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    Make, preferably 24/25
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    ASAP/18 since having a girlfriend can lead to sex before marriage, and that is a great sin and that path is a sin. I legitly wont mind doing it the halal way or marrying young. Because the male cant just fulfil his pleasure and leave, and the female can live her life easily without hiding anything from her family. Also it kind of encourages the young couple to put aside their lust and follow love. In this world, theres always lust, its about time love should rule. Its about time porn goes to an end, its about time guys who go after sex, stop. its about time people follow loves footsteps
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    Some of you guys need to tune the horiness down. Try mastrubsting or something lol
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Some of you guys need to tune the horiness down. Try mastrubsting or something lol
    You do realise the vast majority, if not all the posters here are Muslim so that's not an option, hence why we generally want to get married earlier.😂
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    (Original post by fatima1998)
    what if you not ready mentally?
    Basically every adult is ready mentally. Humans have been getting married as early as 14 in previous generations. I think you mean socially, i.e. do you have the right foundations: a job, a house, family and friends to support...

    In this society, you get most of these things at a later age. But mentally our brains are not much different to 1000 years ago.
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    (Original post by MevMev)
    but what if the girl was below 20- does it matter if she isn't making that much money yet? Cos so long as the boy was finished with his education and had stable job etc i think she should be fine
    Yeah I agree, if the boy has a lot of money then it is normal that the girl doesn't need as much.
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    I'm 23 and married; had my nikkah Aug 2015 - female. My husband was 25.
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    (Original post by Khodu)
    I'm 23 and married; had my nikkah Aug 2016 - female. My husband was 25.
    Bengali I presume?

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    (Original post by Khodu)
    I'm 23 and married; had my nikkah Aug 2016 - female. My husband was 25.
    If you're married already don't you mean 2015?
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    (Original post by s_ahmed2)
    Bengali I presume?

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    My username probably gives it away lol

    (Original post by asif007)
    If you're married already don't you mean 2015?
    Whoops! August 2015 was my nikkah and October 2015 was the wedding.
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    (Original post by Khodu)
    I'm 23 and married; had my nikkah Aug 2015 - female. My husband was 25.
    Awww thats really cute
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    InshaAllah, preferably when I'm 23 - Female
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    ASAP/18 since having a girlfriend can lead to sex before marriage, and that is a great sin and that path is a sin. I legitly wont mind doing it the halal way or marrying young. Because the male cant just fulfil his pleasure and leave, and the female can live her life easily without hiding anything from her family. Also it kind of encourages the young couple to put aside their lust and follow love. In this world, theres always lust, its about time love should rule. Its about time porn goes to an end, its about time guys who go after sex, stop. its about time people follow loves footsteps
    You want to get married early just to have sex before marriage?
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    (Original post by loveleest)
    You want to get married early just to have sex before marriage?
    I think he meant he wants to marry early to avoid sex before marriage as thats not allowed.
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    (Original post by Lil08)
    I don't decide, my parents do.
    You being serious?

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    (Original post by DesiGirl31)
    I think he meant he wants to marry early to avoid sex before marriage as thats not allowed.
    it is still so wrong imo. It's like is is rusbing into marriage to get sex.
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    (Original post by loveleest)
    it is still so wrong imo. It's like is is rusbing into marriage to get sex.
    Lol i dunno, i dont think its just to get sex.
    Its just how people usually think. That they dont want to sin, so to do it the halal way.
    But that said, saying we want to get married right now doesnt mean that we gonna find someone straight away and not get to know said person and just marry. Theres a process i guess. Whether ur parents find u someone or you find someone urself. You wouldnt marry for the sake of marrying someone to have sex with. Youd marry someone for them and their personality and how well they compliment you :yy:

    Sorry if i rambled :ninja:
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    (Original post by samerf)
    No idea. I'm not the kind of person to plan stuff like this.
    23rd May work for you?
 
 
 
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