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    (Original post by alexs2602)
    I'll have to pay more attention to those details in january. I'm not really a drinker/clubber atm but that's what uni will be for

    Just teasing
    Ahaha, trust me, you'll need them.

    Men and women in clubs is like feeding time at the zoo here haha
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    (Original post by Reelo)
    To be fair I only ever use this when I really like the guy. It's worked for me thus far, but I think that I maybe got lucky because the guy (who later became my boyfriend) was one of the sweetest, most bashful people I have ever met, so maybe it worked on him for that reason?

    Anyway, its just to get his attention, right? After that, you start talking and really getting to know one another and it'll all fall into place
    Sweet? Check
    Bashful? Check
    This seems quite promising...

    I just worry about looking like a creepy stalker, I guess.
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    I ignore them and act like im not interested.
    Sometimes i make deep eye contact and when i know the guy is interested, that's when i look away and act like he doesn't exist. :rolleyes:
    Works all the time for me.
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    Being hot works
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    (Original post by Sweet_Heart)
    Well we'll see. I've only seen that tactic fail on a number of occasions, and even then I admit that I was aiming way above me haha, so it's hardly surprising.

    In any case, I can practically guarantee pulling a guy in the club based on that alone.
    And in this gauruntee, it's only then men approaching you ?
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    (Original post by TheCurlyHairedDude)
    And in this gauruntee, it's only then men approaching you ?
    Haha, hmmm never thought about trying it on a woman before. Doubt it though, women like to be the ones being approached. Worth a try though haha, investigate for me?
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    (Original post by Sweet_Heart)
    Ahaha, trust me, you'll need them.

    Men and women in clubs is like feeding time at the zoo here haha
    Rather obviously the term eaten alive comes to mind. Maybe I need a whip and a chair. And a pair of handcuffs...
    ...Ok, maybe I'm just getting kinky here. :sexface:
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    (Original post by alexs2602)
    Rather obviously the term eaten alive comes to mind. Maybe I need a whip and a chair. And a pair of handcuffs...
    ...Ok, maybe I'm just getting kinky here. :sexface:
    Just a tad. Still, peacock theory haha?
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    They get their titty bo jang's out and caress them like a baby panda and her cubs.
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    I take my clothes off and dance a little
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    (Original post by O_Bugger_its_Hitler)
    I take my clothes off and dance a little
    You sound like my kind of ****. I mean girl.
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    (Original post by TravelGuru)
    You sound like my kind of ****. I mean girl.

    Excellent. I like a guy with 'wit' ..
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    (Original post by Steezy)
    No it's happened a few times and was pretty obvious. One of them was standing next to me, looked at me then sort of shoulder barged me, said sorry then just looked at me. I was trying to get with this other girl at the time though so I didn't chat her up.
    I've had dis before...

    But I don't handle drunk chicks very well, so I was like WTF
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    (Original post by O_Bugger_its_Hitler)
    Excellent. I like a guy with 'wit' ..
    What about one with a big ****?
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    Surprised no girls have say 'I whip my hair back and forth'.

    Works like a charm on me.
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    LOL That song is annoying.
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    Tactics? This isn't COD.
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    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IvV3l-dbRTI
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    I'm so weird I do loads of things sub-conciously to get guys to notice me even though I look stupid lol.

    I'll dance like an idiot :p:
    I'll pretend to slip on things or struggle to get into things just so they might make a comment
    I'll jump down steps etc to look different to everyone else.

    No one will ever pick up on these lol but it pleases my mind so eh why not
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    (Original post by Sweet_Heart)
    Go after her anyway, what have you got to lose? Ask her what her name is, if she'd like a drink etc. Girls are far more tactical than guys realise. Shy smiles as well = into you. If a girl is looking at you, she wants you to approach her, too shy to do it herself so she's trying to gauge a reaction from you. If you're not sure, stay where you are and watch her for a few minutes. People can tell when they are being watched, so if she likes you she'll turn back and look at you again/smile.

    At least that's what I'd do. Come hither looks are my forte
    this!

    I'm far too shy to approach a guy, however I will keep sending shy smiles his way. And it's true you can tell when you're being watched. It's all about the eye contact
 
 
 
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