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Yeah suppose that is a nightmare and yeah it is very offputting. But sometimes the quiet life is better!

I usually play FPS. Those are the only games I really ever see on Xbox.. PS has a wider variety of games to me
I'd prefer a perfect mix between the two; kinda "active but low key"

Yeah the PS exclusives are wider in variety. I was so close to buying an Xbox One too, just for Forza but went for the PS. It's only just beginning to become worthwhile
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1.Im a hypochondriac
2.My GF is pregnant with our second child
3. I hate my minimum wage job.
4. I dont have a drivers licence
5. Not very smart academically
6. Trying to break into IT but cant get to grips with my studies etc.
7. Going bald
8. Sleep pattern ****edup



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- Depression
- Struggling academically
- Sleeping pattern
- Social awkwardness
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Dunno, im hungry right now. Lets eat pizza sunday morning.


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my parents have been pressuring me to go into medicine my whole life, at the moment I'm only realising I'm not as smart as people have always thought i am. i doubt ill be able to do medicine and i don't think i really want to, i think i want to be a zoologist but I'm not sure how i tell me parents because i can already feel the eternal disappointment they will feel for me if i decide i don't want to do what they want
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1. ****ed up sleeping pattern
2. Lots of friends not enough friendship groups i spread myself too thinly
3. preoccupied with social life even though it's decent and social status
4. i think looks are the most important thing in the world and i'm not amazingly blessed in the looks department
5. I'm smart but i procrastinate so much and can't be bothered with life
6. The counsellor keeps telling me i'm normal and i don't want to be
7. My relationship isn't enough like a relationship
8. My life overall is fine and many would be happy to be me because i'm in a great position but i'm extremely unappreciative and look for faults in any way i can in order to be miserable and claim i had a hard life. I dwell on the one traumatic experience in my childhood
9. I'm too hard on myself, that traumatic experience was pretty darn life changing and traumatic
10. I make no sense.
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1) I'm tired of being socially awkward
2) depression anxiety / mental health stuff is worsening
3) I like someone who is gay (so not attracted to me)
4) I am getting tired of being the one giving advice and helping all my friends and having no time for myself
5) because of my operation coming up I have to pause my driving lessons AGAIN
6) I have 0 money in my account
7) I won't be able to eat or drink for the next 2 months
8) I'm tired of being scared of all kinds of pain and having so many phobias etc
9) I'm hate the constant butterflies in my stomach
10) my dad literally doesn't care about me

Good things? I'm academically ok, going to study law at bristol/Warwick in October
Lol I think I'm done for now ish..


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(Original post by Crystalz)
1. ****ed up sleeping pattern
2. Lots of friends not enough friendship groups i spread myself too thinly
3. preoccupied with social life even though it's decent and social status
4. i think looks are the most important thing in the world and i'm not amazingly blessed in the looks department
5. I'm smart but i procrastinate so much and can't be bothered with life
6. The counsellor keeps telling me i'm normal and i don't want to be
7. My relationship isn't enough like a relationship
8. My life overall is fine and many would be happy to be me because i'm in a great position but i'm extremely unappreciative and look for faults in any way i can in order to be miserable and claim i had a hard life. I dwell on the one traumatic experience in my childhood
9. I'm too hard on myself, that traumatic experience was pretty darn life changing and traumatic
10. I make no sense.

4,5,6, and 7 are me to the T. Wow I thought I was alone. By the way I'm procrastinating now and I should be doing coursework which is late as it is, got amazing grades in gcse but now for A level I just can't be bothered. Oh and I also have a messed up sleeping pattern.
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(Original post by LauraMayden1)
4,5,6, and 7 are me to the T. Wow I thought I was alone. By the way I'm procrastinating now and I should be doing coursework which is late as it is, got amazing grades in gcse but now for A level I just can't be bothered. Oh and I also have a messed up sleeping pattern.
Same, GCSE went well with no effort but whatever, need to resubmit my coursework to get an A* but i can't be bothered, i just lie in my bed like can i die now please, thanks God or whatever is up there.
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(Original post by T.I.P)
1.Im a hypochondriac
2.My GF is pregnant with our second child
3. I hate my minimum wage job.
4. I dont have a drivers licence
5. Not very smart academically
6. Trying to break into IT but cant get to grips with my studies etc.
7. Going bald
8. Sleep pattern ****edup



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Why are 2., 7. and 8. major problems?
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Maid Marian
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Excellent thread:teeth:


My essay NEEDS to be done today but instead I have been sitting around making Easter craft things and daydreaming. It's depressing because my essays aren't remotely hard, I just can't find the will to make myself get typing!

There are SO many pricey dresses and shoes and jewellery I want, and I do have the money to pay for them, but I find it very difficult to part with my money. :erm:

My sister is suffering her depression particularly bad at the moment I think, and it's making my mum and dad really stressed. So I'm trying to keep my mouth shut to my mum about the bad things I'm feeling so I don't overload her with worries. At least I have a path to follow at the moment, more or less, whereas my sister's path is fairly difficult.

Shop friend is apparently not arsed about being my friend anymore. We fell out of touch because we were both so busy with our jobs and he's lost interest in that time. :sad: He was the one person I could tell almost ANYTHING to, I NEED his friendship and it makes me feel crappy

I am struggling with behaviour management at school a tad, there are a couple of really awful boys in my class who I struggle to deal with. HOW can I get that sort of authority that they will respect not to mess around with? I can shout at them all I like but that's not the way I want it to be. I can deal out the punishments but... I shouldn't NEED to, I need to have the authority that the teachers have.

Furthermore with regards to school, I feel like I've turned into a rather nasty teacher in order to deal with the responsibilities. :/ Before, I always had time to listen to every pupil and I was always kind and never shouted, whereas now, because I have more to get done and more responsibilities, I've had to become more shouty and abrupt with the children to deal with it all. SIGH.

I desperately want to see the new Cinderella film but have no one to see it with.

Likewise, I REALLY need to visit University open days but I have no one to go with, I refuse to go with my mum like I did to my last open day because I HATED it. My only option is to go alone but ... I don't want to.

Finally, less specifically, just general feelings of inadequacy and depression and loneliness. I'm constantly thinking how much better the world would be if I didn't exist and how hardly anyone would miss or even notice I was gone if something did happen to me.
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That all I want to do is throw up again. Urgh. Bloody fed up now.
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I think we need a counter post about what happy stuff we have in our lives. Anyway...

1) Socially inept, never know what to say to keep a conversation going
2) I'm not very confident and overly harsh on myself
3) I feel like things don't make me as happy as they used to. Used to adore playing games, but they don't entertain me the way they used to
4) Not sure what career to focus on. Also I currently don't have a job
5) Terrible at making my own decisions
6) Don't feel capable at completing tasks

There's probably more, but I could go on and on forever about it. Apart from that I'm as happy as can be, hahahaaa.
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Too ugly to pull a woman
Average speed cameras getting more common
British weather is what it is
I dont have enough money to sort my life out
Alcohol is bad for you apparently
It is sunday again!
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Where to begin?

- I've realised that very few of my 'friends' actually care about me or make any effort to talk. Feels like I could disappear and nobody would notice
- My best friend has just moved 200 miles away and I may never see her again
- It's my birthday next week and for the 5th year in a row i'll be spending the day alone.
- Need to start going to the gym but i'm too nervous
- Feel really lonely because everyone I know is in a relationship and i'm too ugly for a girlfriend
- Need to start looking for a new place to live (current tenancy has 3 months left), have nobody to live with
- Knowing that its the summer coming up and I will do absolutely nothing besides work
- Can't find the time to start driving lessons because I work all week
- Feel so inferior and that i've done nothing with my life compared to an average 24 year old.
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(Original post by sr90)
Where to begin?

- I've realised that very few of my 'friends' actually care about me or make any effort to talk. Feels like I could disappear and nobody would notice
- My best friend has just moved 200 miles away and I may never see her again
- It's my birthday next week and for the 5th year in a row i'll be spending the day alone.
- Need to start going to the gym but i'm too nervous
- Feel really lonely because everyone I know is in a relationship and i'm too ugly for a girlfriend
- Need to start looking for a new place to live (current tenancy has 3 months left), have nobody to live with
- Knowing that its the summer coming up and I will do absolutely nothing besides work
- Can't find the time to start driving lessons because I work all week
- Feel so inferior and that i've done nothing with my life compared to an average 24 year old.
Man I feel for you, if you lived local id say we go for a pint or something. Keep your headup mate, Im also 24 its harder to make friends at this age and the ones you make arent the same as your childhood friends.

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(Original post by sr90)
Where to begin?

- I've realised that very few of my 'friends' actually care about me or make any effort to talk. Feels like I could disappear and nobody would notice
- My best friend has just moved 200 miles away and I may never see her again
- It's my birthday next week and for the 5th year in a row i'll be spending the day alone.
- Need to start going to the gym but i'm too nervous
- Feel really lonely because everyone I know is in a relationship and i'm too ugly for a girlfriend
- Need to start looking for a new place to live (current tenancy has 3 months left), have nobody to live with
- Knowing that its the summer coming up and I will do absolutely nothing besides work
- Can't find the time to start driving lessons because I work all week
- Feel so inferior and that i've done nothing with my life compared to an average 24 year old.
I'm sure you've done more with your life already than you imagine. I know loads of people who are 24 and haven't worked a day in their life.

I totally feel you though, I hope things get better for you! :console:
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Maid Marian
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Oh dear oh dear oh dear

Staying up late last night was a bad idea, very bad:nooo: :cry2:

I'm still shaking from that nightmare
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I haven't got any friends and haven't spoken to another person In 4 weeks , that was a 10 minutes small talk I don't know how long it was that I spoke to someone before that

My university course seems useless( it doesn't specialise in anything) even if I got a first I don't think it would lead to a job,

I'm not getting good grades anyway

my chosen field is apparently about who you know , I don't even have anyone to talk to in class , how am I meant to network my way into a job?


Don't like my accommodation , don't want to live alone

I had anxiety now I feel empty , I don't even remember how it feels to be exited or have fun emotions are mute I'm livingy life like a zombie that's forgotten what its like to have relationships with people

I'm shy and everyone thinks I'm weird

I'm horny but incapable
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(Original post by Maid Marian)
Oh dear oh dear oh dear

Staying up late last night was a bad idea, very bad:nooo: :cry2:

I'm still shaking from that nightmare
What time did you stay up till?

Did you have to get up for work at 7 like me :ahee:

Sorry about your nightmare :hugs:
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(Original post by Maid Marian)
Finally, less specifically, just general feelings of inadequacy and depression and loneliness. I'm constantly thinking how much better the world would be if I didn't exist and how hardly anyone would miss or even notice I was gone if something did happen to me.
That's definitely not true, no matter how prevalent and seemingly sensible these thoughts can be. I've felt much the same the past 5 months too
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