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I'm a Muslim guy and I had a relationship with an Atheist girl. AMA. Watch

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    (Original post by fatima1998)
    i am ASEXUAL
    We'll see when your hormones kick in.
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    Hmm, maybe she's not as strict as me. I couldn't be with anyone religious, even just mildly religious. That's incompatibility in my opinion
    Good girl.
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    (Original post by Josb)
    We'll see when your hormones kick in.
    when i'll die probs :dontknow: my hormones aren't normal like me :lol:
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    (Original post by Josb)
    We'll see when your hormones kick in.
    You bigoted aphobe. :shakecane:
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    (Original post by Hydeman)
    So it seems. :eek: I suppose it's my fault for assuming that a South Asian whose religious views I'm not aware of is highly probable to be a theist of some kind. :lol:
    Yeah but I don't blame you. Not many South Asians are outright Atheists. Most will stay under religion but just say 'Oh, I'm not that religious'.

    I'm guessing you're an Atheist too?
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    (Original post by Josb)
    Good girl.
    :five:
    Thank you!
    I couldn't understand anyone who could actually believe all that. I'll leave it there, as I don't want to get beaten up any time soon.
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    do u prefer dating muslim girls or atheist girls?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yep, exactly that. AMA.
    You said you repented for it. But did you ask for forgiveness?

    Regardless of the sin, even if it's the biggest, unforgivable sin in Islam, Allah sites if you ask for forgiveness he will give it you. He is most forgiving of them all.

    This doesn't mean that it is an invitation/ chance to do all sins. If you truly regret what you did don't let it happen again. Islam isn't a religion where you can pick and choose, you either follow the rules and give it the respect it requires or you choose not be a Muslim at all.

    Everyone makes mistakes. Just don't let this be a repeated one.

    And know that Islam is big on the whole dating / sex before marriage thing, so don't do it if you want to follow your religion. Remember this life is a test. our real lives as we believe hasn't even started yet. Just know that you're never alone, Allah is always watching you.
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    (Original post by Hydeman)
    So it seems. :eek: I suppose it's my fault for assuming that a South Asian whose religious views I'm not aware of is highly probable to be a theist of some kind. :lol:
    :shock: :zomg: :eek: :eek4::eek3::eyeball::fisheye::gasp::hare::hmpf::nooo::yikes:
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    Yeah but I don't blame you. Not many South Asians are outright Atheists. Most will stay under religion but just say 'Oh, I'm not that religious'.

    I'm guessing you're an Atheist too?
    Yes, unfortunately the family circumstances tend not to permit an outright confession. :/

    Yep, I'm a fellow card-carrying Ath-Soc member.

    (Original post by Eternalflames)
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    Thank you!
    I couldn't understand anyone who could actually believe all that. I'll leave it there, as I don't want to get beaten up any time soon.
    This is interesting, since I've often been accused of being something of an extremist when it comes to religion, and yet my view regarding relationships with religious people is slightly more lenient than yours, at least in theory. :holmes: :lol:

    (Original post by MevMev)
    do u prefer dating muslim girls or atheist girls?
    Both are technically haram.

    (Original post by fatima1998)
    :shock: :zomg: :eek: :eek4::eek3::eyeball::fisheye::gasp::hare::hmpf::nooo::yikes:
    What?
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    (Original post by Hydeman)
    Yes, unfortunately the family circumstances tend not to permit an outright confession. :/

    Yep, I'm a fellow card-carrying Ath-Soc member.

    This is interesting, since I've often been accused of being something of an extremist when it comes to religion, and yet my view regarding relationships with religious people is slightly more lenient than yours, at least in theory. :holmes: :lol:
    Yeah that would be blasphemous.

    Most of the times I've been carded on this website have been for offending religion
    I don't know how, but I seem to be a staunch Atheist :lol:
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    (Original post by Maz0110)
    Allah is always watching you.
    http://www.journaldugeek.com/files/2...ching_Wide.png
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    (Original post by fatima1998)
    xoxox
    What?
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    What?
    :dontknow: i didn't write xoxoxo
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    (Original post by redleader1)
    Dont worry I like asking questions . How long since you met did you start dating ? Im Pakistani so generally if someone was to go out with a girl who isnt muslim they would either consider if she was eligible for marriage, do you understand ? If your asian I assume you understand where Im coming from ?

    How long did the relationship last ?
    Quite a while tbh lol, we talked for the longest time and eventually we confessed to liking each other and so we went out maybe a couple months after meeting. Yes.. I understand but basically I just kinda fell for her... And there was a very slight potential of marriage but highly unlikely. I completely get where you're coming from tbh and I think it was just a one-off situation you know?
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    (Original post by fatima1998)
    :dontknow: i didn't write xoxoxo
    Hahahah, I know choti bachi

    But what happened?
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    (Original post by MevMev)
    do u prefer dating muslim girls or atheist girls?
    Lol I have never dated a Muslim girl. Though I have been asked out quite a few times by both... I myself have only asked out this one girl and she was atheist.
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    Hahahah, I know choti bachi

    But what happened?
    what happened :unsure: i dunno what happened :lol:
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    (Original post by fatima1998)
    what happened :unsure: i dunno what happened :lol:
    You had all those shocked emojis, to Hydeman's quote.
    What was wrong with 'it's my fault'? :lol:
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    You had all those shocked emojis, to Hydeman's quote.
    What was wrong with 'it's my fault'? :lol:
    ohh that :rofl: he told me that he is never wrong or he is always right so that "its my fault" caught my eyes :shock: :lol:
 
 
 
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