I think we'll stay even though it effectively means Brits as a rule don't give a flying **** about democracy.
In hindsight the Cold War was a waste, since apparently Europe actually quite likes oligarchy.
Between the EU, the media and the government itself, the In campaign has done a wonderful job of convincing the middle-classes that leaving the EU means the end of the world, equating a supranational federalist organization with Europe itself.
Convincing undecideds that to leave the EU is to not only chose the apocalypse, but also to make you a bit of a racist and xenophobe, and you don't want to be seen as one of those do you?
So we will remain within the undemocratic and struggling-along EU, continuing to not get any consideration by the powers that be, and going down with the EU ship to it's inevitable implosion.
Still, an In vote is a vote for the status quo, so that'll be however much longer of the same disintegration and scandals until the EU blows up, leaving the member-states worse off than they already are.
I would have preferred we left sooner, but democracy will have spoken. Choosing the devil we know rather than taking a chance (which is hardly one) for a better future pursuing it with the world at large rather than through the EU's bureaucratic lens.
I suppose when everything collapses and the dust has settled I'll get the bitter-sweet chance to say "told you so"..