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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm nearly 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. Never kissed someone, or even held hands or cuddled a boy. Literally done nothing with a guy.

    I find it embarrassing to even admit it to my friends, so admitting it to a guy scares me a bit!

    If I happen to find someone who likes me, I'm worried that telling him might put him off a bit.

    So guys, what would you think if a girl told you this?
    Wouldn't be put off in the slightest.
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    (Original post by lerjj)
    I'm only 16 atm but I'm in the same situation (well, opposite since I'm male but whatever). It's probably fine...
    It's only bad if you're male
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    (Original post by hello101010)
    It's only bad if you're male
    That's a bit tight?

    Then again I think I'd like a guy with a bit of experience?
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    (Original post by Abby_W31)
    That's a bit tight?

    Then again I think I'd like a guy with a bit of experience?
    That's what he meant

    Just to check would it be a deal breaker for though if a guy didn't have any experience? I don't and I'm 20


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    (Original post by Jack22031994)
    That's what he meant

    Just to check would it be a deal breaker for though if a guy didn't have any experience? I don't and I'm 20


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    No I wouldn't mind if they didn't
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    (Original post by Abby_W31)
    No I wouldn't mind if they didn't
    Ah ok cool


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    (Original post by Jack22031994)
    Ah ok cool


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    But just because I'd prefer a guy with some experience doesn't mean other girls would, someone said earlier they'd prefer to have another guy who hadn't been with anyone.
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    (Original post by Abby_W31)
    But just because I'd prefer a guy with some experience doesn't mean other girls would, someone said earlier they'd prefer to have another guy who hadn't been with anyone.
    Yeah I know that


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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Really? Why's that?
    Because it'd make you adorable
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    (Original post by Abby_W31)
    That's a bit tight?

    Then again I think I'd like a guy with a bit of experience?
    What as in an older man?
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    (Original post by BoBosus)
    What as in an older man?
    Not extremely older but a few years I wouldn't mind
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    I prefer that, Knowing I was the first/only guy you did anything with.
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    (Original post by Abby_W31)
    Not extremely older but a few years I wouldn't mind
    I hope not.
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    Lol sorry but it just seems MENTAL that a girl is ashamed of not sleeping around with guys, or just messing about with a guy...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Really? Why's that?
    Being someone's first love makes it all the more special.
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    (Original post by Usmani770)
    Lol sorry but it just seems MENTAL that a girl is ashamed of not sleeping around with guys, or just messing about with a guy...
    That doesn't mean to say I'd be proud if I did...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Really? Why's that?
    Because nobody wants sloppy seconds
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    (Original post by BoBosus)
    I hope not.
    While I know it can be very risky dating a much older person, I do know a couple who have between 15 to 20 years difference, and when you see them together you know that they're mad for each other.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    That doesn't mean to say I'd be proud if I did...
    Sorry I didn't mean it like that, I meant you shouldn't be ashamed or even affected by the fact you haven't been in contact with a guy, I think it is a stupid societal pressure these days..
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    (Original post by Usmani770)
    Sorry I didn't mean it like that, I meant you shouldn't be ashamed or even affected by the fact you haven't been in contact with a guy, I think it is a stupid societal pressure these days..
    I know, I'm in no rush to do it all. I just wanted to know people's opinions on it, incase it's something I should be a bit wary about
 
 
 
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