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    This is a great confidence booster for me :sad:
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    (Original post by a10)
    lmaoooo u probably dont know hw to talk to girls thats why they dont give u attention. Too much porn = bad attitude towards girls :laugh:
    How do girls know all those things just by looking at my face.
    I mean they dont even look at my face. The moment they see me, they look some where else but at that tiny moment they should have seen my face.
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    (Original post by Lucia.)
    Ah all you ever post is self-pity. :rolleyes: That's why you're losing out. Self-pity doesn't make knickers wet.
    How do girls know all those things the moment they see me and knows that they should look away from me as quickly as possible.
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    There's a difference between being unattractive and just ugly. And I think the OP is right, ugly people are far more likely to suffer discrimination, I think people assume that they must be mentally as well as physically 'flawed'. Plus people dislike people who are different, it's human nature. And when someone is so blatantly different from everyone else, it makes it very easy to discriminate against them.

    Source, had a very ugly boy in my year at primary and secondary school, and he was teased and tricked really badly
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    (Original post by pencilcasetapper)
    Oh wait a minute. No you can't.

    Being ugly is, according to society, the worst trait there is. No, nothing can ever redeem ugliness. Even the oppressed oppress ugly people.

    If you are ugly, you are destined to be discriminated and have a disappointing life.

    Ugly people? No they cannot.

    (Ugly people being with ugly people does not count. Ugly people secretly wish they could be with a better partner, but they can't as they're ugly).
    But don't we all define "ugly" differently? I might find someone attractive but you might think they are hideous etc.
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    (Original post by Architecture-er)
    There's a difference between being unattractive and just ugly. And I think the OP is right, ugly people are far more likely to suffer discrimination, I think people assume that they must be mentally as well as physically 'flawed'. Plus people dislike people who are different, it's human nature. And when someone is so blatantly different from everyone else, it makes it very easy to discriminate against them.

    Source, had a very ugly boy in my year at primary and secondary school, and he was teased and tricked really badly
    You sound more like you are describing someone with a physical deformity than someone who is just...'ugly'...
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    (Original post by pencilcasetapper)
    You can be gay and still be accepted.
    You can be female and still be accepted.
    You can be an ethnic minority and still be accepted.
    You can be short and still be accepted.
    You can be religious and still be accepted.
    You can be dark-haired and still be accepted.

    You can ugly...

    Oh wait a minute. No you can't.

    Being ugly is, according to society, the worst trait there is. No, nothing can ever redeem ugliness. Even the oppressed oppress ugly people.

    If you are ugly, you are destined to be discriminated and have a disappointing life.

    Why? Because even people of different races, different hair colours, religious or not religious, different heights, and not heterosexual can still be in relationships.

    Ugly people? No they cannot.

    (Ugly people being with ugly people does not count. Ugly people secretly wish they could be with a better partner, but they can't as they're ugly).
    pedophiles, terrorists and sadistists. All these are worse traits than just being ugly. Being ugly is bad tho coz nobody likes gordon brown for example (although he was a [email protected] awsell). I wouldnt wanna get naked with Subo either.
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    (Original post by RandZul'Zorander)
    You sound more like you are describing someone with a physical deformity than someone who is just...'ugly'...
    That's true I suppose, probably because I knew this guy I just see 'ugly' people as unattractive, and then physically deformed people as ugly
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    (Original post by pencilcasetapper)
    The advantages of being ugly are minimal compared to being beautiful.
    I would much rather be ugly and intelligent, than beautiful and stupid.
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    (Original post by r.hackett)
    Physical ugliness is not very important, it's the people with ugly personalities that repulse me. that's a cliche, but it's the truth.
    Absolute bull****. Everyone tries to take the moral high ground by saying this yet day in day out I see the *****iest girls with allk the friends and relationships just because they look good. The not so attractive ones are totally ignored and even laughed at sometimes
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    (Original post by S.R)
    Absolute bull****. Everyone tries to take the moral high ground by saying this yet day in day out I see the *****iest girls with allk the friends and relationships just because they look good. The not so attractive ones are totally ignored and even laughed at sometimes
    If we take your generalisation as a fact then yes, I agree. This does indicate, to me at least, how hideous society is. Ostracising 'ugly' people should be a crime.
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    (Original post by Lucia.)
    Ah all you ever post is self-pity. :rolleyes: That's why you're losing out. Self-pity doesn't make knickers wet.
    i find it ironic you're making comments like that when you and other woman are usually the ones who reject guys immediately or friendzone them
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    (Original post by MacLean)
    Thing that worries me is that I tend to find all females kinda ugly when they don't have their makeup on as everytime their out, at work, in magazines or on telly they have makeup on.

    I dont really mean that in an offensive way although it kinda is by its nature.

    From a little kid I have rarely seen women without makeup on! The first time this hit me hard was when I lost my vplates and woke up next to a monster. It was like in the nightclub she was beauty *next morning* BEEAAST

    So moral is, all women are ugly, so just practise with your makeup hair etc. Some girls look hot, but underneith all the **** on their face, they aint nothin terribly special.

    They're eating, ****ting, farting machines like the rest of us with some mud on their face that tricks us poor guys.
    women can wear make up to look pretty

    so what the hell can we guys do ?

    when we work out they say 'eww gross muscles'

    when they work out we say ' nice bod'

    i am not buying into the personality nonsense

    no looks, no chance whatsoever (minimal! i know YOU may be the exception sherlock to quote me) to get a girl
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    (Original post by ChocoholicPolyglot)
    But don't we all define "ugly" differently? I might find someone attractive but you might think they are hideous etc.
    there are cut-offs.

    i.e beauty and perception of beauty FOLLOWS certian trends.

    even though there may be a difference of opinion

    why would you need to call someone ugly, or look at them as so ?

    same as looking down at a black or white guy, for his colour, but not saying it
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    (Original post by medicine gapper)
    i find it ironic you're making comments like that when you and other woman are usually the ones who reject guys immediately or friendzone them
    Every second comment you make is along these lines, did a woman do you some kind of serious wrong or something? :confused:
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    (Original post by medicine gapper)
    women can wear make up to look pretty
    when we work out they say 'eww gross muscles'
    Make-up doesn't make someone pretty if you actually look at them. It's their features that determine this and if they are what is called 'bad' then it'll be hard to disguise it. Anyway make-up is a pain in the ass and a waste of money.

    And what is wrong with a muscular guy? That's a weird thing for someone to say.
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    (Original post by medicine gapper)
    women can wear make up to look pretty
    theoretically so could a man...

    so what the hell can we guys do ?

    when we work out they say 'eww gross muscles'
    :confused: I have never heard women say 'ew gross muscles'. Muscles are things that are considered attractive.

    i am not buying into the personality nonsense

    no looks, no chance whatsoever (minimal! i know YOU may be the exception sherlock to quote me) to get a girl
    Lol why not? you think its not possible to like someone on personality? :rolleyes: Just because you may have had a bad experience doesn't mean people don't want someone with a good personality.
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    (Original post by pencilcasetapper)
    You can be gay and still be accepted.
    You can be female and still be accepted.
    You can be an ethnic minority and still be accepted.
    You can be short and still be accepted.
    You can be religious and still be accepted.
    You can be dark-haired and still be accepted.

    You can ugly...

    Oh wait a minute. No you can't.

    Being ugly is, according to society, the worst trait there is. No, nothing can ever redeem ugliness. Even the oppressed oppress ugly people.

    If you are ugly, you are destined to be discriminated and have a disappointing life.

    Why? Because even people of different races, different hair colours, religious or not religious, different heights, and not heterosexual can still be in relationships.

    Ugly people? No they cannot.

    (Ugly people being with ugly people does not count. Ugly people secretly wish they could be with a better partner, but they can't as they're ugly).
    What is ugly?
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    (Original post by medicine gapper)
    i find it ironic you're making comments like that when you and other woman are usually the ones who reject guys immediately or friendzone them
    haha read up on the definition of 'irony'

    I don't friend zone anyone. I decide pretty quickly whether I see potential in them relationship-wise. And I'm not looking for a relationship at the moment so I'm rejecting even good guys. Anyway what are you complaining about? Do you expect women to just open their legs with minimal effort from you?
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    (Original post by medicine gapper)
    no looks, no chance whatsoever (minimal! i know YOU may be the exception sherlock to quote me) to get a girl
    Yeah right. I've got with guys some people would call 'ugly' but I would definitely say otherwise. Still objectively, they're not what you'd call 'hot'. If you focussed on what woman actually want rather than lament your lack of action, then you'd be doing the whole world a favour. A lot of men focus on how they look without bothering to try and understand women and what makes them tick, and how they can make them feel good. Heh if both sexes focussed on feelings more than aesthetics, everyone would be onto a winner.
 
 
 
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