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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I like your style. We should team up and buy four!

    Sorry man, but you don't even have the balls to post in this forum of trolls/*********/timewasters with your real nick (not saying your real name eh, I'm talking about a stupid nick) and you think you have what it takes to go with whores?
    And 4 of them, yes.
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    Sorry man, but you don't even have the balls to post in this forum of trolls/*********/timewasters with your real nick (not saying your real name eh, I'm talking about a stupid nick) and you think you have what it takes to go with whores?
    And 4 of them, yes.
    wow arguing with strangers on the internet hiding behind your computer. Your one hard nut aren't you?
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    (Original post by icn06)
    It's different because it signifies a level of desperation that isn't attractive...

    LOL yes I expect them to be honest with me and I would hope anyone who wants a serious relationship would be open about their past. I really didn't think girls or guys would lie to someone when they truly care about them?
    Okay ,I lost my virginity to a much older girl at 14 who I didn't even find attractive, I just did her to impress my mates. I didn't really know any girls at that age ,so she was my only option because girls ignored me totally at that age . If you find out your boyfriend lost his virginity as I did would you consider me more or less desperate than a guy who chose from a website of lovelies and paid to lose his virginity?

    As for your second point , I seriously doubt Iam the stud in bed all my ex's made me out to be ... Fact is a massive amount of men of all ages have been with an escort at some point. That means it more than likely a male member of your family has. Now if your boyfriend was seeing escorts while in a relationship with you, I could see your point. But really men are a little different to women in how we see sex, I think you should try to be a little less judgemental.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    wow arguing with strangers on the internet hiding behind your computer. Your one hard nut aren't you?
    No, no, I didn't mean to offend/attack/insult you.

    I was just thinking at the oddity of doing something IRL that you're so ashamed of that you can't even tell it to strangers from "behind your computer".
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    Okay ,I lost my virginity to a much older girl at 14 who I didn't even find attractive, I just did her to impress my mates. I didn't really know any girls at that age ,so she was my only option because girls ignored me totally at that age . If you find out your boyfriend lost his virginity as I did would you consider me more or less desperate than a guy who chose from a website of lovelies and paid to lose his virginity?

    As for your second point , I seriously doubt Iam the stud in bed all my ex's made me out to be ... Fact is a massive amount of men of all ages have been with an escort at some point. That means it more than likely a male member of your family has. Now if your boyfriend was seeing escorts while in a relationship with you, I could see your point. But really men are a little different to women in how we see sex, I think you should try to be a little less judgemental.
    You were only 14, I would not treat that in the same way as MAN purchasing a woman for pleasure. I would be a lot more understanding of your situation.

    Well I like dating guys who don't use prostitutes. I also like them to be ambitious, attentive, and funny. This isn't about judging, just attraction.
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    (Original post by icn06)
    Lol I don't know about "analysing" but to be able to give a general description of who they are yeah!

    Maybe I'm not making it clear enough that I don't just jump into bed with people I don't know? No one should...
    Sure - I'm not challenging that. I'm saying that it's not easy to know EVERYTHING about someone before "jumping into bed" with him. I may be wrong but some girls find talking about your ex-girlfriends, a "turn-off". Although my experience is rather limited so maybe you're right.
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    (Original post by SunOfABeach)
    Sure - I'm not challenging that. I'm saying that it's not easy to know EVERYTHING about someone before "jumping into bed" with him. I may be wrong but some girls find talking about your ex-girlfriends, a "turn-off". Although my experience is rather limited so maybe you're right.
    Maybe I'm nosy, or maybe it's the psychologist in me but I ask a lot of questions and like to know a persons life story when I date them. It's a good way of learning how they tick.
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    This is something you shouldn't consider until you're a 26-year old virgin going on 27.
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    (Original post by ukmaxi)
    Listen to this woman.... Great advice!
    Wow, someone agrees. Where do I meet men like you!
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    (Original post by Lolafifi)
    Wow, someone agrees. Where do I meet men like you!
    Well Hopefully where I am . I here you and understand anyway...
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    Plenty of pretty boys who are virgins at uni. What ever made you think this was not so? Wait until the pretty girl from the English-with-German-Literature-studies course gets your guard down.


    But if you have self esteem issues, really, could you really just walk up to a prostitute and give her a go?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Well im at uni and im a virgin. Im definitely above average in attractiveness, ive had lots of girls signal interest. But I have a self esteem issue regarding close relationships, I find it difficult to initiate them the last time I had a girlfriend and did anything sexual was when I was 14. I feel like I am unable to have a girlfriend now. Im missing out and im willing to go to extreme lengths. I think doing it will make me feel better. Should I do it?
    Exactly like me, except I'm not above average attractiveness. I wouldn't do it because I couldn't afford a prostitute!
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    (Original post by ukmaxi)
    Well Hopefully where I am . I here you and understand anyway...
    Aww. Hearing from nice people online is weird to me because I'm convinced they don't exist in real life! (Not anyone I've met anyway...) you're going to make someone very happy. I know this might sound weird actually, but I just have to say it!
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    (Original post by icn06)
    Maybe I'm nosy, or maybe it's the psychologist in me but I ask a lot of questions and like to know a persons life story when I date them.
    When I saw you were american I seriously laughed my arse off.
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    (Original post by Frieza)
    When I saw you were american I seriously laughed my arse off.
    Why:confused:
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    (Original post by Lolafifi)
    Aww. Hearing from nice people online is weird to me because I'm convinced they don't exist in real life! (Not anyone I've met anyway...) you're going to make someone very happy. I know this might sound weird actually, but I just have to say it!
    You look really interesting to talk to, just one question:
    Judging from your posts you seem to think everybody around you has onenightstands, or at least everybody that would do it, can succeed with ease. Perhaps this becomes from the fact that you're a girl, and therefore for you it's a lot easier to find ****-buddies (not so much so for relationships though)... but I believe that people actually have sex a lot less than what they make it out to be.
    Considering girls in uni, I'd reckon that at least half of them are virgin at your age, or maybe even more than that. And that by 25 most of them will be either still virgin or will have had just one partner (in years-long relationships).
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    18 year old female virgin, considering becoming a prostitute? :shifty:
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    (Original post by icn06)
    Why:confused:
    Because all of the americans I've met have these characteristics in common:

    - they overwhelm you with questions
    - they think they are shrinks that can deduct your inner person judging by the way/tone of voice you answer a trivial question
    - are very talkative even if they don't know what the **** they're talking about (I'm not referring to you with this last one)
    - they never listen exept for applying point 2


    My stereotype is based on few people, I have to admit. So I'm collecting new data.



    Back to the discussion, I have one question for you:
    don't you think you could understand a lot more about a person by simple looking at him in the eyes, or on e.g. how he moves his hands?
    Instead of riddling him with questions that can be answered as he feels like?
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    (Original post by Frieza)
    You look really interesting to talk to, just one question:
    Judging from your posts you seem to think everybody around you has onenightstands, or at least everybody that would do it, can succeed with ease. Perhaps this becomes from the fact that you're a girl, and therefore for you it's a lot easier to find ****-buddies (not so much so for relationships though)... but I believe that people actually have sex a lot less than what they make it out to be.
    Considering girls in uni, I'd reckon that at least half of them are virgin at your age, or maybe even more than that. And that by 25 most of them will be either still virgin or will have had just one partner (in years-long relationships).
    A lot of people I knew back at college that have gone to uni are like me. It's just MY uni in particular that makes me wonder how naive I've been (I didn't even think about it until I started, which is sad really, I shouldn't actually care)... So, I do agree with what you are saying. And you seem interesting to talk to in the same respect.
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