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ive been with this number of boys- is that bad? watch

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    (Original post by IronicalMan)
    I'd want to know how many people a potential partner has had... especially in case of AIDS or some ****.
    Shame - the person doesn't have to tell you and I don't see how that will protect you from AIDs.
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    Shame - the person doesn't have to tell you and I don't see how that will protect you from AIDs.
    Common courtesy if you're going to have a relationship, I wouldn't have a relationship with a sloot, and I'm no ****boy so.
    More people slept with/kissed whatever= more likely to have disease.
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    (Original post by IronicalMan)
    Common courtesy if you're going to have a relationship, I wouldn't have a relationship with a sloot, and I'm no ****boy so.
    More people slept with/kissed whatever= more likely to have disease.
    Good for you - that's your personal standard, it doesn't need to br everybody elses.
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    Good for you - that's your personal standard, it doesn't need to br everybody elses.
    Then you shouldn't be a in relationship with each other, everyone wins.
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    (Original post by BabyLadDarren)
    Then you shouldn't be a in relationship with each other, everyone wins.
    Well done?
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    lol wowzers

    well just don't tell anyone
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    (Original post by L'absurde)
    Why so many BJs? :sexface:
    idk when i meet up with guys and stuff and we start making out they ask for sex and i say no (im not ready to lose it yet) so they ask for a bj
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    So, if someone just asks you for a blow-job, odds are more-or-less 50/50 of getting one.

    Do you have number I can contact you on?
    not really, i exageratted and said ive sucked off 10 guys but theyve been like past boyfriends and FWB minus sex
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    (Original post by heretohelp123)
    yoo u can give me head if you want
    no thankssss

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    How much?
    £1,000,000 cash

    jokes
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    no thankssss



    £1,000,000 cash

    jokes
    Come on you do it to others why not me
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    well ive only ever offered 1 boy oral the rest just ask. something like over 30 boys have asked me for one and thats not an exaggeration.
    So you had many boys at school (presumably since you are only 19) and asked for a bj, and you said yes to quite a lot of them?

    And just as a fyi, you can get oral herpes or other STDs from sucking **** without protection.
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    No. The irony at the men saying 'Yes' when they think it's appropriate to **** anything that moves.
    Why do you assume that all men think the same? :holmes:

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    ive slept with zero guys but ive sucked off like 13 different guys and kissed like over 20. is that bad. my age is 19
    It's not bad, no.
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    (Original post by heretohelp123)
    Come on you do it to others why not me
    Looooooool
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i dont tell partners about it, i just say like 2 or three
    That's messed up
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    (Original post by ivybridge)
    Shame - the person doesn't have to tell you and I don't see how that will protect you from AIDs.
    Interesting viewpoint regarding AIDS for someone who is homosexual.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    ive slept with zero guys but ive sucked off like 13 different guys and kissed like over 20. is that bad. my age is 19
    You are at risk of contracting and spreading:

    herpes,
    gonorrhoea
    syphilis

    and also:

    chlamydia
    hepatitis a, b and c
    warts

    More to the point though: why do you feel the need to suck guy's off when you hardly know them and then move on to the next? What is it about your personality that has difficulty refusing?

    Self esteem comes from your own strength of character and cannot be bought through acts of sexual gratification.

    That path will only erode your self esteem and can easily descend into depression, self harm or worse.
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    (Original post by uberteknik)
    Self esteem comes from your own strength of character and cannot be bought through acts of sexual gratification.

    That path will only erode your self esteem and can easily descend into depression, self harm or worse.
    sadly it already has
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    I'm going to be the Devil's advocate here and say yes, what you've done is bad. It's not the number which i find bad more the fact that these interactions have happened with guys who have used you, you've regretted, yet continued doing so. You've let yourself be used and treated like dirt, not once, but a significant number of guys.

    As someone who has an incredible amount of self respect and would want the same in a woman, yes i find it bad sorry. I say this as a guy, and a lot of men won't admit, but if we're actually going to get serious and settle with a girl then sexual history is going to come into play.

    Just to put it out there, I think guys should live by the standards they have for women, and I do. If a guy had done the same thing i'd consider him equally as trashy.

    There are girls at my Uni who've admitted to bedding more than fourty guys in a year. If you don't think this kind of girl has a problem then I worry for you.
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    This thread makes me angry as a girl. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. You're still a virgin for christ sake, how anyone has the cheek to say thats wrong is beyond me.
    If a guy was saying this i can bet my life responses would be different.
    Seriously 'slutshaming' has to stop.

    Do you girl. Do you
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    I wouldn't say it was bad if you enjoyed it and didn't feel bad after, however you do, so I would advise to find someone who cares about you before giving them oral.
    Did any of the guys go down on you too? I'd at least want something in return 😃
 
 
 
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