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    (Original post by Melancholy)
    Making conversation.
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    My true self is a cucumber
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    My true self is a cucumber
    Greatguy is vegan :ninja: run before it's too late :ninja:
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    I'm so sorry xD...but this reminded me of this




    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isrF__5gdII
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    Frenchie
    This is good
    But what if you overthink and put yourself down naturally
    I tend to stab myself in the foot (methaphorically)
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    (Original post by shilshark)
    I'm so sorry xD...but this reminded me of this




    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isrF__5gdII
    :lol: :lol:

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    Frenchie
    This is good
    But what if you overthink and put yourself down naturally
    I tend to stab myself in the foot (methaphorically)
    Ty

    Tbh I think people should do what makes them happy ! And as long as you're happy the way you are, you should keep it up :3
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    metaphorically omg :lol:
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    (Original post by FrenchUnicorn)
    :lol: :lol:


    Ty

    Tbh I think people should do what makes them happy ! And as long as you're happy the way you are, you should keep it up :3
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    metaphorically omg :lol:
    Fair enough
    I would be happy if i just got out of my head and took risks and not care about my insecurities cause tbf everyone has them
    As no one is holier than thou

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    (Original post by toonervoustotalk)
    Fair enough
    I would be happy if i just got out of my head and took risks and not care about my insecurities cause tbf everyone has them
    As no one is holier than thou
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    Indeed everyone has insecurities. Do you put yourself down because of your insecurities ?
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    (Original post by FrenchUnicorn)
    Indeed everyone has insecurities. Do you put yourself down because of your insecurities ?
    :yes:
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    (Original post by toonervoustotalk)
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    You should not :hugs: (I know it's easy to say :/ )
    Are you afraid of what people could think ?
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    (Original post by FrenchUnicorn)
    You should not :hugs: (I know it's easy to say :/ )
    Are you afraid of what people could think ?
    Yes
    I care too much about what people think of me
    I mainly need someone else validation before i do something
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    (Original post by toonervoustotalk)
    Yes
    I care too much about what people think of me
    I mainly need someone else validation before i do something
    I have a friend like you. It took her time to be more herself but she did (and trust me , if SHE did , I think you can :lol: )
    What is the worse that could happen if people judge you ?
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    there are real questions and not sarcasm at all, and btw if I piss you off with my questions just tell me !
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    (Original post by FrenchUnicorn)
    I have a friend like you. It took her time to be more herself but she did (and trust me , if SHE did , I think you can :lol: )
    What is the worse that could happen if people judge you ?
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    there are real questions and not sarcasm at all, and btw if I piss you off with my questions just tell me !
    I will make up a over complex worst case scenario that will only happen if pigs fly :rofl:
    Ahh thanks for the kind words

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    Ok will tell you but i highly doubt anything will
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    (Original post by toonervoustotalk)
    I will make up a over complex worst case scenario that will only happen if pigs fly :rofl:
    Ahh thanks for the kind words
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    Ok will tell you but i highly doubt anything will
    Okay so , if you know that your scenario would happen of pigs fly, why are you still scared ?
    What will happen if people judge you ?
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    haha perfect then :P
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    (Original post by FrenchUnicorn)
    Okay so , if you know that your scenario would happen of pigs fly, why are you still scared ?
    What will happen if people judge you ?
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    haha perfect then :P
    Idk :dontknow:

    I think i think this way because when i was younger i asked someone out and got laughed at and it made me self concious
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    (Original post by FrenchUnicorn)
    What do you mean ?
    You say that people should carry on and not trust people. You don't make any effort to direct for people to address the route of their insecurities, to improve and be the best versions of themselves they can be.

    No, instead you play the role of a demagogue and telling everyone what they want to hear. And for what? Rep? Jesus.
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    (Original post by toonervoustotalk)
    Idk :dontknow:

    I think i think this way because when i was younger i asked someone out and got laughed at and it made me self concious
    Awww :console: but past is past !
    And not all people are the same trust me, I know what I'm talking about :yep:

    I think in your case the 1st step is to remember who you truly are. Look for your qualities ! You could even make a list of them , to prove to you that you are great ! - because I bet you are -

    Making a list is a thing, but believing in that list is harder. Honestly once you'll believe in your "list" , you'd have done the big part of the job !!

    You just need something to remind you that you are a good person!
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    no offense but the person who laughed at you by the past is a ****** - put a mean word here -
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    (Original post by VeniViciVidi)
    You say that people should carry on and not trust people. You don't make any effort to direct for people to address the route of their insecurities, to improve and be the best versions of themselves they can be.

    No, instead you play the role of a demagogue and telling everyone what they want to hear. And for what? Rep? Jesus.
    I said that I DID NOT trust. I. I am talking about myself. Besides this thread was adressed to someone.

    You don't want to hear what I said. -> I don't tell everyone what they want to hear.

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    oh dear. Long life reps.
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    (Original post by FrenchUnicorn)
    I said that I DID NOT trust. I. I am talking about myself. Besides this thread was adressed to someone.

    You don't want to hear what I said. -> I don't tell everyone what they want to hear.
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    oh dear. Long life reps.
    Of course this thread is about you.
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    (Original post by VeniViciVidi)
    Of course this thread is about you.
    Not about you tho. :girl:
 
 
 
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