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Go for it definitely. Some escorts are really lovely people and good at dealing with first timers and the nervous. You might well have a better experience than fumbling around with someone you know!
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Yea, it was about time for this one.
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Just thinking, if I do go ahead with it, should I tell her that I'm not very experienced, or keep it to myself?

I can probably fake confidence quite well if I have a drink or two before I go.
surely then you can fake confidence with any girl after a drink or two. I don't know but reading over i don't think paying is going to fix anything but virginity in itself, but who knows?
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Hey man, good luck with the prossie. Give her arse a slap from me an' all.
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Is there any moral difference in paying for it, as opposed to getting drunk and taking a random girl home from a club?

Discuss.
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Don't do it.
Honestly, wait. Save it for someone special. You really don't want to remember your first time being with an escort.
Try to focus more of your attention on meeting girls.


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dont do it!
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No shame in paying for sex Do it if you feel like it, might even help you socialize better, practice your talking on these girls, even if they don't care. Just don't catch any diseases.
I don't know, I find losing your virginity to a prostitute sadder than being a virgin at 23.


And being a virgin at 23 isn't even that bad, my sister's just met a 22 year old from a dating sate and I think he was a virgin...I don't see anything wrong with it at all, he's decent looking, nice personality and is heading for a good career.
Virginity is low on the scale of importance when it comes to the opposite sex.
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Well guys, I've decided to give it a go and I made a booking request today. Now I just have to wait and see if she responds and is available
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Well guys, I've decided to give it a go and I made a booking request today. Now I just have to wait and see if she responds and is available
I cant believe you actually did it... How much does it cost? Make sure you tell us how it goes.

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Paying for sex doesn't really fall within my moral sort of.... bubble? I'm not sure what to call it. I just don't agree with it. However I can see it's a grey area and with two consenting adults completely up to the individuals involved I guess.

I would ask you though if you really want your first time to be with an escort and not somebody you care about. However it's totally up to you I guess, I can see why you're in a dilemma
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3 options:

1. There's a girl who has recently posted a threat about being a 23 year old virgin. All I'm saying is....

2. Do it. Who cares what we think? We don't know who you are and our moral stance shouldn't affect yours. If you have the money, feel you can do it without regretting it AND feel it will make a big difference in your life, then why not? Sure some guys/girls here can whinge about how it's sad and pathetic, but escorts wouldn't be in business if people didn't pay them, so whether guys admit it or not, millions of them are at it.

3. Improve your self esteem in another way. It's a vicious cycle - you're not getting laid cause you don't have self esteem and your lack of self esteem is probably preventing you from getting laid. When you meet the right girl it won't matter you're a virgin. Say you're with a girl for a year, and you have sex..I don't know, roughly 80 times in that year - you're only a virgin for one of those sessions.

Virginity is quickly lost but the regret of how you do it might linger for life. You know yourself better than we can ever hope to - don't rush into anything and take a deep breath - nobody but you cares that your penis hasn't been in a vagina.
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Lol. Sex won't solve your insecurity.
Looooool. That sounds so mean


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I don't know, I find losing your virginity to a prostitute sadder than being a virgin at 23.


And being a virgin at 23 isn't even that bad, my sister's just met a 22 year old from a dating sate and I think he was a virgin...I don't see anything wrong with it at all, he's decent looking, nice personality and is heading for a good career.
Virginity is low on the scale of importance when it comes to the opposite sex.
I didn't say it was bad to be a virgin at 23. My brother was 25 when he lost his. I'm just saying, there's no need to feel ashamed because you're going to a prostitute. And if virginity isn't so important, then why should it be sad to go to a prostitute to lose it ?
It's only sex after all
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Update: The girl that I originally tried to book wasn't available on the day I wanted, she said I could re-book for another time but it wasn't convenient for me so I left it.

I did find another girl that I have considered booking, but tbh I think I am going to chicken out for now. I just think the whole experience would be awkward. I have this horrible nervous feeling about the whole thing.

I may re-visit the idea in the near future though, especially if I haven't lost it by my 24th birthday in the summer.
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man, your indecisiveness is a bigger issue than your virginity:-)))
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me thinks your not gona get anywhere with that attitude.
just saying sometimes i feel really nervous about something and i'm ****ting my pants with butterflies and everything but i still do it because i cant be arsed regretting it later. if you want to do it,do it.
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(Original post by RollingDylan)
I didn't say it was bad to be a virgin at 23. My brother was 25 when he lost his. I'm just saying, there's no need to feel ashamed because you're going to a prostitute. And if virginity isn't so important, then why should it be sad to go to a prostitute to lose it ?
It's only sex after all
I just wouldn't have much respect for a man who lost his virginity to a prostitute...it shows lack of self value and worth.

And there's something so low about ****ing someone who is so down on life that they sell themselves for money, just seems off putting.

I'm no prude, I don't care if people sleep around but I'd be so put off by that. It's not a good indicator of a persons character.
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I feel like through some of these comments I've read that people have forgotten that whilst she is an escort- she is still a woman. So for a "slap her on the arse" comment about her- it's disgusting. Not all escorts have STDs and not all escorts are trashy. They are people with feelings too, guys

I think the OP made the right decision in the end. Sex with feelings is so much better than without.
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And there's something so low about ****ing someone who is so down on life that they sell themselves for money, just seems off putting.
Some of these girls make £1000/week. I wouldn't call that 'down on life'.
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