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    (Original post by Zargabaath)
    wow you're such a speshul snowflake, gj
    so i googled special snowflake and SSS came up
    so you think I think I am more special than others?
    i'm sorry that your too weak to just be happy on your own and you have to rely on a man to be happy because you live off affection and s£x
    unfortunately, there are some people in life who don't want this and it doesn't make them special you fat cow we just care about other things and no stupid weak subjects like love, marriage and s £ x
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Wear what you want to wear.
    exactly, if ppl in relationships cant adapt to each other over small things then whats the point :lol:
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    If you would feel uncomfortable in a bikini - don't wear one! He should be completely understanding of that and if he's not, that's not good.. Wear what YOU want to wear and what you feel good in!!
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    (Original post by samantham999)
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    Odd. It doesn't sound like it.
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    (Original post by samantham999)
    so i googled special snowflake and SSS came up
    so you think I think I am more special than others?
    i'm sorry that your too weak to just be happy on your own and you have to rely on a man to be happy because you live off affection and s£x
    unfortunately, there are some people in life who don't want this and it doesn't make them special you fat cow we just care about other things and no stupid weak subjects like love, marriage and s £ x
    Please cool it with the insults.

    There's nothing wrong with being a sub.
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    (Original post by samantham999)
    Phase? please
    could you answer why people get into relationships? I mean its clearly for the S£X how boring, dont you think
    There's no filter on the word "sex".

    I don't know about you, but I get into a relationship if I really like someone and want to develop a deeper love with them. Sex is just a tool to deepen that connection.
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    (Original post by AlexFam)
    There's no filter on the word "sex".

    I don't know about you, but I get into a relationship if I really like someone and want to develop a deeper love with them. Sex is just a tool to deepen that connection.
    do you believe in sex before marriage?
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    (Original post by samantham999)
    do you believe in sex before marriage?
    I don't "believe" in sex before marriage. I don't think sex is something sacred that needs to be worshipped, as it is in waiting for marriage. If I really like someone, I'll have sex with them. Only if there's a mutual attraction and I plan on moving forward into a relationship, or am in a relationship with them (not applicable to guys: I only have a sexual attraction to some guys, no romantic attraction whatsoever).

    I also don't treat relationships as temporary things that will come and go. I want it to last.
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    (Original post by AlexFam)
    I don't "believe" in sex before marriage. I don't think sex is something sacred that needs to be worshipped, as it is in waiting for marriage. If I really like someone, I'll have sex with them. Only if there's a mutual attraction and I plan on moving forward into a relationship, or am in a relationship with them (not applicable to guys: I only have a sexual attraction to some guys, no romantic attraction whatsoever).

    I also don't treat relationships as temporary things that will come and go. I want it to last.
    cool, a lot of people believe in it because the Abrahamic religions continuously emphasise that sex before marriage is one of the major sins

    if your girlfriend wanted to remain celibate would you still be with her? seeing as you said sex is merely a deeper tool to strengthen the relationship
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    OP sounds like a conservative Christian to me.
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    (Original post by samantham999)
    cool, a lot of people believe in it because the Abrahamic religions continuously emphasise that sex before marriage is one of the major sins
    I'm aware. That stems from an evolutionary desire for partners without children, as caring for children that aren't related to you is a waste of energy from an evolutionary standing. Sex is meant for children, so virgins were held in high esteem as they had no children.

    EDIT: didn't see the edit.
    (Original post by samantham999)
    if your girlfriend wanted to remain celibate would you still be with her? seeing as you said sex is merely a deeper tool to strengthen the relationship
    It depends on how much I already like her. By celibate, do you mean just no sex or no sexual anything? I'd probably not be able to go without sexual contact because I don't masturbate or watch porn, so I'll end up getting incredibly frustrated. I can do without vaginal intercourse for a few years of a relationship until marriage.
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    (Original post by AlexFam)
    I'm aware. That stems from an evolutionary desire for partners without children, as caring for children that aren't related to you is a waste of energy from an evolutionary standing. Sex is meant for children, so virgins were held in high esteem as they had no children.

    if your girlfriend wanted to remain celibate would you still be with her? seeing as you said sex is merely a deeper tool to strengthen the relationship

    being a virgin doesn't mean you have some honour, thats bull. Yes, you're innocent in the way that you do not know what if feels like/experienced

    all this honour crap with virgins is so stupid
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    Maybe something like this would be a good compromise I guess?
    https://www.victoriassecret.com/clea...gin=pRecommend

    Wear what you want though, don't feel pressured
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    (Original post by AlexFam)
    I'm aware. That stems from an evolutionary desire for partners without children, as caring for children that aren't related to you is a waste of energy from an evolutionary standing. Sex is meant for children, so virgins were held in high esteem as they had no children.

    EDIT: didn't see the edit.


    It depends on how much I already like her. By celibate, do you mean just no sex or no sexual anything? I'd probably not be able to go without sexual contact because I don't masturbate or watch porn, so I'll end up getting incredibly frustrated. I can do without vaginal intercourse for a few years of a relationship until marriage.
    no type or sexual intercourse I mean
    you can kiss her/hug her
    but if she remains to be celibate by never having sex
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    (Original post by samantham999)
    being a virgin doesn't mean you have some honour, thats bull. Yes, you're innocent in the way that you do not know what if feels like/experienced

    all this honour crap with virgins is so stupid
    I answered the first part in an edit.

    I agree with this. I was speaking from an evolutionary perspective. It does feel special having someone that's never loved another man fall in love with you, and you fall in love with her, though.
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    (Original post by samantham999)
    no type or sexual intercourse I mean
    you can kiss her/hug her
    but if she remains to be celibate by never having sex
    What about oral? Mutual masturbation? I don't know if I could go for a few years without making my girl feel pleasure like that.
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    Why not a Burkini?
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    (Original post by AlexFam)
    What about oral? Mutual masturbation? I don't know if I could go for a few years without making my girl feel pleasure like that.
    Nothing to do with the private parts. Only kissing/hugging
    could you do it?
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    (Original post by samantham999)
    Nothing to do with the private parts. Only kissing/hugging
    could you do it?
    I've read all your posts on this thread.
    Gender studies degree ?
    Sociology ?
    What is it you're doing/have done.
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    (Original post by IronicalMan)
    I've read all your posts on this thread.
    Gender studies degree ?
    Sociology ?
    What is it you're doing/have done.
    Loooooooooooooooool, i'm hoping to do computer science/economics

    i hate sociology majors, the subject is useless and i hate the traditional family part so dumb
 
 
 
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