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    (Original post by pshah2)
    Okay well there are two..

    The one I mentioned I thought was single and very pretty, but does have a bf. I would never want to jeopardise that and value her as a friend. Just can't work out the sudden crush!

    The other one is a very forward friend, and I think I get turned on by her drive. She is also pretty hot tbh. But I'm not sure I want to ask her out, again in case I ruin the friendship!

    Is it just her energy I am driven to?

    But why do I keep imagining the platonic friend giving me head?
    Does it matter why? I'd go for it.
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    (Original post by Amphiprion)
    especially when they send snap chats of them in some kind of tiny ass bikini.
    You have awesome friends
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    (Original post by Reue)
    You have awesome friends
    My mates do it. Sort of ruins it when their balls are hanging out though...
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    (Original post by NewlyScared)
    Does it matter why? I'd go for it.
    Haha but say you imagine her giving you head, what just ask her out?
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    (Original post by NewlyScared)
    Does it matter why? I'd go for it.
    Thing is I'm finding it difficult to be around my friend and keep calm.. especially if she is eating a banana or just sucking on anything to be honest..

    I'm worried when she hugs me one day I might have a boner!
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    Erm... yeah but it's not always intentional...
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    My friend finally admitted that he did this when we were younger so I would say so.

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    (Original post by donutaud15)
    My friend finally admitted that he did this when we were younger so I would say so.

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    Thing is I imagined having wild sex with one of my driven hot female friends!
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    (Original post by pshah2)
    Thing is I imagined having wild sex with one of my driven hot female friends!
    He's never admitted to wild sex since he told me after I got married so it would be awkward but he pretty much implied it so would say it's normal

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    (Original post by donutaud15)
    He's never admitted to wild sex since he told me after I got married so it would be awkward but he pretty much implied it so would say it's normal

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    I see. Thing is does this mean anything though? I find my friend's forwardness such a turn on. She is also hot! But I mean, I don't think I envisage us as a couple.
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    (Original post by pshah2)
    I see. Thing is does this mean anything though? I find my friend's forwardness such a turn on. She is also hot! But I mean, I don't think I envisage us as a couple.
    Nope doesn't need to mean anything

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    (Original post by donutaud15)
    Nope doesn't need to mean anything

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    Phew so just sexy thoughts then!

    I mean maybe I fancy her a little, but she might reject me if I asked her out. For some reason, when she swears I find that hot too. I keep imagining her on top of me though.
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    (Original post by pshah2)
    Phew so just sexy thoughts then!

    I mean maybe I fancy her a little, but she might reject me if I asked her out. For some reason, when she swears I find that hot too. I keep imagining her on top of me though.
    She's hot, it's a guys instinct to fancy her as a mate

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    (Original post by Andy98)
    She's hot, it's a guys instinct to fancy her as a mate

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    Phew. I do find her attractive, but I'm finding her desirable sexually rather than the whole girlfriend package. Should I ask her out and risk the friendship?
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    (Original post by pshah2)
    Phew. I do find her attractive, but I'm finding her desirable sexually rather than the whole girlfriend package. Should I ask her out and risk the friendship?
    That one's up to you
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    (Original post by Andy98)
    That one's up to you
    Is it worth suggesting FWB? If so how?
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    (Original post by zippity.doodah)
    lol let's be honest, fellas, the only female friends we have are the ones we want to end up ****ing one day, when they open themselves to it, unless they aren't somewhat attractive.
    and girls, you should be extremely suspicous if you are attractive and a keen male friend of yours is calling you "a good friend~" because men's form of friendship with their heterosexuality is called "attraction". of course, to males, this attraction would be completely inert because there's no instinct of ****ing that person...
    obviously girls are usually the fussier gender with regards to sex, which makes them different to guys, because really, we'll **** pretty much anybody we find "somewhat attractive"...we're not fussy at all.
    well this doesn't apply to me. I always say it's only desperate men who follow this rule.
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    (Original post by pshah2)
    Is it worth suggesting FWB? If so how?
    Noooooooooooo, never suggest FWB - never works
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    (Original post by Andy98)
    Noooooooooooo, never suggest FWB - never works
    What should I do? Ask her out and risk friendship/get rejected?

    Continue to pine for her?

    I erm.. may have fapped whilst thinking about her the other day.

    She's really hot!
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    (Original post by pshah2)
    What should I do? Ask her out and risk friendship/get rejected?

    Continue to pine for her?

    I erm.. may have fapped whilst thinking about her the other day.

    She's really hot!
    Ask her out. It's that simple. Just say "I don't want this to be too forward, but do you wanna go for a coffee (or something similar), you know....as a date?"
 
 
 
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