I'm a girl, and I have no hair. How to tell him? Watch
I mean, I'd not think it was a big deal at all. Either way. Just tell him, whatever answer you get you'll know if the relationship is going anywhere.
Made perfect sense to me. We must be speaking Sheffieldish or something
I think he'd be flattered that you'd trust him enough to tell him to be honest. If he judges you negatively for it then well, you know the rest
Good luck, you'll be fine.
'Good, because this pussy cat is hairless on top too. Should be perfect.'
Lol. Seriously, get him drunk and ask so he won't remember you telling him after sobbering up, and you'll know what response to expect.
Edit: Having read back a few posts since posting, and seeing your photo, you look Hawwwwwwwwwtttt, so i reali wouldnt worry about it!
First of all I wanted to say I know how hard it is coping with no hair but I think you're doing really well. I lost all my hair for a few months during chemotherapy and I know it's not the same as it was only temporary but I do know how horrible it can feel.
This guy may be a bit shocked at first but I honestly think he should be ok with it. It doesn't change you as a person and if you've got fake hair it won't even be as if he could tell. It's nothing to be ashamed of and he should understand and appreciate your honesty. I know some people have asked why tell him but I understand that you want to be open with him and I think that's a good idea. Maybe go for a meal or drink together and just say you know it might be a bit of a shock but your hair isn't real. You can then explain your condition and he should be supportive.
I wish you the best of luck and remember, whether you have hair or not, you're still beautiful!
Hope all goes well for you and if you ever want to talk send me a message x
Thanks, that's really nice of you.It is horrible when it goes isn't it. I'm really glad yours grew back though, enjoy it. I'm sure you appreciate it a lot more now.
Also, I hope you are well and healthy now.
Pretty much what the title says, due to a condition I developed in the last couple of years my hair has fallen out a lot. (just in my head, everywhere else is err...fine). I'm now 20, and this started just after my 18th birthday. As a result I have to wear false hair integrated with my own.
As you can imagine I was very distraught at first. Used to have beautiful luscious hair everyone commented on...and then it went just like that. Now I'm at uni, and since I have this hair system which looks pretty good I can live a normal life. I'm at a top uni, have good friends, people tell me I'm attractive and I'm quite a happy person. My life would be perfect, if it wasn't for this very huge issue I have to hide. And it is a big inconvenience, it ruins everything.
Now, the problem. There's this guy I've gotten very close to. He's a really good guy, we have a lot of fun together. The problem is, I'm scared and very nervous of how he will react, will he be completely freaked out? I know I have to tell him, but what will be the best way to do this?
Secondly, guys (or even girls) how would you react if someone you really liked told you something like this? I know it's a very weird question, as most of you wont come across this ever, but sadly this is my new reality, and I have to find the best way to cope with it.So, any comments would be helpful.
PS: wow, this is longer than I intended. Also, I'm a very regular poster here, but understandably wanted to keep this as anonymous as possible.
hiya, one of my best friends (a girl) has your condition...well hers is due to stress or something, and she's had it since she's little...and she has no hair at all...none on her head, arms, etc...i didn't have a "weird" reaction when she told me...to me she's still the cute, cool girl and it well it doesn't really matter...but then i dunno if that's what you want to hear...cos it's not like a boyfriend or something....
but hang in there girl, if he really likes you (the guy you've been talking about) it shouldn't really matter to him.