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    animal nature, the one who rules he kingdom is the super alpha confident lion who females can feel safe with and feel secure with, because thats one of the key things women want right? security. she aint gonna go with no nice guy beta who she has to mother all the time
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    (Original post by lou 22)
    Ireland really is a unique place .
    feck yeh yeh brummie!
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    (Original post by Jean Luc Picard)
    Ask for her number, it would be a good first step!
    I don't know how I would lead into a convo like that, I need to think about how I would do that
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    (Original post by Multitalented me)
    Well then they are not quite nice guys, actual nice guys are nice because it's what a decent human being should be like not because they have an ulterior motive, yes be nice to girls you're trying to pursue but just don't be so expectant even if you have made an effort (some guys fall into this trap) & then they complain when they just have to take it on the chin if they get rejected, evaluate themselves & see what they can improve

    EDIT: At least you are self-aware
    yep that pretty much sums it up, which is why I always put "nice guys" in quotation marks.

    And only self aware in hindsight I am afraid, if only I knew then what I knew now
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    (Original post by marco14196)
    I don't know how I would lead into a convo like that, I need to think about how I would do that
    The best thing to do is just start talking to her again and then ask her when it feels right!

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    (Original post by Jean Luc Picard)
    The best thing to do is just start talking to her again and then ask her when it feels right!

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    I just worry I might bugger things up, I asked out 4 months ago and I don't know what'll happen if I try again. It's a sort of innate fear I have
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    (Original post by lucaf)
    yep that pretty much sums it up, which is why I always put "nice guys" in quotation marks.

    And only self aware in hindsight I am afraid, if only I knew then what I knew now
    Well you can't change the past so it's better not to dwell At least you can admit to your shortcomings, so hopefully with your altered mindset you can look forward to the future with renewed vigor & enthusiasm :cool:
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    (Original post by marco14196)
    I just worry I might bugger things up, I asked out 4 months ago and I don't know what'll happen if I try again. It's a sort of innate fear I have
    I know the feeling well! Just build up to it slowly and take it from there! There's no need to rush, go at your pace for now until you know more!

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    (Original post by Multitalented me)
    Well you can't change the past so it's better not to dwell At least you can admit to your shortcomings, so hopefully with your altered mindset you can look forward to the future with renewed vigor & enthusiasm :cool:
    past shortcomings, now I am obviously perfect
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    (Original post by Jean Luc Picard)
    I know the feeling well! Just build up to it slowly and take it from there! There's no need to rush, go at your pace for now until you know more!

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    I don't know how to lead in though, I feel nervy. She's just come online at the moment but arghh, what the hells wrong with me
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    feck yeh yeh brummie!
    feck you too punk .
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    (Original post by lou 22)
    feck you too punk .
    you wana fight grow a pair and add me on skype "punk"

    eejit
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    you wana fight grow a pair and add me on skype "punk"

    eejit
    I don’t want to be a lady gaga and have to have a box to cover my balls. Plus punk I blocked you so it would be easy to unblock you but you are a fecking eejit so will leave you blocked . #yougottold
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    (Original post by lou 22)
    I don’t want to be a lady gaga and have to have a box to cover my balls. Plus punk I blocked you so it would be easy to unblock you but you are a fecking eejit so will leave you blocked . #yougottold
    blocked me so it would be easy to unblock me..that makes zero...

    haha grand love ..old age kicking so im off the list.anyone 14 and younger queue up.this gal likes them fresh.
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    blocked me so it would be easy to unblock me..that makes zero...

    haha grand love ..old age kicking so im off the list.anyone 14 and younger queue up.this gal likes them fresh.

    No, not unblocking you .

    You like them just legal I like them aged around 25 , I like men not boys, so it’s it way past your bed time little un?
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    (Original post by wellholathere)
    Because sometimes these nice guys come off as too nice and seem a bit feminine. Girls want a guy, not another girl. Plus with nice guys, they're usually a lot more sensitive than other guys which is just annoying for the girl because well, we're the girl. Man up.
    Saying that, i'm sure there are loads of nice guys that aren't overly emotional, cringe and feminine too...I just haven't met one:rolleyes:

    I'm just generalizing here.
    "Man up"? How about you **** off and don't assume that every bloke has to conform to an outdated gender role of not being emotional or sensitive.
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    (Original post by lou 22)
    No, not unblocking you .

    You like them just legal I like them aged around 25 , I like men not boys, so it’s it way past your bed time little un?
    haha thats what you were saying hahah

    being 19 nothing wrong with just legal...and even that is debatable for moi.
    classic joke there..so old talk

    25..so call me a pensioner than say im too young this is gas stuff

    praise the lord indeed
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    haha thats what you were saying hahah

    being 19 nothing wrong with just legal...and even that is debatable for moi.
    classic joke there..so old talk

    25..so call me a pensioner than say im too young this is gas stuff

    praise the lord indeed

    I fell asleep at the word ‘That’ damn you bore me .
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    Thats
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    (Original post by lou 22)
    I fell asleep at the word ‘That’ damn you bore me .
    the sad thing is..its the most action shes had in two years..

    anyways lou lou...have a nice week.

    im sure youll be desperately trying to pm me any chance you get

    Il reply when I can

    take it easy old wan
 
 
 
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