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    Just found out that a certain family member who violently attacked me and put me in hospital is moving back into my mums house and guess what.. into my bedroom. I now have nowhere to go home to (when not at uni).

    Yep no sobriety tonight
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    (Original post by superwolf)
    That's my recollection of what happened at least.
    is IGregg who i think it is? :unimpressed?
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    That fight or flight feeling is back
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    (Original post by Cinnie)
    Just found out that a certain family member who violently attacked me and put me in hospital is moving back into my mums house and guess what.. into my bedroom. I now have nowhere to go home to (when not at uni).

    Yep no sobriety tonight
    That's awful, does your mum not want him away from you?
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    (Original post by IDukem)
    But I felt/feel like the one who drove her to do it.

    There was a short lived highly sensitive person (HSP) society that helped for a little while My very first poster on MHSS that I befriended was Poncho and then Sarah' followed suit. Nut was helpful to me before she left too. I feel that me in the MHSS has grown a lot in the last two years I've been here. I speak to everyone on here without hesitation when before, talking to TLG, superwolf and well everyone was daunting because everyone was so used to each other. I didn't want to tread on any toes and didn't really communicate for a while. Thank rock n roll that Poncho and Sarah' saw past my timidness and spoke to me, otherwise I don't I'd be on this thread making this post if they didn't
    Either way it was a while ago now and it doesn't do well to dwell on the past.

    I was very similar. I read everybody's posts but didn't post myself for a few threads. I am very glad you are posting today :yep:
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    (Original post by superwolf)
    Agreed! :five:

    Oh god yeah, all those arguments that went on for days... probably didn't help that we were all sleeping with each other.

    I wonder occasionally, but mostly I'm just glad about the people I've kept in touch with from the old crowd. Like Saber, Rob, bullettheory, fire2burn, and all the various people who've changed names since then.
    hey, don't you pull me into this i wasn't sleeping with nobody

    just people like Nut and Laut who i actually talked to on Skype and msn and got to know, its a weird relationship we create on here - we know so much about each other and yet know so little about them at the same time

    and don't even get me onto the topic of having to contact family members and friends in an emergency - and then having to explain that no, you didn't know where they were, really, but you knew who they were and you were friends on Facebook
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    (Original post by Cinnie)
    Just found out that a certain family member who violently attacked me and put me in hospital is moving back into my mums house and guess what.. into my bedroom. I now have nowhere to go home to (when not at uni).

    Yep no sobriety tonight
    I guess at least uni's safe for you. :console: Is the rest of your family fully aware of what went on? Cos if so that's disgusting of them to basically condone what that person did.

    (Original post by PandaWho)
    is IGregg who i think it is? :unimpressed?
    It's exactly who you think it is. :teehee: :rip: :teehee:
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    (Original post by IDukem)
    But I felt/feel like the one who drove her to do it. There was a short lived highly sensitive person (HSP) society that helped for a little while My very first poster on MHSS that I befriended was Poncho and then Sarah' followed suit. Nut was helpful to me before she left too. I feel that me in the MHSS has grown a lot in the last two years I've been here. I speak to everyone on here without hesitation when before, talking to TLG, superwolf and well everyone was daunting because everyone was so used to each other. I didn't want to tread on any toes and didn't really communicate for a while. Thank rock n roll that Poncho and Sarah' saw past my timidness and spoke to me, otherwise I don't think I'd be on this thread making this post if they didn't
    i hear that poncho is a proper knob :ninja:
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    (Original post by james1211)
    That's awful, does your mum not want him away from you?

    (Original post by superwolf)
    I guess at least uni's safe for you. :console: Is the rest of your family fully aware of what went on? Cos if so that's disgusting of them to basically condone what that person did.



    It's exactly who you think it is. :teehee: :rip: :teehee:
    He now has terminal cancer (tumor in his brain stem - he has no visible effects whatsoever but will just drop dead one day) and he has autism ---------> so I guess it's ok that he used me as a punching bag for 3 years.

    + My family let me down massively. That's all I can say really. They knew it was happening - even saw it happening. They helped short term, to separate him from me but we still lived together until I was eventually put in hospital with
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    (Original post by Team_McDreamy)
    hey, don't you pull me into this i wasn't sleeping with nobody

    just people like Nut and Laut who i actually talked to on Skype and msn and got to know, its a weird relationship we create on here - we know so much about each other and yet know so little about them at the same time

    and don't even get me onto the topic of having to contact family members and friends in an emergency - and then having to explain that no, you didn't know where they were, really, but you knew who they were and you were friends on Facebook
    Yeah, it was all pretty intense, probably no wonder it all exploded a little.

    Nut was lovely, she's someone I'd have liked to stay in touch with.
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    (Original post by Anonymous #2)
    Either way it was a while ago now and it doesn't do well to dwell on the past.

    I was very similar. I read everybody's posts but didn't post myself for a few threads. I am very glad you are posting today :yep:
    Yeah well easier said than done. I'm doing better than I did back then.

    Same, although I did post in the first thread I saw, it just took me a week or so before plucking up the courage to do so. Awww thanks :blush: I'm glad to have spoken to you, whether the feeling is mutual or not I don't know, but I'd call you an amazing TSR friend that I have :hugs:
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    (Original post by Cinnie)
    Just found out that a certain family member who violently attacked me and put me in hospital is moving back into my mums house and guess what.. into my bedroom. I now have nowhere to go home to (when not at uni).

    Yep no sobriety tonight
    That's terrible! I'm so sorry

    Big TLG hugs from here :jumphug:
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    (Original post by Team_McDreamy)
    i hate myself because i can't feel good about anything - everything that other people might feel proud about, i just automatically feel ashamed of because i could've done better and i feel like everybody is laughing at me behind my back and it makes me feel like a piece of ungrateful crap. and those rare moments i do feel good or proud of myself about, i then feel guilty about because i don't feel like i deserve to feel good.
    Yeah, ... the problem is, that one has to practise to feel good. So don't give up trying. And of course you deserve it!!! Be grateful by being happy!!! It is extremely hard, I know, and I better stop writing, because ... well ...

    (I am so bad at that, too... )
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    (Original post by IDukem)
    Yeah well easier said than done. I'm doing better than I did back then.

    Same, although I did post in the first thread I saw, it just took me a week or so before plucking up the courage to do so. Awww thanks :blush: I'm glad to have spoken to you, whether the feeling is mutual or not I don't know, but I'd call you an amazing TSR friend that I have :hugs:
    It's good that you're doing better now

    Of course the feeling is mutual! :yep:
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    (Original post by Team_McDreamy)
    hey, don't you pull me into this i wasn't sleeping with nobody

    just people like Nut and Laut who i actually talked to on Skype and msn and got to know, its a weird relationship we create on here - we know so much about each other and yet know so little about them at the same time

    and don't even get me onto the topic of having to contact family members and friends in an emergency - and then having to explain that no, you didn't know where they were, really, but you knew who they were and you were friends on Facebook
    I was just thinking that! You guys know my tendencies on here fairly well, but none of you actually know me and vice-versa :ninja:

    (Original post by PandaWho)
    i hear that poncho is a proper knob :ninja:
    She was so nice to me :moon: She still is too, great girl she is
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    (Original post by Cinnie)
    He now has terminal cancer (tumor in his brain stem - he has no visible effects whatsoever but will just drop dead one day) and he has autism ---------> so I guess it's ok that he used me as a punching bag for 3 years.
    Definitely not ok. :no: Sorry that your family has made such a bizarre and awful choice in letting him back in at your expense.
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    (Original post by Cinnie)
    He now has terminal cancer (tumor in his brain stem - he has no visible effects whatsoever but will just drop dead one day) and he has autism ---------> so I guess it's ok that he used me as a punching bag for 3 years.

    + My family let me down massively. That's all I can say really. They knew it was happening - even saw it happening. They helped short term, to separate him from me but we still lived together until I was eventually put in hospital with
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    That's not okay at all. It doesn't matter what he has he isn't allowed to hurt you.
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    (Original post by Anonymous #2)
    It's good that you're doing better now

    Of course the feeling is mutual! :yep:
    I care too much like WAAAAAY too much. My family friends said something positive about it and I'm like "yeaaaaaaah...but it can also mean I find myself in tricky spots too"

    That made me smile And to think that you were a poster that I was nervy about talking too as I wanted to say hi, but was worried I'd bother you and so ended up not doing so

    :hugs:
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    (Original post by Cinnie)
    He now has terminal cancer (tumor in his brain stem - he has no visible effects whatsoever but will just drop dead one day) and he has autism ---------> so I guess it's ok that he used me as a punching bag for 3 years.

    + My family let me down massively. That's all I can say really. They knew it was happening - even saw it happening. They helped short term, to separate him from me but we still lived together until I was eventually put in hospital with
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    I echo superwolf and James said, It's not okay at all :sad:

    I'm so sorry to hear about that :hugs:
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    (Original post by IDukem)
    I care too much like WAAAAAY too much. My family friends said something positive about it and I'm like "yeaaaaaaah...but it can also mean I find myself in tricky spots too"

    That made me smile And to think that you were a poster that I was nervy about talking too as I wanted to say hi, but was worried I'd bother you and so ended up not doing so

    :hugs:
    Haha

    Aw, don't be daft! Message me anytime :hugs:
 
 
 
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