I don't think you understand Western values. Western values say we shouldn't force people to do what we want them to do unless they are given due process of law decided by representatives.
Allowing a few Muslims not to shake a woman's hand? I believe it's called freedom of religion?
What a nasty disgrace. Muslims will often say Islam respects women then you have a few insane rules like these that clearly imply women are sexual pieces of meat not to be touched, presumably for fear of arousing lust and orgies. The day Islam grows up and drags itself out of the 7th century will be a happy day indeed.