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    So you're not actually a sugar baby then, just someone who dates older men and pockets some extra cash at the end of the date. There's no shame in that but at least call it what it is, being a sugar baby is about luxury and £200 and a quick bang at your flat doesnt sound luxurious at all
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Is that like a prostitute trying to sound classy? I suppose if you lose your dignity and ambition its always an option to sell your body to desperate seedy men lol..
    We generally do end up selling a part of ourselves when looking for a job though. Women can even sell their wombs nowadays. If OP has chosen to be a sugar baby why does it bother you?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically I'm bored and lately I've seen people talking about being SB or an escort so I figured what the hell. I'm a sugar baby (even tho I hate that 'title' ) and I quite enjoy it. So anyone curious about it, ask me anything.
    What made you want to get into sugaring original? Was is something you wanted to do for a long time?

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically I'm bored and lately I've seen people talking about being SB or an escort so I figured what the hell. I'm a sugar baby (even tho I hate that 'title' ) and I quite enjoy it. So anyone curious about it, ask me anything.
    PM Me. Potential new income stream for you.
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    Hi anonymous,
    I'm currently directing a documentary short about Sugar Babies and other similar arrangements. We're looking for additional contributors for interviews and I wanted to know if you'd be interested in talking about your experiences, even if this is something you are no longer doing. We would be able to film this in a way that doesn't expose your identity if you prefer. We'd also cover expenses and travel costs (we're London based). If this seems like something you'd be interested in, please let me know.
    Thanks so much, Lucy
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    where can i find me one?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically I'm bored and lately I've seen people talking about being SB or an escort so I figured what the hell. I'm a sugar baby (even tho I hate that 'title' ) and I quite enjoy it. So anyone curious about it, ask me anything.
    Do you not care that nobody will ever want to create a life with you down the road? Genuinely curious
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically I'm bored and lately I've seen people talking about being SB or an escort so I figured what the hell. I'm a sugar baby (even tho I hate that 'title' ) and I quite enjoy it. So anyone curious about it, ask me anything.
    Do you miss your self respect?
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    Hey,

    I'm currently doing a project on UK students taking up sugaring to help cover the lifestyle costs of university + general life. I'd love to chat to you if possible?

    Thanks!
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    Are there any sugar babies willing to talk to me for a student documentary I am making?
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    How much do you charge for sucking some D?
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    I am genuinely a little concerned about the low amount you're getting paid each night.
    Considering you're a niche being so young, and the fact that you actually go out on dates with these men you should be charging a LOT more, no matter where in country you live.

    Also of course an escort/prostitute gets to chose their clients. Plenty of people are willing to pay for sex and you don't have to meet up or accept an offer from someone you don't want. Of course if it's your only source of income and you're desperate then it's another matter. But people who do this on the side charge a LOT more than you do and also get to chose their clients.
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    (Original post by nomad992)
    Do you not care that nobody will ever want to create a life with you down the road? Genuinely curious
    Why would her past affect a future partner? Presuming OP has stopped being paid for sex then what's the difference between her and someone who slept around in their younger years?
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    I am doing a project for uni about being a Sugar Baby - please anyone get in touch to help my research x
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    (Original post by Livvyxo)
    Why would her past affect a future partner? Presuming OP has stopped being paid for sex then what's the difference between her and someone who slept around in their younger years?
    The harsh reality is that you lose all value as a woman who is long term partner material when you start sleeping with lots of men, and it is much worse for someone who is paid for sex.

    No man worth his salt would devote his life to a woman who gives herself freely to lots of other men.

    This is why when women get to the age that they want to settle down and stop having lots of one night stands they can not find a man their believe they are worthy of as all of the high value men would only ever desire a casual relationship with her.

    They end up settling for a man who is an easy option but is beneath their self perceived standards and thus an unhappy marriage begins. This is why divorce rates are so high. And middle aged women become more and more unhappy.
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    What would be your advice on looking for casual sex?

    How old do the people tend to be that you sleep with?
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    (Original post by nomad992)
    The harsh reality is that you lose all value as a woman who is long term partner material when you start sleeping with lots of men, and it is much worse for someone who is paid for sex.

    No man worth his salt would devote his life to a woman who gives herself freely to lots of other men.

    This is why when women get to the age that they want to settle down and stop having lots of one night stands they can not find a man their believe they are worthy of as all of the high value men would only ever desire a casual relationship with her.

    They end up settling for a man who is an easy option but is beneath their self perceived standards and thus an unhappy marriage begins. This is why divorce rates are so high. And middle aged women become more and more unhappy.
    You're saying the reason divorce rates are high are ultimately because of females sleeping around?

    "no man worth his salt would devote his life to a woman who gives herself freely to lots of other men" - that's not a monogamous relationship that I'm referring to. That's cheating, and of course a problem.

    Are you going to vet your future partner to ensure she's not the sort of woman you seem to think isn't worth a decent man? Are you going to ask a woman how many people she's slept with on the first date or later down the line? How many is an acceptable number for a woman to have slept with in your mind?
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    (Original post by Livvyxo)
    You're saying the reason divorce rates are high are ultimately because of females sleeping around?

    "no man worth his salt would devote his life to a woman who gives herself freely to lots of other men" - that's not a monogamous relationship that I'm referring to. That's cheating, and of course a problem.

    Are you going to vet your future partner to ensure she's not the sort of woman you seem to think isn't worth a decent man? Are you going to ask a woman how many people she's slept with on the first date or later down the line? How many is an acceptable number for a woman to have slept with in your mind?
    Obviously cheating is a no no, but sleeping around when single is also nearly as detrimental to the value of a woman. When a woman is easy to **** and has been ****ed by lots of guys then they are automatically downgraded to casual at most. Every man that I have ever known who isn't a loser things this way.

    People absolutely do vet their partners and it works both ways. You can either find out through the grapevine or find out as the relationship naturally progresses but either way, once you find out a girl has been around the block you don't want her as your girlfriend.

    Men want a challenge, and women that **** lots of people are not a challenge, and thus have no value to them as a partner.
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    (Original post by nomad992)
    Obviously cheating is a no no, but sleeping around when single is also nearly as detrimental to the value of a woman. When a woman is easy to **** and has been ****ed by lots of guys then they are automatically downgraded to casual at most. Every man that I have ever known who isn't a loser things this way.

    People absolutely do vet their partners and it works both ways. You can either find out through the grapevine or find out as the relationship naturally progresses but either way, once you find out a girl has been around the block you don't want her as your girlfriend.

    Men want a challenge, and women that **** lots of people are not a challenge, and thus have no value to them as a partner.
    "detrimental to the value of a woman"

    I hate to break it to you bud, but a woman's value is NOT dependent on how many dxcks she's had in her time.

    You really need to stop saying 'men want this' when you're literally only speaking for yourself. The fact that you would dump a potential long time partner simply because you found out she had a certain number of partners that YOU deemed excessive is very very very sad and backwards thinking.
 
 
 
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