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    I feel you would be more stigmatised for losing your virginity to a prostitute than to be a 19 year old virgin...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I just can't wait anymore for sex. I'm sure i can get it but i just don't how to , tbh i've accepted after being in love with a girl for 2 years that i'm just going to suck it up and dispell the question in my mind of what sex is like. I'm sick of stuttering all the time in front of girls and looking physically nervous, and also i'm sick of feeling **** everytime i feel that i'm ****ing up. I'm not the best looking guy in the world, i got rejected by the girl i was in love with because of that. I don't want to play this whole dating game thing, i just want to feel free and not have to worry about that ****.

    Problem is, i'm afraid, i don't know how the hell this experience is going to turn out. I'm not doing it for the feelings, i just want to have this shadow over me regarding my virginity removed.
    You do realise broski if your a hardcore masturbator at home then sex with the escort is gonna feel dull and crap. It's over rated unless you start to re-sensitize yourself now...by not touching your penis at all for a few weeks lol.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I just can't wait anymore for sex. I'm sure i can get it but i just don't how to , tbh i've accepted after being in love with a girl for 2 years that i'm just going to suck it up and dispell the question in my mind of what sex is like. I'm sick of stuttering all the time in front of girls and looking physically nervous, and also i'm sick of feeling **** everytime i feel that i'm ****ing up. I'm not the best looking guy in the world, i got rejected by the girl i was in love with because of that. I don't want to play this whole dating game thing, i just want to feel free and not have to worry about that ****.

    Problem is, i'm afraid, i don't know how the hell this experience is going to turn out. I'm not doing it for the feelings, i just want to have this shadow over me regarding my virginity removed.
    As opposed to the shadow of losing it to a hooker?
    Righty ho
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    mate, it's not that amazing the first time anyways. Why do you wanna blow it all with an escort. if you find the right girl, you can develop feelings and experience and eventually it will be sooo great.
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    (Original post by Gemma :)!)
    You might regret it if you meet the girl of your dreams shortly after, and wish you'd waited for her..
    Hate to break it to you but 99.999999% of men don't think like that.
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    How much are you willing to pay? I'm broke.


    Lolz joke.
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    Cool story bro.
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    (Original post by TShadow383)
    Hate to break it to you but 99.999999% of men don't think like that.
    they do if the girl of their dreams goes id really love to be with you but the fact you lost it to an escort is just too wierd...
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    (Original post by mehhh.....hi.)
    Your only 19 though. You will regret it when you find the right girl, so personally I think you should wait a few more years.
    UM why would he regret it?? thought only girls regret things like that?? and is that the funny dude from misfits in your sig??
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    (Original post by overtherainbow)
    they do if the girl of their dreams goes id really love to be with you but the fact you lost it to an escort is just too wierd...
    The girl of his dreams might be the prostitute. Have you never seen Pretty Woman?
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    (Original post by meatzaper)
    UM why would he regret it?? thought only girls regret things like that?? and is that the funny dude from misfits in your sig??
    Hmm I dunno he might if he did meet the perfect girl, and imagine how angry he would be if the next day he met her! And yeah it is him
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I just can't wait anymore for sex. I'm sure i can get it but i just don't how to , tbh i've accepted after being in love with a girl for 2 years that i'm just going to suck it up and dispell the question in my mind of what sex is like. I'm sick of stuttering all the time in front of girls and looking physically nervous, and also i'm sick of feeling **** everytime i feel that i'm ****ing up. I'm not the best looking guy in the world, i got rejected by the girl i was in love with because of that. I don't want to play this whole dating game thing, i just want to feel free and not have to worry about that ****.

    Problem is, i'm afraid, i don't know how the hell this experience is going to turn out. I'm not doing it for the feelings, i just want to have this shadow over me regarding my virginity removed.
    gutted mate I get ****ed on the first date.
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    You describe it as if virginity makes you a loser. You aren't, but if you lose it to a prostitute because you're desperate that's exactly what you'll be. Also, if you don't want to play "this dating game thing", then simply don't play it. Women will come and go without you paying for it as soon as you just man up.

    Also, I'm pretty sure love is a mutual thing. If she wasn't interested, it isn't love.
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    (Original post by laureng492)
    I feel you would be more stigmatised for losing your virginity to a prostitute than to be a 19 year old virgin...
    Is he going to walk around with a sign around his neck, telling everyone he done a prostitute?

    I tell you what,if I had the choice to lose my virginity to some hot escort ,in a nice warm room, she makes out Iam like a super stud, and knows exactly how to please a man, or the girl who smelt of cheese and onion crisps I done in a freezing cold park at 14, just because my mates had lost theres.I know what I would have picked if I had the money back then.

    But if I was 19, and was still a virgin and my only options were an escort or some drunken slut in a nightclub who probably isn't an oil painting as lets face it what attractive girl is going to want to have anything to do with some pimple faced fumbling virgin? In all probabilities it's a choice between a whore or an ugly drunken thing in a nightclub for guys like him .

    Virginity isn't all that important, most people don't lose it to people they love, it tends to be drunken fumbles at parties or people they met in clubs, or in my case a quick one with the local bike in a park. I fail to see how it is much difference to nail a whore. It might even help him. As once he's been broken in,all that tension and virgin like behavour might go and he becomes a red meat eating sexual tyrannorous.
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    (Original post by Michael Locke)
    You describe it as if virginity makes you a loser. You aren't, but if you lose it to a prostitute because you're desperate that's exactly what you'll be. Also, if you don't want to play "this dating game thing", then simply don't play it. Women will come and go without you paying for it as soon as you just man up.

    Also, I'm pretty sure love is a mutual thing. If she wasn't interested, it isn't love.
    If he carries on waiting,he'll end up like that bloke in the film 40 yr old virgin.And it's completely different having plenty of women as friends and them wanting to have sex with you.Iam not the type of man,women like being friends with,but funnily enough they are willing to jump into bed with me. It's not all about looks either, it's the vibe you give off.And thats probably his problem. Men like shyness and innocence in girls,hell men pay lots of money to break in a virgin women don't in men.

    If he keeps his virgin fumbling attitude, it don't matter if he is in the dating game or not, if he plays hard to get or asks girls out,he will still not be getting his d1ck wet.Not saying losing it to a whore will necesscarily help him,it might but it won't do any harm in my opinion. What he needs to change either way if how he is seen by women.
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    (Original post by overtherainbow)
    they do if the girl of their dreams goes id really love to be with you but the fact you lost it to an escort is just too wierd...
    That being the case, surely she wouldn't be the girl of our dreams?

    OP: I lost mine on a ONS with a chick I picked up at a pub. These girls saying you might regret it.... nah... ain't going to happen. I couldn't care less tbh.
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    (Original post by -beads-)
    Just make sure she hasn't been baked more times than bread because you will get infected faster than the moulds multiply and your oven glove will be affected for life, fall off, burnt in the toaster and served with beans.
    Love the bread metaphor made me laugh
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    Lol. You are going to regret that sooooo much....

    Imagine knowing for the rest of your life your first time was with a prossie.

    But if you're gonna go ahead with it, just remember, don't be a ****, wrap your pack!
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      (Original post by Anonymous)
      I just can't wait anymore for sex. I'm sure i can get it but i just don't how to , tbh i've accepted after being in love with a girl for 2 years that i'm just going to suck it up and dispell the question in my mind of what sex is like. I'm sick of stuttering all the time in front of girls and looking physically nervous, and also i'm sick of feeling **** everytime i feel that i'm ****ing up. I'm not the best looking guy in the world, i got rejected by the girl i was in love with because of that. I don't want to play this whole dating game thing, i just want to feel free and not have to worry about that ****.

      Problem is, i'm afraid, i don't know how the hell this experience is going to turn out. I'm not doing it for the feelings, i just want to have this shadow over me regarding my virginity removed.
      Why don't you do what the rest of us do? Crack your tension off, and grow up. There are far more important things in life than sex.
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      Paying for sex wont fix your life. I doubt that if you stop being a virgin your life will suddenly improve. Instead I'd work on other things like widening your friend circle, getting more confident at talking to girls. The more people you know and hang out with, the more likely you are to meet somebody nice.
     
     
     
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