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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You said he ignored cuz he was hurt but y
    He may have been hurt because he saw you with another guy, and assumed you were close enough to engage in a relationship, which most likely caused him anxiety.
    It can sometimes be slightly awkward for him.
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    (Original post by ripjonsnow)
    He may have been hurt because he saw you with another guy, and assumed you were close enough to engage in a relationship, which most likely caused him anxiety.
    It can sometimes be slightly awkward for him.
    So he fancies me?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So he fancies me?
    Potentially, but not fully. He may have you in mind as a "potential candidate", maybe a strong one.
    Im sorry, I think I might be the wrong person to ask, ill re-read later (having migrain atm :/)
    Perhaps I took this out of context, and maybe im wrong xD
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    I wouldn't. Not intentionally, at least.
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    (Original post by ripjonsnow)
    Potentially, but not fully. He may have you in mind as a "potential candidate", maybe a strong one.
    Im sorry, I think I might be the wrong person to ask, ill re-read later (having migrain atm :/)
    Perhaps I took this out of context, and maybe im wrong xD
    ok

    (Original post by Alexion)
    I wouldn't. Not intentionally, at least.
    Exactly
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    (Original post by ripjonsnow)
    I dunno, you were the one who started with the explicit language:
    Why are you still talking to me.

    (Original post by Anonymous)

    Well a day before we broke up for easter He spoke to me when I was alone in the canteen. He said hi (my name) then stood in silence we spoke about random stuff then I dropped the convro. Later that day he heard me say bf but I didn't say I had one. When we finished college he saw me walking with a guy. The next day he ignored my existence, but after the hols said you ok ( name) I said yh whilst avoiding eye contact he asked whether I did anything good during the holiday. .
    Look above
    Well he's approaching you so he's still at least interested in your existence even if not in a relationship. But I agree with being short with him. You can only kiss up to him for so long. I simply take not trying as not being interested enough or at all. Unless you like never initiated anything, I mean if you've exhausted all options to let him know how you feel, the good and bad feelings:
    -flirty body language
    -flirty body lang and convo
    -raunchy convo
    -intimate behaviour
    -civilly explaining grievances
    -fighting
    -breaking up
    You've got nothing left except
    -ignoring

    If you haven't used all those yet then try them to the applicable situation.
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    Because they might start laughing at you...
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    (Original post by LittleMissMay)
    Why are you still talking to me.
    I dont know love, you were the one who quoted me first?
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    For someone who apparently wants him to get over you and move on, you seem awfully frustrated and interested in his behaviour... so much so that you created a thread on a forum about him. Hmm, I don't think we need Sherlock on this one.
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    I know this guy who talks to me properly like friends when his friends aren't around, but when they are, he barely looks in my direction. I know it's nothing to do with a 'crush', but it's probably just an ego thing.
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    (Original post by macromicro)
    For someone who apparently wants him to get over you and move on, you seem awfully frustrated and interested in his behaviour... so much so that you created a thread on a forum about him. Hmm, I don't think we need Sherlock on this one.
    This has happened for months that's why. I'm analysing so if I'm in this situation in the future I knr what I should do
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    (Original post by ikhan94)
    Because they might start laughing at you...
    Childish


    (Original post by LittleMissMay)
    Why are you still talking to me.


    Well he's approaching you so he's still at least interested in your existence even if not in a relationship. But I agree with being short with him. You can only kiss up to him for so long. I simply take not trying as not being interested enough or at all. Unless you like never initiated anything, I mean if you've exhausted all options to let him know how you feel, the good and bad feelings:
    -flirty body language
    -flirty body lang and convo
    -raunchy convo
    -intimate behaviour
    -civilly explaining grievances
    -fighting
    -breaking up
    You've got nothing left except
    -ignoring

    If you haven't used all those yet then try them to the applicable situation.
    I'm just ganna talk then ignore
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    (Original post by Petrifiedcat)
    I know this guy who talks to me properly like friends when his friends aren't around, but when they are, he barely looks in my direction. I know it's nothing to do with a 'crush', but it's probably just an ego thing.
    Exactly ego and why waste time on a pathetic person like that

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Childish
    I'm just ganna talk then ignore
    Yea
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    (Original post by LittleMissMay)
    Exactly ego and why waste time on a pathetic person like that



    Yea
    I'm not even ganna reply if he talks
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm not even ganna reply if he talks
    Okie
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This has happened for months that's why. I'm analysing so if I'm in this situation in the future I knr what I should do
    Self-delusion is a powerful thing.
 
 
 
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