Are guys serous when they say they prefer slim girls to big girls?

Oh, I didn't mean like that at all. Like I said, I have nothing against big girls. In fact, I find some of them quite beautiful. I just find it strange when I hear so many people in society say that slim is seen as more desirable than big, yet I am seeing quite the opposite from my own experiences. It was a niggling thought that I just had to get out there.

And in all honesty, like you, I am quite shy and quiet myself, and that seems to do nothing in attracting guys . You must be just luckier that me. Thank you for your post