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(Original post by Smonnie)
Are you mainly concerned about how you look with your clothes on or without?

Because with clothes on, obviously bras can augment and shape as you already know.

Without clothes on, clearly you cannot hide from what is there. But frankly, if a man has got that far, they are clearly already attracted to you, and will be 'happy' to have you naked anyway. He'll be far too busy thinking of other things to look for imperfections.
This is blatantly wrong. Men can and will judge your naked appearance. I expect women will similarly judge a man's naked appearance. Everyone knows that clothes can be misleading. Small, saggy boobs are literally the worst thing ever (with the exception of being fat or facially ugly, obviously).
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I read through the whole thread and responded to most of it in turn but haven't quoted it all as you can see.



Sounds like you might need a therapist more than a boob job.

Either that or you need to repress your anxiety and low self-esteem and either get naked with a guy you could trust to be honest and find out what they think if you really want an unbiased opinion or try posting a picture anonymously to a different site which is more suited to this kind of thing. There are places that I could recommend but wouldn't be suitable for this thread. And gauge the feedback from that.

I think I'd go with the former personally because even if your fears are founded that doesn't mean you have to have low self-esteem about it or care so much about it. I can't say I can truly understand what you're going through but from societal standards of beauty I haven't got the best male upper body. No pecs to speak of and I think smaller arm muscles. I won't pretend it doesn't bother me a tiny bit but for the most part I don't really care. I'd rather have someone accept me for who I am. The idea that bigger boobs are better is an urban myth. There's little to no truth in it. It's not a fact.

I'm not sure if your fears are imagined or not, being a guy. I'd lean towards thinking they're at least exaggerated.

Honestly when it comes to boob size I'm not sure I care all that much personally and I couldn't even tell you what exactly was average anyway but if I had to guess I'd have to say I have slight preference for smaller if anything but as others have said size isn't all that important. I put more preference into skin tone, shape and nipple and areola shape and colour if I'm honest but I'm not sure I've yet met a woman with breasts I find unattractive despite this. As a guy you do get a sense after a while, if you look in the right places(not professional porn sites really), what to expect what a woman's breasts look like naked but there are some slight surprises but honestly it doesn't really make a difference. And the woman I felt strongest for was quite "flat chested". I hate the term personally because there's nothing wrong with it. And if it makes a difference in many ways I liked it about her and that it suited her.
The difference is you don't have a decent upper body because you're weak/lazy/don't work out; breasts on the other hand are basically genetics. That is to say, you could change your situation by changing your activities, whereas OP cannot. The issues are not comparable despite superficial similarity (i.e. body image problems).

No idea why you'd have any emotions about the term 'flat chested', either, considering it is purely descriptive. Any negative connotations attached are your own.
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I'd say small natural boobs. My friend has breast implants and they look and feel natural. So if you're not happy then go for it, just make sure you are aware of the possible complications.
There's another procedure where you get fat transferred from your stomach or another area to your boobs. That would look and feel more natural I guess.
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(Original post by Astronomical)
The difference is you don't have a decent upper body because you're weak/lazy/don't work out; breasts on the other hand are basically genetics. That is to say, you could change your situation by changing your activities, whereas OP cannot. The issues are not comparable despite superficial similarity (i.e. body image problems).

No idea why you'd have any emotions about the term 'flat chested', either, considering it is purely descriptive. Any negative connotations attached are your own.
You're right, there is definitely a certain amount of choice and laziness in the matter. I honestly don't work out my upper body because I don't care enough to. Simple as that really. Genetically speaking I'd say people are predisposed to a certain body type but with work I personally could certainly do better, as could most people. I never said it was a direct comparison so I'm not sure why you've even touching upon the subject but in many ways it comes down to the same in terms of "societal standards". There are some obvious differences. In many ways you could say facial structure/looks are a more direct comparison.

Ok, you can't be serious? I mean, honestly? It is derogatory, no two ways about it. Whatever way it's used it's meant as negative comment. There's no way you can possibly argue against that. And I definitely empathise with the idea of being essentially attacked for it.
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generally think it's does not matter really as long as they are real not fakes 😉
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small boobs.

I prefer them actually... weird huh?
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boob job only if your boyfriend's tits are bigger
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boob job only if your boyfriend's tits are bigger
Reddit *cough*


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real is better than fake
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Reddit *cough*
dont use it soz
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dont use it soz
Neither do I, but it's alright iceberg


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Easy to say 'just be confident' if you do not have body image issues.
Obviously it takes time; I'm not by any means saying it will be easy, but most people have body issues and don't fixate on them. The more confident you feel in yourself, the less vulnerable you will appear to others and you'll probably get less negative comments if people don't think it'll affect you.

At the end of the day, they're just 2 balls of fat on your chest.
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Obviously it takes time; I'm not by any means saying it will be easy, but most people have body issues and don't fixate on them. The more confident you feel in yourself, the less vulnerable you will appear to others and you'll probably get less negative comments if people don't think it'll affect you.

At the end of the day, they're just 2 balls of fat on your chest.
I don't fixate on my boobs, I don't even think about them that much.

I was just asking a simple question.
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(Original post by Smonnie)
Are you mainly concerned about how you look with your clothes on or without?

Because with clothes on, obviously bras can augment and shape as you already know.

Without clothes on, clearly you cannot hide from what is there. But frankly, if a man has got that far, they are clearly already attracted to you, and will be 'happy' to have you naked anyway. He'll be far too busy thinking of other things to look for imperfections.
Well with clothes, I have the chest of a 10 year old. However, I will never want to wear a push up bra because if it comes off then that would be awkward.

Without clothes, I have small boobs that are average looking (not ugly nor pretty)
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I don't fixate on my boobs, I don't even think about them that much.

I was just asking a simple question.
You said that you didn't feel confident because of your breast size and have extensively argued with anyone who says small boobs are just as, if not more, attractive than big boobs. Which suggests it's a big issue for you.
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real is better than fake
Agree. Fake is exaggerated in most of the cases, real almost fits to woman.
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What would guys prefer, a girl with a GOOD boob job (some people have this idea that boob job=bad and fake looking lol no it does not) or A/B cups?

This is not a big boobs vs small boobs thread. I just wanted to see what you guys here think, not that I care and it will impact any future decisions. This is just out of interest.

Also, no 'love your small boobs' posts, I don't care. I've heard that many times.
Doesn't really matter to me; however, objectively and superficially, I'd say good boob job.
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I'd probably prefer a good boob job more than little boobs, but at the same time, a girl who's happy with herself just the way she is is far more sexy than someone who's gone through surgery for the sake of thinking it would make her more attractive.
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small boobs anyday. I think confidence is way more important then big boobs. I have small boobs (a large a cup) and i still get good stares/compliments it's a lot more about working with what you've got and being confident with it! But if a boob job makes you happy that's your choice!
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id rather a woman who was happy in herself whatever her size.

But then boob size doesnt matter to me though a preference is small to medium busts
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