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(Original post by bean87)
shes probably VERY boring
while people who like ejaculating on girls faces are almost certainly fascinating people who live interesting meaningful existences, by rule
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Probably why I react is that as I just cant for the life of me see why anyone would actually enjoy doing that. and the whole idea of girls or guys 'putting up' with something that hurts or is uncomfortable or messy just sounds to me like prostitution- to me sex should be an interaction and an expression of some kind of feeling- even in a one night stand. and people should always have a basic consideration of trying to give others a good experience and give as well as take so why is there another set of rules in sex?
Agreed, but part of that consideration is doing things to make your partner happy (assuming it causes no problem for you). I consider it basic politeness to have a go at fulfilling my boyfriend's fantasies if he asks, because I know it'll make him happy and it makes me happy to pleasure him.

The idea of people doing things that are deliberately peverse or taboo just sounds like theyre treating the peverse aspects of their personality like their not negative- of course everyone has perversions and you have to give them a bit of freedom but their still bad.
Strongly disagree. What's bad about being inventive and trying new things in sex, if you enjoy it?
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theres no point arguing with burrerfly girl. theres is a myriad of twaddle and contradiction in her post
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you can ask the same thing of many sexual fantasies though.
yes you can...

but I am actually asking you all.

I asked because I do want to know the answer
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while people who like ejaculating on girls faces are almost certainly fascinating people who live interesting meaningful existences, by rule
no. but you're boring
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No way- 'making love' is just as bad in a way. In my experience both are based on some fantasy rather than real feeling. You absolutely do have to have a gritty and down to earth attitude to sex. I just feel degraded and low if I have that kind of sex- Im not just assuming a moral position- I decide what I think based on my own experience.

Probably why I react is that as I just cant for the life of me see why anyone would actually enjoy doing that.
But you're female. I think it's one of those things that the man really enjoys, and often, the girl likes it because it makes her man happy. And yeah some girls genuinely enjoy it too!

and the whole idea of girls or guys 'putting up' with something that hurts or is uncomfortable or messy just sounds to me like prostitution- to me sex should be an interaction and an expression of some kind of feeling- even in a one night stand.
It's not "putting up with it" if you do it because it's a huge turn on for your partner. Such pleasure can come from pleasing them, and if a person wants to do that, then let them. Sex isn't 100% pain-free and tidy. (Why did you ever lose your virginity in the first place if it hurt? - Generalising, maybe your hymen was already broken of course.. but I hope it illustrates a point).

and people should always have a basic consideration of trying to give others a good experience and give as well as take so why is there another set of rules in sex?
Quite right. But no one here is suggesting a person who outright refuses to do it SHOULD do it, if they hate it, if they get no pleasure from doing it from their partner, if it grosses them out blah blah blah. It's only degrading and demeaning if you feel in that position. Fair enough if you do. But please try to understand that not everyone does.

The idea of people doing things that are deliberately peverse or taboo just sounds like theyre treating the peverse aspects of their personality like their not negative- of course everyone has perversions and you have to give them a bit of freedom but their still bad.

And this whole idea of sexual liberation through taboos seems fake to me because its still within the confines of whats socially acceptable. For instance I doubt anyone on here would admit to wanting to comit incest if they had that fantasy
I love how you bring up illegal things to illustrate taboo along the same lines.... Guess what. Having a guy climax on your face is not illegal. It's nowhere near illegal.

People aren't doing it JUST because they find it peverse. They're doing it because THEY LIKE IT! SERIOUSLY! Just because you can't understand that, doesn't mean you have to go off on this massive crusade to try and make people see that they don't really enjoy it or something.

I can't tell you why, when kissing, if my partner has his hand holding my head, kinda playing with my hair, it is such a big turn on. Equally I can't tell you why it has no affect on other people. Don't you see?

Different things work for different people. Leave those who are different from you alone.
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The thing is if we talked about it and we were trying something new I probably wouldn't mind, though so far he hasn't expressed a desire for it or anything similar.

I was trying to demonstrate that the act itself has a degrading and dominating factor to it, and I can see why many people can be put off if they're not into that sort of thing.
I honestly think this is one of those things that is in the eye of the beholder as it were. It's only degrading if you would personally feel degraded. If you're content with an act, it's not degrading. If you hate it and your partner does it anyway, yeah, degrading.
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And this whole idea of sexual liberation through taboos seems fake to me because its still within the confines of whats socially acceptable. For instance I doubt anyone on here would admit to wanting to comit incest if they had that fantasy
This reminds me of the Peep Show, Series 2 Episode 1. Quality episode.
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I don't see what the big deal is.
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i really hate boring prudes

and yes that episode of peep show was amazing

this thread is making me horny, anyone else?
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Seriously don't do it!

I personally think letting him *** on your face is quite degrading and I would never let my boyfriend do this. He agrees with me that it is degrading nad wouldnt want to put me into this position.

Your boyfriend has the wrong idea about sex, cumming on your face isn't exactly going to be pleasurable for him...
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Please don't do it if you don't feel comfortable about it, and seriously it sounds disgusting so yeah just don't do it - yuck!
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what a **** lol
not really no

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Your boyfriend must be watching too much porn, nxt time he asks tell him to lick it afterwards.
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Ive done it....kinda enjoyed it . Not really a bit deal to be honest.
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theres no point arguing with burrerfly girl. theres is a myriad of twaddle and contradiction in her post
I think you're just as bad. You don't seem to want to take into account the [valid] reasons for a woman not wanting to let a man come on her face, and you just insult those who don't. You're like a broken record.

I asked my boyfriend why guys like it, and he said they probably like the fact that the girl is willing to do something "dirty" for them. I wouldn't do it personally. OP, don't let your boyfriend nag you into doing it - it's your choice and you need to be happy with what you're doing.

I suppose there are two trains of thought here; one, that in a sexual relationship you should do things you don't necessarily enjoy to make your partner happy, and two, that you shouldn't do anything sexual with your partner that they may not like doing. I think my relationship falls into the latter camp; we only do things that the other one is 100% happy with. Not that there's anything wrong with the first train of thought, so long as each person is content with that scenario.
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Seriously don't do it!

I personally think letting him *** on your face is quite degrading and I would never let my boyfriend do this. He agrees with me that it is degrading nad wouldnt want to put me into this position.

Your boyfriend has the wrong idea about sex, cumming on your face isn't exactly going to be pleasurable for him...
Actually, some guys do enjoy it, although as I understand it's more for the psychological enjoyment than the physical pleasure.
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I think you're just as bad. You don't seem to want to take into account the [valid] reasons for a woman not wanting to let a man come on her face, and you just insult those who don't. You're like a broken record.

I asked my boyfriend why guys like it, and he said they probably like the fact that the girl is willing to do something "dirty" for them. I wouldn't do it personally. OP, don't let your boyfriend nag you into doing it - it's your choice and you need to be happy with what you're doing.

I suppose there are two trains of thought here; one, that in a sexual relationship you should do things you don't necessarily enjoy to make your partner happy, and two, that you shouldn't do anything sexual with your partner that they may not like doing. I think my relationship falls into the latter camp; we only do things that the other one is 100% happy with. Not that there's anything wrong with the first train of thought, so long as each person is content with that scenario.

Out of interest...would you define 100% happy as 'would really like to do that' or just 'has no objection to doing that'? In my case it falls into the latter and I am 100% happy to do such things because it pleasures my boyfriend; it's a good way of expanding your sexual horizons in my opinion.
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I think you're just as bad. You don't seem to want to take into account the [valid] reasons for a woman not wanting to let a man come on her face, and you just insult those who don't. You're like a broken record.

I asked my boyfriend why guys like it, and he said they probably like the fact that the girl is willing to do something "dirty" for them. I wouldn't do it personally. OP, don't let your boyfriend nag you into doing it - it's your choice and you need to be happy with what you're doing.

I suppose there are two trains of thought here; one, that in a sexual relationship you should do things you don't necessarily enjoy to make your partner happy, and two, that you shouldn't do anything sexual with your partner that they may not like doing. I think my relationship falls into the latter camp; we only do things that the other one is 100% happy with. Not that there's anything wrong with the first train of thought, so long as each person is content with that scenario.
no, i dont have a problem with a woman not wanting it, thats not the issue here. if she doesnt want to then fine. its the posts that butterfly girl is writing that are ridiculous, and as i've said already are full of contradictions. i dont have time for her
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what a **** lol
what a pitiful, small-minded child who has mindlessly accepted the belief of the generation above that women should not be sexually liberated, or enjoy sex at all, as we are not really people are we..

Good luck in life. You will need it.
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