I don't understand how people can get to the age of 18 and still not have had a bf/gf

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I had/have the personality of a brick and wasn't particularly attractive back then so all the girls would either laugh at me or ignore me. Left me with issues meaning I find it very hard to get to the point where I'm comfortable enough with a girl to get into a relationship.

Reply 81

username2224711

Original post by Rhythmical

I just have no idea how to approach a guy. Like if you meet someone you like, do you plan the wedding? My best bet is shaadi.com lol

Lol dw. I'll PM you some tips tomorrow :tongue:

Haha and I know that's true from experience XP actually happened yesterday in fact :redface:

I've actually had a few experiences like. One where the guy just never lets go and doesn't get a hint, and others where they're alright once they've found someone else.

Reply 82

username2387497

Believe you me, I've tried!
It's not as easy as it sounds for some of us!
I'm ugly and a girl repellent so getting a girlfriend is impossible for me!
I'm 18 and have tried numerous times to no avail!
One attemp ended up in being lead on until she called me outside where she grabbed a guy (her new boyfriend) and had a snog with him right in front of me. She was smirking too whilst feeling him up. I just walked away before I burst into tears! I genuinely thought I had a shot, but she chose a guy I absolutely hate (I've hated him since primary school) and thought that was an appropriate thing to do :frown:

These are the type of girls that I live around. Trying to get with one is like trying to walk to the moon! Not gonna happen. Especially if you don't have the looks either :frown:

That's how I haven't got a girlfriend by 18!
No ones interested in me!

Reply 83

SinsNotTragedies

It must be because I'm ugly, of course. Not because they're so close to me that a romantic relationship wouldn't have the same dynamic. :frown:

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Reply 84

KingKoala

The honest truth?.... I prefer animals to people.

Reply 85

username1539513

Original post by SinsNotTragedies

It must be because I'm ugly, of course. Not because they're so close to me that a romantic relationship wouldn't have the same dynamic. :frown:

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In case you think I'm just being a prejudiced b****

http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-and-women-cant-be-just-friends/

Reply 86

username1177050

girls saying they cant get a bf, its utter tosh, there will be tonnes of men white knighting you

Reply 87

SinsNotTragedies

It just isn't correct universally! I know so many males who have long-term girlfriends, and also have close friends who just so happen to be girls. What is happening there?

Reply 88

robin567

I think your the only desperate one.Getting into a relationship at 15 is just a joke....at that age your in a
immature phase in your life.

Reply 89

Rhythmical

Original post by ravioliyears

Lol dw. I'll PM you some tips tomorrow :tongue:

Haha and I know that's true from experience XP actually happened yesterday in fact :redface:

I've actually had a few experiences like. One where the guy just never lets go and doesn't get a hint, and others where they're alright once they've found someone else.

Oh I look forward to them lol. I just don't want kids but I can accept being married. If I get married then it will stop the old Asian ladies and aunties gossiping. Reminds me of Bend It Like Beckham.

Reply 90

username2224711

Original post by BhagwanNoBhool

You are a brick :smile:

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Reply 91

John55

I'm not worried about it anyway to be honest, I mean, I don't not want to get a girlfriend but at the same time I don't care that I don't and probably won't have one for a while at least...

Reply 92

username1208193

I don't think a relationship is necessary at my age. :'D Prioritising studies; effectively the building blocks to kickstart your future. If I'm lucky, I'll meet up with that someone or I'll see someone in Uni. If not, I'd want to look for someone after I finish Uni. First, I have to get there. :rofl:

Reply 93

username2224711

Original post by Rhythmical

Omds gossiping Asian aunties is nothing new on my radar :rofl:

Reply 94

KingKoala

I need to get my own life sorted first, before I even think about getting involved in someone else's. :smile:

Reply 95

Rhythmical

Original post by ravioliyears

Omds gossiping Asian aunties is nothing new on my radar :rofl:

Even if I am in the middle of nowhere they ****ing know what I am doing. Oh and I hate the cousin rivarly. Being too close to your family means nothing is hidden.

Reply 96

BhagwanNoBhool

Original post by ravioliyears

You are a brick :smile:

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Omg how did you guess my secret?! :ninja:

I am well thanks :biggrin:

How're you?

I'm over the laughing and ignoring tbh, I'm not bitter at women or anything like that but it's like a mental block that I have and I need to get over at some point.

In my dreams lol, comp sci is a cock fest :lol:

Reply 97

toonervoustotalk

Meh
Why have a girl when there is chicken which can satify everything for you :u:

Reply 98

Betelgeuse-

Original post by AngryRedhead

I apologise in advance if this comes across as rude or insensitive but, barring cases where you went to a single gender secondary school, how does someone get to, like, 18 or 19 and not manage to get a boyfriend or girlfriend? I was a total dork in high school but even I managed to get a boyfriend at 15.

1) Easy even for dorky girls
2) I was a late developer.. Probably only became properly interested in girls around 17

Reply 99

John55

Original post by FireFreezer77

These are the type of girls that I live around. Trying to get with one is like trying to walk to the moon! Not gonna happen. Especially if you don't have the looks either :frown:

That's how I haven't got a girlfriend by 18!
No ones interested in me!