. I don't believe in friends with benefits too. If we lived in a world were you could guarantee no feelings attached why not but it's not like this in reality. As someone who loves too hard this would mess me up so I'm saying that intimacy and love for one person.
    'love before you do anything physical you are looking at it the wrong way'...how? So do you only want to have sex with these women because of sexual attraction and pleasure? Lol I will get married, hopefully.
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    (Original post by sleepysnooze)
    I'm 5'6 yet I still pull :lol: well, sometimes. you just need to make up for it.
    You must be very hot, can i get your number
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    oh, there was me thinking that uni was for learning. oops my bad hehe
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    (Original post by MaskOfKeaton)
    What's the point in that? If you don't find someone attractive why would you want to bang them?
    Thats the alternative to getting rid of the virgin tag.
    Or can't get laid tag.
 
 
 
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