I am a light-skinned pakistani, I want a white family! Watch

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(Original post by The Juan)
I can't tell if this is genuine or you want to start your own English girl grooming practice, Pakistani males don't have a good record in that sector of society.
You are so funny... . Not.

But this is a serious thread lol.
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White people can be discriminated against but they are not oppressed and overall have the upper hand, so there's no such thing as being racist against a white person. A few mean words is nothing compared to genocide, slavery, being beat up and raped because of your skin color and treated like you're less than human due to centuries of deep rooted racism "fixed" by sweeping everything under the carpet.

If The western mentality to sex is so forward then why are men in Canada having sex with dead deers and dogs....Why are divorce rates so high if people fall in love? Why are girls treated as sex toys? Why are people still having sex with animals? Holy **! Don't teach us what to do, brah....

And by the way, they don't value it that's why divorce rates are high. In Canada, so many married women have been caught having sex with neighbors and some other people. Do you like it? Should we become like that?

It is the cultural back ground. With a strong family oriented culture. This culture is different from the West.
But at the same time, it is not limited to Asian parents. Those who care for their children, are worried about whom they mix with and marry.

Western society is a more egoistic society in that the needs of oneself are much more important than the wishes of siblings and family members. No sacrifices are made in this regard, while in India, sacrifices are often made for the greater wellbeing of the family.

The elderly are alienated, kids move away from home as soon as they are 18, and somebody who is older and still lives with mom and dad is considered weird, pathetic and a loner. People here are scoffed at for going with their parents to movies, etc. once they are adults, because Western culture expects you to do that with your girlfriend/bodyfiend/spouse.

Indian culture teaches you to respect and worship god. It teaches you to respect the motherland- india and its people, your elders, your relatives. Call them by dear names and with respect. Like a maternal aunt would be called pathi'. It teaches you to obey your parents, and the generation before you, to treat all other Indians as your brothers and sisters. What more can you ask for?
Western Culture - call everyone by name, abuse your elders, relatives, disobey all and respect none.

In Indian culture there is concept of compound family. All will enjoy life in one house of all the family members of all 3-4 generations. Though it is changing little bit. But old is gold. Respect to elders means respect to their years of experience. Family is like a company. Everybody will be a part of team. Everybody will respect to each other. Elders will take important decisions. And kids will always enjoy by following elders decisions. Whole compound family at one place is like a powerful team.

Indian parents are not like Whie parents. Indian parents love lot to their kids. They are not like western parents who change their spouse every after few years. Western parents are selfish for their enjoyment so they change their spouse. Indian parents will have priorities like kids, kids education, kids marriage etc and will not think of saving money for their retirement plan. As the Indian parents look after welfare of kids till the parents are alive. Western parent will think of their retirement plan first and save money for them.

I don't say western culture is bad, but it is not good..... the bad things like rape, sucide, drugs,,teenager mothers ,pornoevolved from western,,, not to mention about lesbian, gay and AIDS.
westerns have a lot to learn from us..

No.This is because white women tend to be easy ,they dress like sluts so people buy them drinks and use them for sex only ,but never consider to marry them. How to date a white woman (aka whore)? Just to to a club, offer her a few drinks and she`ll start your "date" by sucking your **** in the toilette of the club. Simple as that. Our beauty standards in terms of colour, hairdos, plumpness, colours of eyes, voice quality, mannerism, value system etc are totally different to western standards. So we prefer to marry Indian girls only.

We follow our culture sense of unity and bonding in family........... not the cheater wife with multiple partners with STD'S...... Au revoir!.

All cultures have their own problems, Indian/Pakistani culture is no where near perfect either honor killings, rape & sexual assault is common as well,
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There is nothing wrong with marrying outside your race or wanting to integrate into British culture. The unhealthy part is denigrating your own race in the process of doing so

I am not Pakistani so I have no reason to be biased. I just find it upsetting when ethnic minorities absorb the prejudices of wider society and use it to vilify themselves

(Original post by Anonymous)
I don't know what? Pakistani only just do stupid **** all the time.
All the time my mom and aunties come and backbite while I revise. Chat complete **** behind other people's backs.
You have cultural tunnel vision
I know for a fact people of other cultures do this too

In any case, gossiping is stereotypically the universal habit of women

They believe in the weirdest **** ever, I spoke to someone who is meant to be my friend from college(pakistani). They told me how did x and x and I was really happy for them and said great job. They said say Mash'allah or black magic. I was like **** off, if you were my friend you'd know I wanted good for you, don't need mas'allah to prove it you.
Also they are VERY VERY RACIST to black people. Believe me, one prick in college thinks just cause he is slightly lighter(nowhere near as light as me) he is superior to darker asians and black people. prick.
White people have been and still are racist to Black people too.
Believe me, any well-read Black person would probably have a lot more grievances against White people than Pakistanis or South Asians

I am not mentioning this because I want to give some stick to White people. I am just trying to show how almost every ethnic group has faults
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Sadly, due to their religion and culture they are blinded. I don't like having a blind man guide me. I would rather help the blind man, because I am able, but I can't. I wish I could save them, but I can't. They same way they feel for me. This ignorance will be cured with time, but sadly there are about 5 generations before this get close to happening.

I honestly want to die sometimes when I speak to my mother. I can see her love, I can see it. But I can't accept it. She is loving a liar, someone who isn't as great as she thinks he is. This is why I stay alone. I don't deserve her smile. I don't want to make people see me as someone I am not. I don't want to form bonds with other people due to this. I don't go out that much, there is no one with me and I have become very introverted, so I just go out for essential things. I sit alone in class.

Consult Islam as to why I can't even speak to other girls without being judged. Islam completely restricts opposite-sex mingling.

If I was white, I wouldn't go through this. Maybe this is why I want to be white. I want to be me without the BS.

Thank you for your posts. You have made me realise a lot about myself which, as saddening as it is, I am thankful for.

No worries, I am happy to help where possible. I have been through a lot in my life which I have had to deal with and that's why it has made me the person whom I am today. I am also 19 years old (and a girl - thought I'd tell you because of all of this Islam stuff and being judged). I don't even know you, yet I would have taken you out somewhere to make you feel happy about yourself.

Seriously though, you cannot live your life like this. I don't have the answer, but I know that this is not healthy. I would strongly recommend seeking advice from a counsellor or someone (from college - convenient, free and confidential). I am presume that this is frowned upon in the Asian culture, yet it is very beneficial. At least consider it. I want you to feel happy about who you are and be honest with yourself.

How about incorporating some of the things you like about the White culture in to yours? I know you like that we appear as being 'free' but possibly you could also do this by making some decisions? You mentioned you are attending university next year. What is it that you are wanting to study? Is it your choice or your parents? Be honest.

You and I are only 19 years old and have so many years ahead of us. If we are not happy about something then look for a solution as you don't want to feel like this for the rest of your life. For example, I left a part-time job to go to a full-time job, however, that fell apart so I was made jobless. I felt sad about this, but decided to act accordingly. I have applied to many jobs, received interviews, but got nowhere. Yet, I never gave up. I did something about it, and you should do something about the way you feel.
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I didn't want you chatting **** on this thread, yet you continue to do so. I don't see why you have a need to post this. I don't give a flying **** about how sincere you are, **** off.

And of Course they are gonna be choosing white girls, in particular, because there is a plethora of them compared to any other race.

Please stop derailing this thread or I will report you, I swear.
Is it only ok when you're being racist about Pakistanis? You can try and 'justify' it all you want but you don't have to be white to be British so the culture thing is a load of ****. You just want to be white. All your thoughts are based on racism. But don't be surprised or angry when that same racism is directed at you.
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You sound like my dad. He is a self-hating Arab who married a white woman and then got divorced. You need to SORT yourself out and STOP giving in to this eurocentric worship. We, the white people, are tired of this ****. We are not the scapegoat for your self hating nor are we the magic wand to make things better, change your race or culture nor can we dilute it!

GET UP AND LOOK IN THE MIRROR. You don't hate yourself or want to be white. You just don't agree with your culture. SIMPLE! You need to do some soul searching and therapy!
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At the end of the day if you were born in England, then you're English. There's nothing wrong with wanting to embrace your own country's culture and don't let people tell you otherwise.

You say you want a white family, but what I really think you mean is you want a family with Western values. You can't really do anything about that for now, but in the future, when you start your own family, you have the power to live in as Western a household as you like!

Just bide your time, Bro.

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Let me begin with hating being a pakistani! I am an atheist and can't tell anyone except only my trusted friend. I live in pakistani area which is complete ****. I go to college with mostly pakistanis. But honestly wish I was born into an english family. I hate the culture. I hate the religion.

I am relatively white, you could tell that I was from asia but you wouldn't assume I was from pakistan.
I want to have a white girlfriend or (black, if I love her) but I feel all the white people in general hate us. White girls look much much more beautiful than pakistani girls on a whole(I have meet 10,000+ asians so I KNOW from quite a big sample).
Can you see the problem?
It is not with your culture, not with your religion and not how "white people" actually "feel" towards you.

I honestly believe the problem is just in your head. I'm sure your race and religion can have influence however I am also pretty sure that the British community is open and diverse enough in a way you'd be able to fall in love with the dream girl you have in mind without any problems.

People in general may disrespect/dislike you in particular because of how you feel toward yourself and other people. They are human beings, and human beings have feelings. Personally, “I don't trust people who don't love themselves and tell me, 'I love you.' ... There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt.” ― Maya Angelou
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