i don't mean possessed possessed, it's like feeling very wanted ^^
It just doesn't sound right.
I'm definitely in georgia's camp. A relationship is a thing to be shared. You can feel beholdened to someone, but not without your freedom.
I agree with drew and georgia on this, but i do see your point ida =) I just...i rememer what feeling very wanted was like and it was like being smothered by emotions =/
of course you'll have freedom, im all for that, i've just interpreted it in a different way. ive read a lot of books where the language is very much like that.
I don't like the idea of being beholden to anyone, or indeed wanted like that...it's all a bit hmm. Irrevocable love yes, but not to the smothering extent.
I like my 'me time' just as much as spending time with others. If I didn't have that, I think I'd go mental.
Didn't know who to quote cos it seems a long running conversation.. but for my pennyworth..
I love alone time.. but in some ways I want to know that said partner is able to do the smothering love bit but withold most of the time cos it would peeve me. Does that make sense ??