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    (Original post by vilage_idoit)
    I'm in second year of college and I'm seeing this girl who is in year 10.

    I'm 18 and she's 15, that's breaking the 3 year rule.

    I can't help it, she's too nice, plus she has a boyfriend and I'm not going to tell anyone so it's fine as long as no one knows I think (still I'm sort of worried about people finding out, things always get out).

    Don't really care that she has a bf, someone cheated on my over Christmas and I can honestly say I am glad she did, if she didn't then she would have later, once a cheater, always a cheater, and she ddin't waste any more of my time as I swiftly dumped her. I might as well reap the benefits; if a girl is going to cheat then she's going to cheat.

    What do I do? Keep the 15 yo girl or not? And how bad am I in terms of peadophilia? She looks my age really. "If there's hair on the muff, they're old enough".
    You're not a paedophile and in no way is it paedophilia. Paedophilia is being sexually aroused by pre-pubescent children, pre-pubescent being under 13 or even under 12.
    I think it is really bad that, you having been cheated in yourself are aiding someone elses cheating. I have never been cheated on but peopel i knwo who have say they would never cheat on anyone becasue they know how it feels so you shoudl know better.
    Lastly as i'm sure people have said already if you want to have sex with her wait til she is 16.
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    Cradle snatcher

    Suppose it's ok if you don't want sex and don't mind annoying looks and questions
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    the hair on the muff **** is ********! my younger sister came to me at 12 with pubic hair. you want to shag 12 year olds too?
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    it'll all end in tears... and i'm worried it'll mostly be on her part by the sounds of what you've put (judging by the last line)
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    When I was 15 my boyfriend was 18 and personally didn't have a problem with it but i know others though it was really wrong. The real issue is that she has a bf and if he finds out then he could use the fact that you're 18 and report you... assuming you've slept with her. Otherwise just dont push her into anything an no harm done.
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    (Original post by vilage_idoit)
    What do I do? Keep the 15 yo girl or not? And how bad am I in terms of peadophilia? She looks my age really. "If there's hair on the muff, they're old enough".
    Oh dear, it started off okay and possibly a chance for people to not make accusations...then you ruined it with that quote.
    If you really think saying that justifies your actions then I don't think you should be with this girl. Plus if she is cheating on her boyfriend with you then she probably isn't worth the time.
    Also if you have to ask this question, then you should ask yourself if you really should be with her.
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    (Original post by jonny23563)
    It's not illegal to go out with her, just to have sex with her.

    But do you not think it's immoral to do it when she has a boyfriend?
    Is it immoral for a street-vendor to sell pornographic magazines to someone who has promised his girlfriend that he will abstain from masturbation? Of course not; their agreement is a test of his loyalty and resolve, which he must honour of his own accord lest it should become meaningless - expecting others to uphold such a pledge would be be self-defeating; and the same principle applies in relationships.
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    You sound LOVELY. Really. What a lucky girl. :rolleyes:

    No, it's not paedophilia, so do what you want. I have a friend who lost her virginity at 13 to her 18 year old boyfriend, I think it was? Something like that. THAT was a bit weird - but she did look and act very mature for their age and they're still together.

    Can I suggest you don't bother if it'll be her first time? Plenty more muff in the er, sea
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    15 year old girl? Unless she's very mature, not my cup of tea.
    Shag her and you'll be a goddamned rapist though.
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    no, but if you hit that, you are a rapist.
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    (Original post by lodzinski)
    no, but if you hit that, you are a rapist.
    This.
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    Dude what did you do, wait outside the school gates and promised to do her GCSE's for her?
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    at least wait until she's 16 before you do anything sexual. And no its not that bad, my mums like 9 years younger than my Dad.
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    (Original post by Floofy)
    Ahhh so it IS just for sex then. Now I see.

    Well, here's a couple questions:
    Do you respect her enough to wait until she's 16? When's her birthday?


    What the **** is the point, not really like he's going to get busted anyway.
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    As has already been mentioned here, it would be statutroy rape. If you do not sleep with her then you are ok.
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    It seems wrong just now.
    But once she turns 16 it will be ok!
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    Chris Hansen is gonna whup your ass lol :O
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    (Original post by laurie344)
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    What the **** is the point, not really like he's going to get busted anyway.
    I didn't say anything about involving the police. I'm talking about having respect for the young lady.

    And I asked her birthday as it could be a matter of waiting 2 weeks or 8 months JUST for sex with this girl.
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    Been there, done that, never regretted it.

    I was with a 14 year old girl when in my second year (she's just gone into year 10, actually). I can honestly say it was the best relationship i've been in, we spoke loads and got on really well, we still speak quite a bit actually. It helped that we were great friends to begin with and it just went from there :dontknow:

    However, i don't agree with it if she's got another boyfriend, and if you don't care about it. To me, a relationship like that would only be feasible if it was an emotional connection, if you guys really liked eachother. This would mean she wouldn't cheat on you obviously, if this isn't there then it's merely a relationship to please physical needs.

    Also, i don't agree with how you've said 'once a cheater, always a cheater' i've known some people who have cheated and ultimately regretted it. People can change, just as criminals can reform, a cheater can change given the right circumstances.

    EDIT: I'd like to add that we've never had sex.
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    A pedophile is someone who likes prepubescent kids. Not people who are underage. If she has gone through puberty, you're not a pedophile. However, if it's illegal where you live, you really shouldn't mess around with her.
 
 
 
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