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    This is exactly why trust should be earned and not given by default.

    OP didn't trust her BF, she snooped on him, lo and behold, she was right not to trust him.


    Everyone giving the OP a hard time on this needs to STFU and get a grip - the onus is on one to be faithful to their partner, because trust means **** all.
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    Well you shouldn't be reading his email, what did you expect to find ?

    You need to have a long talk to him about the photos.
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    Post the photos here by way of revenge?
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    (Original post by Emmak7)
    Ok, I admit maybe I shouldn't have hacked his hotmail and facebook but his hotmail is FULL of pictures of different girls (whom he knows).

    He's still kept naked pics of his ex and tons of other girls whom I don't know at all. (the worst thing is that many of these are women over 30...he's 25).

    What annoys me more is RECENT pictures of online "friends" of his! I also found a comment on fb where he said that he's said a naked picture of himself to a girl and that was when we were going out

    I feel so hurt, I don't know what to do!!

    How should I tell him? I feel so mad and hurt
    how long have u guys been dating?
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    Ignore the people saying it serves you right for snooping. First of all, he still would have had the pictures whether you snooped or not, secondly, I think what he did is slightly worse don't you? The people saying you deserve it and somehow thinking it justifies his actions, and failing to acknowledge that what he did was wrong are probably going to have very ****ed up love lives.

    My advice: dump him. If he's willing to have pictures of girls he knows personally then what's to say he won't want more from them. Dump his arse now.
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    (Original post by ToastyCoke)
    You did wrong by "hacking" his accounts, but it's dwarfed in comparison to what he's doing. Confront him? Otherwise sure it'll eat away at you.
    What's wrong about having pictures of naked girls in an email account. Am i missing something here, is this against the law. Plenty of my friends with GF's have king sized posters on their walls of girls who are practically naked. The only crime here is hacking somebody's private email inbox.
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    (Original post by Mann18)
    Yeah, I mean, it's not a path that's taken frequently for that very reason.

    Gloves come to mind however, or his favourite shirt/socks ect.
    Yeah I like the idea of using his favourite shirt haha
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    SmartLAD.
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    Inbox full of naked pictures of girls he knows

    http://media.ign.com/games/image/art...1200684608.jpg

    Inbox full of girls over 30

    http://media.ign.com/games/image/art...1200684654.jpg
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    I cant believe the first post. What a nob he is.
    You did nothing wrong. U should confront him about it.
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    I have naked pics and girls from TSR and Facebook on my computer.
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    (Original post by ToastyCoke)
    You did wrong by "hacking" his accounts, but it's dwarfed in comparison to what he's doing. Confront him? Otherwise sure it'll eat away at you.
    What did he do that's wrong? Have his email account hacked?
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    (Original post by headphones)
    What did he do that's wrong? Have his email account hacked?
    He collected naked pictures of girls and still has "friends" sending him online pictures. He also sent naked pictures of himself while he was going out with me.
    is that not enough for you?
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    (Original post by Emmak7)
    He collected naked pictures of girls and still has "friends" sending him online pictures. He also sent naked pictures of himself while he was going out with me.
    is that not enough for you?
    Is he sleeping with them? If not then I don't see what the problem is.
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    You were wrong to hack into his email, but he's done even more wrong by what he did. He sounds like a hypocrite too, getting jealous over you while getting off from girls he knows! I'd dump him, the relationship obviously isn't fulfilling for either of you.
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    (Original post by headphones)
    Is he sleeping with them? If not then I don't see what the problem is.
    Are you stupid? the problem is that if you're going out with someone you don't jerk off to other girls you know, and ask them to send you naked pictures of themselves, because your girlfriend should be the only one you want to look at. It's different when men look at porn or magazines, these women are unattainable and not "real" to these men, but the women this guy is looking at ARE real, therefore it begs the question why he's in the relationship if he is not being fulfilled by the girlfriend. Was that so hard to understand?
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    (Original post by Emmak7)
    I want to talk to him and work this out, because I really do love him and don't want to leave him. But will I be able to trust him again???
    Will he be able to trust you?
    Also, LAD
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    (Original post by Emmak7)
    Ok, I admit maybe I shouldn't have hacked his hotmail and facebook but his hotmail is FULL of pictures of different girls (whom he knows).

    He's still kept naked pics of his ex and tons of other girls whom I don't know at all. (the worst thing is that many of these are women over 30...he's 25).

    What annoys me more is RECENT pictures of online "friends" of his! I also found a comment on fb where he said that he's said a naked picture of himself to a girl and that was when we were going out

    I feel so hurt, I don't know what to do!!

    How should I tell him? I feel so mad and hurt

    You've both betrayed each other's trust. You trusted him to just be your boyfriend and not flirt and most of all send naked photos to other girls! But he also trusts you not to go through his personal things!
    It's understandable that you wanted to know what he was doing because you have doubts in the back of your mind about it, but you should have just asked him. Now you know what he's been doing you can't question him about it because he'll know you've been looking through his messages whether facebook or hotmail. Maybe bring it up in conversation but politely and don't make it sound as though you're accusing him of anything because then he'll have thoughts that you know already. If he denies it then occassionally bring up the same subject and see what he says. If it bugs you that much about trusting him still maybe you shouldn't be with him. He's broke your trust, can you really stay with him after everything that you know?
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    Ok so you hacked his hotmail, whatever.
    He has pics of naked women that he knows (the key point being they're girls he knows) all over his hotmail and it seems he's sent naked pics to girls. This is wrong! So you need to discuss it with him
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    Just go on Jeremy Kyle... everyone else does
 
 
 
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