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    (Original post by 0to100)
    I mean be attracted to what you're attracted to it just seems like there won't be satisfaction with just one sex?
    well if your genuinly happy with either then it will be fine
    i could easily be completely satisfied with either
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    (Original post by shawtyb)
    well if your genuinly happy with either then it will be fine
    i could easily be completely satisfied with either
    All right. Some people really ruin it for bisexuals though with their wishy-washiness and sexual indecisiveness. Makes people fear unstable commitment but if you are one of those who is simply attracted to both but doesn't need both lol then cool. I've never actually spoken to a bi before, just ppl who dated em.
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    All right. Some people really ruin it for bisexuals though with their wishy-washiness and sexual indecisiveness. Makes people fear unstable commitment but if you are one of those who is simply attracted to both but doesn't need both lol then cool. I've never actually spoken to a bi before, just ppl who dated em.
    i understand what your saying, like these 'bisexuals' who wouldnt do the full act with the same sex. basically the ones who call them selves as such but aint truely it.
    i can and have fully commited with both sexes
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    This doesn't make any sense. There's so much wrong in this. Seeing two women kissing isn't universally a fantasy. Seeing two men kissing isn't appalling to everyone. You're ascribing your beliefs onto others. If you find it appalling you probably have an issue with the act full stop. So if that's the case you can't conveniently switch to not having a problem with the same act based on attraction or not; if you do that's uncertainty, that's schizophrenic in fact.

    Two good looking men kissing. Might put you off, yeah? So definitely two ugly men kissing will also put you off. Two good looking women kissing? Gonna turn you on? Probably.Now two ugly women kissing is what? Is that gonna inherently turn you on? Even if they're two beasts? Probably not. So that's not a fixed attitude towards homosexuality. Which means hypocrisy. Just...figure it out.

    Dude it is, among straight men, it is, hence why there is a porn category for it.
    Again o had never said it was appalling to everyone, but I just gave you an example, as you're falling to view it from a different perspective.
    A person will not have a problem with gay people, but he might see the sight of two men or women kissing to be off putting
    You have just proven that you have little understanding of mental illness.
    It is not hypocrisy, o just view it as preferences.
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    All right. Some people really ruin it for bisexuals though with their wishy-washiness and sexual indecisiveness. Makes people fear unstable commitment but if you are one of those who is simply attracted to both but doesn't need both lol then cool. I've never actually spoken to a bi before, just ppl who dated em.
    This happens a lot and it's really upsetting. There's a lot of biphobia in even the gay community; s'pretty shocking.

    The bisexual men I've dated have been pretty similar to that too, to be honest.
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    (Original post by Blue_Mason)
    Dude it is, among straight men, it is, hence why there is a porn category for it.
    Again o had never said it was appalling to everyone, but I just gave you an example, as you're falling to view it from a different perspective.
    A person will not have a problem with gay people, but he might see the sight of two men or women kissing to be off putting
    You have just proven that you have little understanding of mental illness.
    It is not hypocrisy, o just view it as preferences.
    No, they do tend to have an issue if they are that strongly averse to it. You just walk past and be like "cute two people in love, yay". My bestfriend is a lesbian and making out with girls does not repulse me, even though I am not attracted to it in the slightest. I'm not sure what's 'repulsive' about two people having a kiss... :dontknow:
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    (Original post by shawtyb)
    i understand what your saying, like these 'bisexuals' who wouldnt do the full act with the same sex. basically the ones who call them selves as such but aint truely it.
    i can and have fully commited with both sexes

    Have your parents approved of your sexuality?
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    (Original post by Blue_Mason)
    Have your parents approved of your sexuality?
    they dont know but i couldnt give two hoots if they dont however i know fully that my dad would as he too is bisexual and in an open relationship with a man and a women, both of which are happy with the whole thing and are friends with each other
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    (Original post by Blue_Mason)
    Dude it is, among straight men, it is, hence why there is a porn category for it.
    Again o had never said it was appalling to everyone, but I just gave you an example, as you're falling to view it from a different perspective.
    A person will not have a problem with gay people, but he might see the sight of two men or women kissing to be off putting
    You have just proven that you have little understanding of mental illness.
    It is not hypocrisy, o just view it as preferences.
    There's a porn category for golden showers, midgets and grandpas as well, are they universally appealing? :rolleyes:

    I don't see your point.

    I am failing to view it from a different perspective, lmao thank God, because your perspective is rubbish. Especially that bold bit .
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    No, they do tend to have an issue if they are that strongly averse to it. You just walk past and be like "cute two people in love, yay". My bestfriend is a lesbian and making out with girls does not repulse me, even though I am not attracted to it in the slightest. I'm not sure what's 'repulsive' about two people having a kiss... :dontknow:

    People just have a different way of processing things.
    It might not be repulsive, it might be unusual or shocking but it is what it is.
    Me, I'd personally rather not see it.
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    (Original post by shawtyb)
    they dont know but i couldnt give two hoots if they dont however i know fully that my dad would as he too is bisexual and in an open relationship with a man and a women, both of which are happy with the whole thing and are friends with each other

    I find bisexuality to be quite interesting in a way.
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    (Original post by Blue_Mason)
    People just have a different way of processing things.
    It might not be repulsive, it might be unusual or shocking but it is what it is.
    Me, I'd personally rather not see it.
    Then, with all due respect, grow up.

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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    Then, with all due respect, grow up.

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    He just said he doesn't have an issue with gays though

    :rolleyes:
    Knew I smelled ********.

    Now put up a pic of two girls he'd whip his **** out right? Makes no sense.
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    There's a porn category for golden showers, midgets and grandpas as well, are they universally appealing? :rolleyes:

    I don't see your point.

    I am failing to view it from a different perspective, lmao thank God, because your perspective is rubbish. Especially that bold bit .

    Come on now, but maybe to some but I do tend to think of it being repulsive to the majority, as it is somewhat of a taboo sexual kink.
    Straight men can fantasize about a number of things.
    In media we have seen women being sexual towards each other, as it is mote acceptable.
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    (Original post by Blue_Mason)
    Come on now, but maybe to some but I do tend to think of it being repulsive to the majority, as it is somewhat of a taboo sexual kink.
    Straight men can fantasize about a number of things.
    In media we have seen women being sexual towards each other, as it is mote acceptable.
    No as you just said, you'd rather not see two men kiss. That's fine your choice but get it together because before that you said you've no problem with gays. But...you do. Yet...you don't...because you want to see women kiss. But then...you don't wanna see unattractive women kiss...you're just...
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    (Original post by Blue_Mason)
    Come on now, but maybe to some but I do tend to think of it being repulsive to the majority, as it is somewhat of a taboo sexual kink.
    Straight men can fantasize about a number of things.
    In media we have seen women being sexual towards each other, as it is mote acceptable.
    Simply because a lot of men sexualise women in anyway possible. Just because you've seen lesbianism as more acceptable doesn't mean gay love isn't.
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    Then, with all due respect, grow up.

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    I have grown up
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    So whichever one gets your penis personally hard is ok? Never mind developing a mature perspective and sticking to it. Just look at it from a hypocritical and perverted point of view.

    Right, I'm off for brekky. :yy:
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    He just said he doesn't have an issue with gays though

    :rolleyes:
    Knew I smelled ********.

    Now put up a pic of two girls he'd whip his **** out right? Makes no sense.
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    I have grown up
    Nah
 
 
 
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