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What are your red-flags for the opposite sex? watch

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    If she's a psycho***** from hell.

    I have fairly low standards
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    Smokes.
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    (Original post by Anthony Ludovici)
    I think it's useful to have a series of red-flags, centered around pattern recognition, which help to identify dysfunctional members of the opposite sex who would make for bad partners.

    For me, these are:

    - She doesn't have a good relationship with her father.
    - She is open about "hating children".
    - She regularly uses drugs.
    - She dyes her hair pastel/bright colors (blue/green/orange).
    - She has tattoos.
    - She has had sex with a reckless number of partners.
    - She engages in serial monogamy.
    - She dislikes and traduces her own racial group, while worshipping others (think wiggers and asiaphiles).

    How about you?
    - He whines about his mother a lot or seems to have 'mummy issues'
    -Uses weed or other illegal drugs
    -Smokes or drinks regularly
    -Engages in lots of sex indiscriminately
    -Appears to convey the typical 'chav' stereotype and has no interest in bettering himself or becoming more educated
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    (Original post by Anthony Ludovici)
    - She doesn't have a good relationship with her father.
    - She is open about "hating children".
    - She regularly uses drugs.
    - She dyes her hair pastel/bright colors (blue/green/orange).

    - She has tattoos.
    Oh, these are bad traits?
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    - Psychology A-level
    - Entirely arts/languages A-levels
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    Poor hygiene and just not caring about their bodies e.g eating bad stuff every day

    Tattoos are hot af why the hate ppl why
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    - Smokes
    - Rude to waiters, police etc
    - Has had sex with more than (Age/5) ,always round down, people.
    - Eats junk food 24/7
    - Can't dress for ****
    - No eye brows but just painted on...
    - White ghetto trash
    - Cant keep a conversation
    - Always talks about them selves
    - Doesn't have life aspirations (Not that important)
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    Has a penis.
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    Oh please nice little mass appeal cliche you spat there but there are tonnes of young women who voted to leave stop it :hahaha:
    Probably a lot of unintelligent ones.

    :mmm:

    (Original post by Dandaman1)
    Has a penis.
    Wouldn't really be the opposite sex, then...
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    None... no interest.
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    Probably a lot of unintelligent ones.

    :mmm:.
    :nah:shawtybyou voted leave. He just called you unintelligent...

    :mmm:
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    colored hair - probs a feminist
    slut - self explanatory. no one wants an std
    borderline/bipolar disorder - dont stick ur **** in crazy
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    (Original post by littlenorthernlass)
    -smokes
    -has tattoos
    -ungentlemanly demeanour
    -thin/lanky

    :dontknow:
    Prefer a hambeast would you?
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    (S)he supports Brexit (A).
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    Ummm seriously idunno, I guess *****iness from (wo)men is a red-flag for me, I hate people who constantly backstab others.

    Girls that are chavs, but not guys...weirdly...
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    :nah:shawtybyou voted leave. He just called you unintelligent...

    :mmm:
    i may be unintelligent but...

    (dont look if your a prude)
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    i probably lick foof better
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    (Original post by Raees_Sharif)
    colored hair - probs a feminist
    slut - self explanatory. no one wants an std
    borderline/bipolar disorder - dont stick ur **** in crazy
    Because you're not a prick at all.
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    Because you're not a prick at all.
    nope just a realist
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    (Original post by Raees_Sharif)
    nope just a realist
    Nah, I think prick is definitely more apt.
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    - Fluorescently coloured hair
    - >5 sexual partners(if around the same age as me), >15 (generally) (As much as people can shag as many people as they want, I don't want to be with somebody with poor impulse control)
    - Non mild mental illness ( I have tolerated that enough, I don't want it infiltrating other parts of my life too)
    - Smells bad/poor hygiene
    - Polar opposite political views (It would suggest completely different values)
    - Controlling/Dominant
    - Overly submissive/passive
    - Any kind of non-trivial body modification (so some small tattoos and pierced ears would be ok, but a nose ring or pierced anything else would be a dealbreaker)
 
 
 
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