Because generalising half the population based off their gender isn't at all sexist and doesn't scream insecurity
And to think, I was actually taking you seriously until now.
You're just as bad as her(Original post by Fenugreek)
insecure hahahahah.Women are the most insecure, hating their bodies, won't let their partners see their face without makeup until 1 year into relationship, sleeping with a lot of men to put to ease her insecurities.
x
Turn on thread page Beta
-
BhagwanNoBhool
- Follow
- 7 followers
- 2 badges
- Send a private message to BhagwanNoBhool
Offline2ReputationRep:- Follow
- 61
- 16-04-2016 13:40
-
Underscore__
- Follow
- 6 followers
- 20 badges
- Send a private message to Underscore__
Offline20ReputationRep:- Follow
- 62
- 16-04-2016 13:40
(Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
But I don't understand why it's unattractive? It not like it affects your sex like in anyway, infact it probably makes it better, no?
(Original post by loveleest)
And how do you know if the hottest girls aren't lying about the amount of people they slept with?
(Original post by BhagwanNoBhool)
I really hate this analogy, human nature can't be simplified to something this arbitrary.
At least use the evolutionary argument to back up your point. Men (of all cultures I can think of) tend to have an aversion of promiscuous women because from their perspective, women with numerous mates are less statistically likely to bare that particular male's offspring. Therefore the genes that promoted an attraction to less promiscuous females tended to be passed on more often. That's quite literally human nature.
(Original post by HotHipster)
I'm above average and slept around
Posted from TSR Mobile -
trustmeimlying1
- Follow
- 183 followers
- 19 badges
- Send a private message to trustmeimlying1
Offline19ReputationRep:- Follow
- 63
- 16-04-2016 13:41
(Original post by Novascope)
Or maybe it's a form of empowerment and it's not about "everyone having her" it's more of HER being able to have whoever SHE wants, and I don't see what's wrong about that at all.
If she doesn't boast about it, and simply shares it upon answering a question it shouldn't be a problem AT ALL.
yeh if she stays classy I dont see how its an issue either aslong as shes responsible. -
- Follow
- 64
- 16-04-2016 13:41
(Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
No flowerI was referring to what you're saying, and then the number of people your have apparently slept with.
I went through all this (about how I understand it's double standards and I know what people think of me and I'm not being a hypocrite) in a separate thread anywayLast edited by Darien91; 16-04-2016 at 13:43. -
TheonlyMrsHolmes
- Follow
- 272 followers
- 17 badges
- Send a private message to TheonlyMrsHolmes
Offline17ReputationRep:- Follow
- 65
- 16-04-2016 13:41
(Original post by trustmeimlying1)
Why is it unattractive?
Simple. Most lads want a classy girl. So if she has been with a lot of lads that wont help that image. Getting a girl that everyone can have is hardly a great thing. Its associated with a certain stereotype. If shes doesnt boast about it, its less of a problem.
For me the same goes for lads. No one likes the guy who boasts about how much sex hes getting. And if hes with everyone hardly makes him very desirable. It works both ways. Women just seem to care less.
No, that isn't true. You can still be "classy" and have a lot of sexual partners. It can be tastefully done.
The answer isn't because the girl is not classy, the answer is men's insecurity/ ego. It's as simple as that. I can be sure of that because the men that spew out this same rubbish aren't very "classy" themselves.Last edited by TheonlyMrsHolmes; 16-04-2016 at 13:44. -
TheonlyMrsHolmes
- Follow
- 272 followers
- 17 badges
- Send a private message to TheonlyMrsHolmes
Offline17ReputationRep:- Follow
- 66
- 16-04-2016 13:42
(Original post by trustmeimlying1)
Bullcrap. yeh could theres similar pressures for men. -
loveleest
- Follow
- 128 followers
- 21 badges
- Send a private message to loveleest
Offline21ReputationRep:- Follow
- 67
- 16-04-2016 13:42
(Original post by BhagwanNoBhool)
I've never actually encountered anyone calling virgin women boring or timid.
Do you actually have any proof of this claim?
And even if what you were saying was true, surely women could "win" by not going to either extreme?
There is a middle ground between 0 and a lot. -
M0nkey Thunder
- Follow
- 20 followers
- 13 badges
- Send a private message to M0nkey Thunder
Offline13ReputationRep:- Follow
- 68
- 16-04-2016 13:42
So a guy can't like a girl who's more reserved now? Or is the issue double standards here?
I can't seem to get my head around this argument.. -
BhagwanNoBhool
- Follow
- 7 followers
- 2 badges
- Send a private message to BhagwanNoBhool
Offline2ReputationRep:- Follow
- 69
- 16-04-2016 13:43
(Original post by Underscore__)
It was a joke really, I didn't realise people use that analogy seriously. -
- Follow
- 70
- 16-04-2016 13:43
(Original post by Novascope)
Or maybe it's a form of empowerment and it's not about "everyone having her" it's more of HER being able to have whoever SHE wants, and I don't see what's wrong about that at all.
If she doesn't boast about it, and simply shares it upon answering a question it shouldn't be a problem AT ALL.
However using myself as an example isn't the best thing to do, but the point still stand with most men/women.
Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.Last edited by Mayhem™; 16-04-2016 at 13:44. -
loveleest
- Follow
- 128 followers
- 21 badges
- Send a private message to loveleest
Offline21ReputationRep:- Follow
- 71
- 16-04-2016 13:45
(Original post by Underscore__)
I can't really say why, it's just something I find unattractive. I also can't explain why I'd find a 16st woman unattractive.
How do you know your mum isn't lying to you about who your dad is? Sometimes you just take people at their word, especially when you can't see a reason why they'd lie.
It was a joke really, I didn't realise people use that analogy seriously.
Firstly its an analogy. Secondly it's a joke.
Well that's subjective
Posted from TSR Mobile -
TheonlyMrsHolmes
- Follow
- 272 followers
- 17 badges
- Send a private message to TheonlyMrsHolmes
Offline17ReputationRep:- Follow
- 72
- 16-04-2016 13:45
(Original post by Mayhem™)
That's a poor argument to make, I could probably 'pull' more than half of the girls my I age - but I choose not to because I have decency.
However using myself as an example isn't the best thing to do, but the point still stand with most men/women.
Just because you can, doesn't mean you should. -
muslimstanisyed
- Follow
- 4 followers
- 1 badge
- Send a private message to muslimstanisyed
Offline1ReputationRep:- Follow
- 73
- 16-04-2016 13:45
I like women to have morals and have enough social awareness to understand that if you behave in this manner most people will not respect you and people like me will treat you like **** .
Dont see why i should settle anyway why settle for less.
Also my culture plays a part.
How am i going to introduce my family to a girl whos had multiple penises
What will they say?
What about my friends i will be taken the piss out of and rightly soLast edited by muslimstanisyed; 16-04-2016 at 13:50. -
- Follow
- 74
- 16-04-2016 13:45
(Original post by Underscore__;[url="tel:64193547")
64193547[/url]]I think that's true if it's just to have sex but I think it's different when it comes to looking for a relationship.
I think the way most guys look at it has been said really. If you want another way to look at it: if a key opens multiple locks it's a master key, if a lock is opened by lots of keys it's a crappy lock.
Posted from TSR Mobile -
- Follow
- 75
- 16-04-2016 13:45
(Original post by BhagwanNoBhool)
Because generalising half the population based off their gender isn't at all sexist and doesn't scream insecurity
And to think, I was actually taking you seriously until now.
You're just as bad as her
You're starting to annoy me with this nonsense that makes no sense. -
Novascope
- Follow
- 75 followers
- 15 badges
- Send a private message to Novascope
Offline15ReputationRep:- Follow
- 76
- 16-04-2016 13:46
(Original post by Mayhem™)
That's a poor argument to make, I could probably 'pull' more than half of the girls my I age - but I choose not to because I have decency.
However using myself as an example isn't the best thing to do, but the point still stand with most men/women.
Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.
You're only 16 anyway so that's laughable. I doubt anyone here was talking about people who have just become legal to have sex anyway. -
trustmeimlying1
- Follow
- 183 followers
- 19 badges
- Send a private message to trustmeimlying1
Offline19ReputationRep:- Follow
- 77
- 16-04-2016 13:46
(Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
No, that isn't true. You can still be "classy" and have a lot of sexual partners. It can be tastefully done.
The answer isn't because the girl is not classy, the answer is men's insecurity/ ego. It's as simple as that. I can be sure of that because then men that spew out this same rubbish aren't very "classy" themselves.
No its taste Mrs Holmes. Many girls feel the same about players. Some lads have different rules for women. Others judge themselves the way they would a girl. I would be spreading what I did with a girl because its private. Expect the same from her.
(Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
Didn't say there weren't.... -
alkaline.
- Follow
- 57 followers
- 15 badges
- Send a private message to alkaline.
Offline15ReputationRep:- Follow
- 78
- 16-04-2016 13:46
(Original post by tengentoppa)
Nah it's a myth. Apparently the vagina only gets a bit looser when the woman is turned on, more sex doesn't mean wider vagina.
It makes sense really. Why would having sex with 50 different guys make your vagina looser than having sex with the same guy 50 times? And wouldn't there be a massive crevasse after childbirth? It's ********.
@OP, A girl who sleeps around a lot isn't great relationship material.
also a virgin vagina is ALOT tighter compared to someone who is not a virgin. Every time you have sex after losing it it doesn't get looser each time though I mean it's a muscular wall.Last edited by alkaline.; 16-04-2016 at 13:49. -
Novascope
- Follow
- 75 followers
- 15 badges
- Send a private message to Novascope
Offline15ReputationRep:- Follow
- 79
- 16-04-2016 13:46
(Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
Oh child please... -
- Follow
- 80
- 16-04-2016 13:47
(Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
Oh child please...
Reply
Submit reply
Turn on thread page Beta
TSR Support Team
We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.
This forum is supported by:
Updated: April 8, 2018
Share this discussion:
Tweet