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    She's left me 2 voicemails but I haven't listened to them :/ I just want to get on with my life with no stress


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    Haha, don't we all! But then we get massively lonely and realise life isn't worth living much without being able to feel, so jump right back in.

    For now just forget about it and don't let it stress you She'll calm down!
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    (Original post by samba)
    :hugs: I know it's not quite as good as girl company, but you can always message me if you want a chat/a game of something!

    And personally, if somebody is happy I'd leave them be, because I'm such an utter minefield I'd likely make them less happy in the long run, even if they want me/think they want me. So I'd probably be happier leaving it and being the odd distant friend That may just me being self deprecating though.
    Thanks :hugs: I'm generally offline on steam :ninja: Just me being avoidant :hide: (same as facebook for most people not the 2 on here I have on fb, I should say )

    Yeah Well it's that I don't think that she wants to talk to me, but I miss her/want to talk to her - she's one of the 3 friends I have that know about stuff (clever me tells the 3 friends I've asked out... :rolleyes: :facepalm: :banghead:) - and she knows best about it because she's had MH stuff in the past
    I don't know. I can see why talking to me might just upset her - just in that I think I probably upset/confused her asking her out/we were mostly best friends when she was going through a difficult time.
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    I just wish we could still be friends, and my selfish voice feels as though she should be there for me, at least some of the time, because when she was bad (or at least when I knew she was bad) I was there whenever. But then I know that that's selfish, and I don't properly think that but I don't know.
    Of course she is there sometimes/when she does send a message she is really nice and supportive about it, I just get the feeling she wants to cut ties and that just makes me really sad/I'm not sure how to go about that/it all As I don't know for sure that she wants to cut ties, but if she told me she wanted to then I mean I'd be really upset, but I'd also stop messaging her every month or so.
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    Ended up being crying and being desperate and rubbish and messaged a friend for a hug
    Had a nice small chat with her/she's been nice and lovely/comforting hadn't talked to her for a while either so's nice to catch up a bit.
    Still feel stupid/more lonely in general/have gotten nothing but further away/more distant with most/all of my friends, but nice to know there's still one I can message if I really need it

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    Other friend I messaged has come online/offline a few times, but she hasn't clicked on my message. I'm not sure if I've annoyed her/if I trigger/upset her or not We used to be best friends but I sort of screwed things up last summer asking her out/her saying rebound-yes, and :dontknow: We even talked fairly often until some time in term 2 and now she pokes me every so often but (almost) never says anything when/if I message her :sad: I think she's in a better place than she was/is actually happy now/enjoying Uni/lots of friends, so I guess I should just leave it maybe Miss her though. Sorry, anyway.
    :hugs: That's not being rubbish, that's just needing someone to talk to! And you made contact then, so you're not rubbish at that either :no: Plus you reply to absolutely everyone on here about everything (even me! :eek:) so that definitely makes you not in anyway rubbish!

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    I'm sure you haven't annoyed/upset her, maybe she's just busy or didn't notice the message? Give it a couple of days and she might reply


    How was the cinema? Meant to ask in my other post but pressed send my accident again then it wouldn't let me edit


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    (Original post by samba)
    Haha, don't we all! But then we get massively lonely and realise life isn't worth living much without being able to feel, so jump right back in.

    For now just forget about it and don't let it stress you She'll calm down!
    Should I listen to them? What if I've upset her :/ I'm too empathic to fight with people


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    (Original post by purple-duck)
    Ended up being crying and being desperate and rubbish and messaged a friend for a hug
    Had a nice small chat with her/she's been nice and lovely/comforting hadn't talked to her for a while either so's nice to catch up a bit.
    Still feel stupid/more lonely in general/have gotten nothing but further away/more distant with most/all of my friends, but nice to know there's still one I can message if I really need it

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    Other friend I messaged has come online/offline a few times, but she hasn't clicked on my message. I'm not sure if I've annoyed her/if I trigger/upset her or not We used to be best friends but I sort of screwed things up last summer asking her out/her saying rebound-yes, and :dontknow: We even talked fairly often until some time in term 2 and now she pokes me every so often but (almost) never says anything when/if I message her :sad: I think she's in a better place than she was/is actually happy now/enjoying Uni/lots of friends, so I guess I should just leave it maybe Miss her though. Sorry, anyway.
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    Weird. I tried replying to one comment in particular and it kept saying thread closed but not for any other comment. :s
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    burrying my head in the sand :sad:

    so ****ing stupid, gonna end up badly
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    (Original post by samba)
    Oh, best to just let people cool off when they get all hot headed. People always say things they don't mean when upset! Scrabble at 0030 or so, so we'll keep you entertained
    I'm up for scrabble if there's any room left and you want someone easily beatable
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    burrying my head in the sand :sad:

    so ****ing stupid, gonna end up badly
    What're you hiding from? :console:
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    I'm up for scrabble if there's any room left and you want someone easily beatable
    I'm the most beatable


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    I'm the most beatable


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    Not sure about that - I didn't even pass 100 points last time
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    (Original post by Sabertooth)
    Not sure about that - I didn't even pass 100 points last time
    Don't think I did either we can compete to do the worst :lol:

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    Keep going to listen to the voicemails but I know I shouldn't


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    (Original post by Odd socks)
    Should I listen to them? What if I've upset her :/ I'm too empathic to fight with people


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    Nah no point. Just gonna upset you further! She'll calm down and realise she's being a bit silly I'm sure. Nothing to be had from having it out at this point.

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    I'm up for scrabble if there's any room left and you want someone easily beatable
    Always room for you I'll just create/observe if there's too many, then it will be fairer


    (Original post by Odd socks)
    I'm the most beatable


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    Good job you're a masochist :p:
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    You both scored less overall than I did with Skewered I think :lol:
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    (Original post by samba)
    Nah no point. Just gonna upset you further! She'll calm down and realise she's being a bit silly I'm sure. Nothing to be had from having it out at this point.



    Always room for you I'll just create/observe if there's too many, then it will be fairer




    Good job you're a masochist :p:
    Okay, I'll maybe listen to them in the morning when I am more settled to deal with then :/

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    What're you hiding from? :console:
    We over spent by like £90 this month somehow so 3 bills havnt gotten paid and i dont know what to do


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    We over spent by like £90 this month somehow so 3 bills havnt gotten paid and i dont know what to do


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    What bills are they?
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    What bills are they?
    Phone/ internet
    Tv lisense
    And paying off a loan thingy majiggy


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    hello all! bet no one remembers me :lol: decided to drop by and say hallo!

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    GCSE results tomorrow and i'm not only at a low point but my parents have made it clear they expect all A* no idea what to do as i found exams really difficult even though i tried hard! i have mega high expectations on me and i got so stressed and anxious during exams i could only half function. it got better during summer but it's back with a vengeance! grrr!
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    (Original post by PandaWho)
    Phone/ internet
    Tv lisense
    And paying off a loan thingy majiggy


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    **** the tv license it can wait. Can the others be paid online, and when are you likely to be paid?
 
 
 
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